Quote: (05-24-2018 03:25 PM)Parzival Wrote:
The book meditation on violence was mention here. I have read it and was very good. Here is a very good interview about self defence. I like this channel as well.
Most attacks are an ambush, happen when you don't expect it, lack fairness, lack rules. Also how important is your mindset to survive. Will you give up? Will you fight to win? To survive? To death? How strong is your desire to life? To give resistance? How fast can you pull the switch in your head?
Finally some last words of wisdom:
Brick don't hit back!
A few thoughts:
1. He talked about the differences between violent assault vs sport fighting not being the same.
My take: Yes and no. When you are drenched in sweat and trying to fight another dude covered in sweat and both of you are running on fumes, it gives you this factor of stubbornness. You are developing a drive of "Staying in the Fight". No Quit Mentality.
At some level, it's not what you always know, it's about that DOG. The Dog in you. That nastiness. That grit in the other guy's asshole needs to be you.
That old Mexican man in the video I posted earlier rushing that robber is a paramount example of this. Were that old man younger he would have dominated that guy alot better but nevertheless, he still won because he refused to stop.
It's more mental than physical. A half assed resistance yields a half ass result. Every time. The sport fighting helps develop that mindset and the character. This is why when guys PM me for advice on what to take or whatever, I often suggest them to take some boxing for 6 months or a year in between the knife fighting and other stuff they want. To understand violence to some degree you have to feel some appreciable amount of it.
Me personally. Having guns pulled on me by dope dealers growing up conditioned me to disarm a knife attacker much later. Mindset was fixated on disarm disarm disarm. Nothing else. Razor sharp focus like some corny anime character having an epiphany or something. Ultra Instinct Goku for those of you that are cool and watch DB. When I try to replicate that same focus after that happened, I can never do it. Too relaxed. Danger is just different. Go time is just go time. You either have it in you, or you don't, but the training helps.
Quote:Quote:
If it's natural to kill, how come men have to go into training to learn how? -Joan Baez
This silly woman actually is right although she probably isn't thinking about it the same way I do. The instinct to kill is natural, but to learn how to do it well or efficiently is not.
2. So one thing he talks about is how when people that are not trained come out with flurry of punches etc.
My Take: Yeah that is definitely true, but I will say this: When you see untrained attacks coming you smirk because it actually looks slow compared to whatever pros and semi pros you spar with from time to time. To me at least that is how it feels.
When you have to deal with people that are so fast, you have to get hit a couple times observe their strikes then instead of parry, block, or evade with your eyes, you do it on timing instead, you honestly should not get surprised like that by untrained people. You outta look like Floyd in his Philly Shell Defense where his face looks like "What is this punch?"
Age is a factor though. We will not always be young enough to do what we can do today. So his points are more valid from an older guy's perspective certainly.
Last point, he spoke about practicing being ambushed and his 2 man katas, etc. I highly agree with this. That is the way you want to train self defense. Unfortunately not all teachers do this. Attacks from the rear are invaluable. Hell we used to attack each other randomly outside or when we would stand around waiting for class to start. It really takes the stun out of being ambushed to the point where you never overreact and just quickly get the guy off you first and then ask questions later, from a mindset point of view.
As for the rest of the interview it was fine. Nothing to add.
Parzival you being a German, what do you take from the video? You do not live in the USA and cannot carry a firearm like these guys are talking about and whatnot. I cannot remember if you can even carry a knife there. How can you prepare your mindset for ambushes if you do not take self defense coursework and train? Does the change in environment put any pressure on you there?
Dating Guide for Mainland China Datasheet
TravelerKai's Martial Arts Datasheet
1 John 4:20 - If anyone says, I love God, and hates (detests, abominates) his brother [in Christ], he is a liar; for he who does not love his brother, whom he has seen, cannot love God, Whom he has not seen.