[toejam]

(06-19-2016 02:08 PM)DonnyGately Wrote:  

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Directly ask them why you should waste your time on them.


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... Is this something you do via text, (I.e. text game) or in the physical , (i.e. face to face.)
Does it matter how you do it?

[Kid Twist]

A girl told me to text her two days ago because she was free. We then played a game of chicken where she said she was drinking wine and said all sorts of flattering stuff (but she wanted me to go there, though she told me she lived with a parent). The kicker was she lived 30 minutes away. I wasn't playing that and didn't want to overdo any sexual innuendo to think anything was guaranteed since we hadn't met live. I tell her, if not tonight, swing by tomorrow.

She then, the next day, when I said, "Come on by" acts like she wasn't sure about us setting something up (did she need a date?) and said maybe another time is better.

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I think like Gio said, you gotta just keep going because the flake rate is so high. Message them in 5-10 days just to see.

You literally have no idea what came up, flighty is the norm, fickle is the standard, and wondering why or acting pouty is just screwing future chances of them randomly getting hormones and stopping by

You can't predict any of it

Am I right?

[Giovonny]

(07-14-2016 08:51 AM)Kid Twist Wrote:  

What venues do you guys strive for 19-20 year olds?

Beach? Park?

They are all over the city. Public transportation, street, markets, shops, gyms, malls, universities, etc.

The biggest thing Ive learned is that you have to BE READY AT ALL TIMES!!!

You never know when a cute 20 year old will walk passed you. You don't have time to get ready, you have to be ready!

(07-14-2016 08:51 AM)Kid Twist Wrote:  

Just wondering if you meet first then pitch the "come over to my apt" for some conversation etc

Yes, of course, you usually have to establish some comfort and chemistry. Probably text with her a little and maybe meet up at a public place, etc.

But, that said, you also need to have a killer instinct and be able to sense when a girl might be looking for sex. Sometimes, they will come over to your apartment and fuck you, you have to look for that.

(07-14-2016 02:24 PM)Kid Twist Wrote:  

you gotta just keep going because the flake rate is so high. Message them in 5-10 days just to see.

You literally have no idea what came up, flighty is the norm, fickle is the standard, and wondering why or acting pouty is just screwing future chances of them randomly getting hormones and stopping by

You can't predict any of it

Am I right?

Some of it is predictable, but, YES!

I think this is a good perspective to have.

When you are new to learning game and you are approaching a lot of girls and getting a lot of numbers...

-You have nothing to gain by gain by "nexting" girls, better to text them in a more aggressive way, at least you have a chance to learn something.

-You have nothing to gain by over analyzing flakes, better to focus on putting more girls in your "fuck funnel", this encourages learning.

-You have nothing to gain by being inactive. Not texting, not approaching, not being aggressive slows down your learning, better to approach, text, do dates in volume.

Again, this advice is geared specifically towards younger girls. I've seen first hand how whimsical their decision making can be. You could be their worst option one week but their best option the next!

The bottom line is that if you want to learn quickly, you have to be aggressive about learning!

[Kid Twist]

(07-14-2016 03:35 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

Some of it is predictable, but, YES!

I think this is a good perspective to have.

When you are new to learning game and you are approaching a lot of girls and getting a lot of numbers...

-You have nothing to gain by gain by "nexting" girls, better to text them in a more aggressive way, at least you have a chance to learn something.

-You have nothing to gain by over analyzing flakes, better to focus on putting more girls in your "fuck funnel", this encourages learning.

-You have nothing to gain by being inactive. Not texting, not approaching, not being aggressive slows down your learning, better to approach, text, do dates in volume.

Again, this advice is geared specifically towards younger girls. I've seen first hand how whimsical their decision making can be. You could be their worst option one week but their best option the next!

The bottom line is that if you want to learn quickly, you have to be aggressive about learning!

My emphasis, but others should listen to it all.

I found starting last year that I couldn't figure out at all why a girl who I didn't consider in my league would randomly be off or on; it seemed like it should be easy.

Volume boys, volume. And be aggressive, as Giovonny says.

I used to say this often, actually (regarding driving, but works for it all):

[If you're going to err] "Always err on the side of aggression."

[DonnyGately]

(07-14-2016 11:48 AM)toejam Wrote:  

(06-19-2016 02:08 PM)DonnyGately Wrote:  

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Directly ask them why you should waste your time on them.


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... Is this something you do via text, (I.e. text game) or in the physical , (i.e. face to face.)
Does it matter how you do it?

Text game. I don't do the 'come over to my apt' thing right out of the gate - there are plenty of places they will meet you at. But you can't be 'pull' all the time, you gotta push too. There are 1000s of more hot college girls out there, if she qualifies herself to you that's 90% of the way to a meet.

[dopvlur]

(07-05-2016 12:53 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

(07-04-2016 04:50 PM)dopvlur Wrote:  

Looks like its already a lost notch.

Never admit defeat.

Text her again, but, be patient about it, wait 2 weeks or so, if she doesn't reply, wait a month, then text her again. Try to keep these texts flirty, fun, casual and NON-NEEDY! Don't kiss her ass or chase her, just invite her to hang out and have fun. Let her know that YOU are a sexual option for HER.

In the mean time, work on other girls!!!

If you are simultaneously working on 4 or 5 young girls, your chances of landing one increases exponentially!

Young girls make spontaneous decisions. On any given night, you could be her best offer. This is why its important to stay on her radar screen and make sure she knows that if she needs some dick, she can come to you.

I learned this thru trial and error. You don't always bang a girl the first time you try. Sometimes, it takes a 2nd, 3rd, 4th, or 5th effort. Its like anything in life, you don't always get it on the first try, so try again.

That is what I have learned about young girls.

One month they ignore you and the next month they fuck you.

Thanks for your input Gio, I just realized as DonnyG said this bitches cause a lot of oneitis, even pre-bang, so abundance mentality is going to be crucial.

I´m staying in the radar in all of the 18yo, just sending a text once or twice per week.