[Geronimo]

Since im a younger guy, lots of girls of the ages 22 and above don't want to date me. What approach should I take?

[Saladin]

Lie about it or don't bring it up.
The better you get at game and the more mature your style the older girls will think you are.

[MrPink]

(07-26-2011 02:02 AM)Geronimo Wrote:  

Since im a younger guy, lots of girls of the ages 22 and above don't want to date me. What approach should I take?

The Approach approach.

Lying is also good, but make it more plausible by growing a beard and having better inner game. 22 yr old women probably don't want to date you because you come across as immature.

[Samseau]

Easy routine to solve this.

Girl: "How old are you?"

You: "How old do you think I am?"

Girl: "Don't make me guess!"

You: "I like to see people's first impression of me."

Girl: "Uh... fine. You're... [her guess]"


And whatever she says is the age she probably wants you to be close to. Correct age discrepancies if they are significant.


So if you're 25, and a 22 year old girl guesses you at 26, you can just say, "Good guess!" And leave it at that.

But if she's 18, and you're 25, she'll probably guess 23-24. Then you say "Good guess! I'm actually 22." And then now you're only 4 years apart.

If she's 29 and you're 24, and she guesses some wise ass answer, "You look 21." You can reply "Actually I'm only 17 my mom sent me out here tonight to find a girlfriend." She'll laugh or roll her eyes, but then you follow up with "I'm a little bit older than that." She might guess, "23" or "24" or "25" but you want her to think you're actually closer than that, so just say "I'm a bit older than that" and leave it at that.

Regardless, lying about your age is easy and should always be done. Why let something so small obscure the bang?

[Geronimo]

Great advice, thx.

[UrbanNerd]

There is an "actual" age and there is a "street" age. Since I have very little facial hair, I was 29 (my street age) during ALL of my 30's.

[Moma]

(07-26-2011 05:36 AM)MrPink Wrote:  

(07-26-2011 02:02 AM)Geronimo Wrote:  

Since im a younger guy, lots of girls of the ages 22 and above don't want to date me. What approach should I take?

The Approach approach.

Lying is also good, but make it more plausible by growing a beard and having better inner game. 22 yr old women probably don't want to date you because you come across as immature.

Younger women don't want to date younger guys because it's looked down upon when the woman is in her 20's. I know because my dumb ass said my real age when i was 17 and this 22 year old was feeling me.
As soon as I told her my real age, she said.."Oh I thought you were older, I'll come back and we can kick it..etc"
Never saw her again.

So regardless of how mature you act, women in their 20's are highly driven by peer pressure. Lie your ass off.
Use the Samseau approach.

By the time you fcuk them (if you give them plenty orgasm), you can tell them almost anything and they will stomach it.

[wi30]

Samseau is dead on. Follow his advice and you'll be fine.

[dermanus]

I made this mistake with a girl 3 years my senior. I could have closed the deal if she hadn't known I was younger. I'm 26, she's 29. She and her friend (who introduced us) thought I was around 35.
I have a son; I think that's why girls think I'm older.

Let that be a lesson to others. Unless you have no other option, obfuscate. If that is taken away, lie.

[Frank Valentine]

"don't want to date me. What approach should I take?"

Date.

Date as in after sex? Shouldn't be a problem.

Date as in before sex? Your games not tight enough.

What is your specific problem?

Are you going into a set and getting blown out when you say your age. How far in the pick up do you get?

[tenderman100]

(07-26-2011 02:25 PM)Moma Wrote:  

Lie your ass off.
Use the Samseau approach.

By the time you fcuk them (if you give them plenty orgasm), you can tell them almost anything and they will stomach it.

Agreed. Totally. No woman wants to date a 59 year old -- me. I tell them I am in my late 40s...or early 50s.

After I fuck them senseless a few times, I may or may not tell them my real age.

I did reveal my age with this one woman I am seeing after a few times. She was shocked...and slapped me across the shoulder like I was a bad boy.

I still fuck her.

[Screwston]

"I'm old enough to drink"

I can usually get away with just saying that but I have to use Samseau's approach with some . I tell the bitch to guess and will agree with her or just say "close enough"

[Gmac]

The only time I lie is with girls that are 18-21. I'll tell them I'm 25 (which is only a few years down), and suddenly I'm cool.

[Moma]

(07-29-2011 12:50 AM)tenderman100 Wrote:  

(07-26-2011 02:25 PM)Moma Wrote:  

Lie your ass off.
Use the Samseau approach.

By the time you fcuk them (if you give them plenty orgasm), you can tell them almost anything and they will stomach it.

Agreed. Totally. No woman wants to date a 59 year old -- me. I tell them I am in my late 40s...or early 50s.

After I fuck them senseless a few times, I may or may not tell them my real age.

I did reveal my age with this one woman I am seeing after a few times. She was shocked...and slapped me across the shoulder like I was a bad boy.

I still fuck her.

Once you bang a lizard, she doesn't care if you are 152. You've already seen her naked, you practically always own that gooch. Hit it right and you got it on lock for life.

[Walderschmidt]

To modify the question:

What if you're in the U.S., not old enough to drink, yet she wants to get a drink at a bar?

Hypothetical question, I just moved back to U.S. from U.K.

Wald

[Moma]

(08-01-2011 02:37 PM)Walderschmidt Wrote:  

To modify the question:

What if you're in the U.S., not old enough to drink, yet she wants to get a drink at a bar?

Hypothetical question, I just moved back to U.S. from U.K.

Wald

Usually guys lie down about their age i.e from 30 to 23 not up i.e from 18 to 22..so I'm not sure how that issue can be addressed..

[MacNcheez]

(07-26-2011 02:02 AM)Geronimo Wrote:  

Since im a younger guy, lots of girls of the ages 22 and above don't want to date me. What approach should I take?

Most relationships go nowhere anyway. If it gets to the point where she actually wants to be a couple with you she won't care. If it doesn't get that far at least you got some ass.

The only one's that actually give a shit are girls under 26 that are still out whoring and care what their friends think.

I know plenty of girls in their 30's that date younger guys. It doesn't matter.

Lie until you get her "hooked".

[MiXX]

It's so funny how all this talk about lying to women about age, trying to get the right number you perceive she will be happy with, or lying to her about other things or trying to conceal shit...blah, blah blah....man! I'm exhausted just writing it.

Women are picky as fuck to just bang a guy.

Men don't give a shit so long as he does not end up in prison 'cuz she's too young or you she does not look old enough to be his grandmother!!! Jeesh! why the fuck are women so damn picky about a bang that likely will not even fucking count in her chic logic mind anyways?

In the end, it really does not mater how old you are imo, a woman (young or old) will bang you wether you are an old fart (Hugh Heffner) or 15+ years younger than her (Ashton Kutcher w/ Demi Moore) if she wants to.

It boils down to what you can do for her at the age you are at. Hugh Heffner has social status, power and $$$ so he bangs 22 year ols models. Ashton Kutcher gives Demi that "look at how I can still pick up young, hot guys at my age" image she craves for.

It's all bullshit until someone gets slapped...

Mixx

[boxwino]

Either

1. Don't bring it up.

2. Bust their balls if they think you're too young.

I'm in the camp for not lying. Same thing if you're 40/50 years old, own that shit. It's only a problem if you make it a problem. If she gives that big of a damn I'd wager you need to tighten something up in your inner/outer game (if this is happening a lot...if it's a really small sample could just be the girl's preference...she missed the boat, move on)

EDIT:
3. Play defensive. Make her guess your age. If you sense she would really have a genuine problem with your true age, go with the guess she makes you think she'd feel safe with. (not saying I agree totally, but this should work...and if you get in a genuine relationship, she'll develop enough emotions it shouldnt be that bad when you break it to her later)

[JofSuperman]

I've been burned by this one numerous times, I'm gonna start lying my ass off.

[gringochileno]

I'm 23. I frequently tell girls I'm 25 or 26 because I can get away with it and it removes a speed bump on the way to getting the bang. Fuck all that "it doesn't matter, there must be a problem with your inner game" bullshit, lying gets me notches pure and simple. So I'll continue to do it.

[metalhaze]

if she is way younger then lie...specially if you are meeting them online, cuz you'll be filtered out.

http://dangerandplay.com/2012/06/26/lie-about-your-age/

[little wing]

I always say I'm 18 and am in my first year of studying medicine when I game girls 18+.
Been doing this since I was 15 and seems to work quite well

[Nolecbo]

(08-01-2011 02:37 PM)Walderschmidt Wrote:  

To modify the question:

What if you're in the U.S., not old enough to drink, yet she wants to get a drink at a bar?

Hypothetical question, I just moved back to U.S. from U.K.

Wald

Your best bet is to go upscale.

Remember the bar's POV - it depends on the State, but if they serve you underage they are putting their license in danger, facing a fine or facing arrest.

Inexpensive college bars card the hardest, they can't afford any of that. Any place corporate is similar.

But a nice wine bar is there because the owner loves wine; they don't have experience with this part of the business and rarely do they get targeted by the police.

[RCron]

I lied on the age listed on my OKC profile, said I was 34 when I'm actually 41. I look young and 34 was the age most people guessed me at so I went with that. One girl I dated from the site was 28 and every time I would consider telling her the truth she would make some off handed comment about a "creepy" 40something guy who hit on her or her friends. After beating up her pussy to perfection for a number of weeks she found out my real age and there was literally no issue whatsoever. Her hamster even rationalized the whole thing by her telling me "you know, a guy can be creepy at ANY age."