[Dirkus]

(07-06-2017 06:13 PM)AnonymousBosch Wrote:  

You shouldn't look like you're 'creeping' on her to begin with.

Hmm, this is something I instinctively-act on, and I'm not sure if I can put it into words well enough to get my point across.

Remember: every young, hot girl thinks she's the prize, but she's not your prize, you're hers.

You pre-dismiss her quickly to highlight the age difference: your controlled wisdom and experience vibe versus her immaturity and YOLO attitude.

You're triggering Daddy Issues. You want to fall into the roles of bemused dad with shit to do versus his fairy princess in a tutu trying to get his attention.

I'm not saying use these responses verbatim, but go for the kind of vibe like you're a cool senior in high school and wouldn't be seen dead dating a junior. It's not a dynamic that makes much sense to men out of high school, but most women, mentally, never move beyond High School Social Dynamics, so will pick up on it.

"Yeah, you're a cute kid. So, have you got an older sister?"

[Response to buy me a drink]. "Do these boys fall for that?" [wait for response] "I admire your honesty. Ah, what the hell." [signal bartender]

[response to flirtation] "Heh, that's sweet. If only I was younger."

"Is that what 'the kids' are into nowadays?"

She's probably not mature enough to handle a relationship with you. She's not yet at her sexual peak that older lovers reach, (this is that type of completely unproven bullshit that girls believe). She's not the experienced, worldly lover you'd prefer. The age differential wouldn't be proper, but oh yeah, it just might be tempting. You're reading her palm, and you can tell that she's full of youthful spirit and energy but still has a lot to learn.

Don't lay it on too thick - watch for over-sensitivity and reactivity - but the vibe you're giving out should be that, although she's very charming and amusing and you two are having a good time you know the age difference isn't really appropriate for anything long term.

Don't go too far into 'What would people think?' You don't want to seem too fuddy-duddy. You're a rule breaker, so would never care if people saw you dating a woman half your age. It's more: well, you'd most likely be bored at having nothing in common.

You're triggering a couple of things here: the female urge to want the behavioural freedoms that come with being older than they are, whilst avoiding the consequences of that freedom by longing to appear younger than they are; the need to be taken seriously, no matter how shit-witted the opinion they're espousing; the predictable 'don't tell me what to do?' desire to break social convention because the rules don't apply to her; and the instinctual female desire towards corruption of the spirits by those around them rather than elevation.

All you have to do is make her think that your sexual desire for her is strong, but your wisdom and experience is holding you back, thinking, yeah it might but fun, but it's a bad idea.

She'll want you, like her, to long to exist as raw emotion, and will work to lead you astray, because corruption with the threat of self-destruction is 'romantic' to them.

[xmlenigma]

Noted. Must remember stuff..

(07-14-2016 05:27 PM)Robert Plant Wrote:  

If your in your 40s and handsome...

Be very sexually forward with women over 40, otherwise they WILL label you as a beta provider and expect dinner dates and other stupid crap.

With women in their 30s just use normal game.

With American women in their 20s, be really MELLOW, give off a cool vibe and be extremely non-needy. They will give you obvious signals if they like you. Do not sexualize any interactions until they give you strong signals. The most you should do if you do not get obvious signals is very light kino (e.g. a brush against their hand). I am amazed by how much reaction I still get from women in their early 20s when I play it really cool. I can approach but need to wait for them to give the green light if I want to have a chance. Again, this is for American women only. In other places like Latin America for example the dynamic is different.

(07-06-2017 06:13 PM)AnonymousBosch Wrote:  

You shouldn't look like you're 'creeping' on her to begin with.

Hmm, this is something I instinctively-act on, and I'm not sure if I can put it into words well enough to get my point across.

Remember: every young, hot girl thinks she's the prize, but she's not your prize, you're hers.

You pre-dismiss her quickly to highlight the age difference: your controlled wisdom and experience vibe versus her immaturity and YOLO attitude.

You're triggering Daddy Issues. You want to fall into the roles of bemused dad with shit to do versus his fairy princess in a tutu trying to get his attention.

I'm not saying use these responses verbatim, but go for the kind of vibe like you're a cool senior in high school and wouldn't be seen dead dating a junior. It's not a dynamic that makes much sense to men out of high school, but most women, mentally, never move beyond High School Social Dynamics, so will pick up on it.

"Yeah, you're a cute kid. So, have you got an older sister?"

[Response to buy me a drink]. "Do these boys fall for that?" [wait for response] "I admire your honesty. Ah, what the hell." [signal bartender]

[response to flirtation] "Heh, that's sweet. If only I was younger."

"Is that what 'the kids' are into nowadays?"

She's probably not mature enough to handle a relationship with you. She's not yet at her sexual peak that older lovers reach, (this is that type of completely unproven bullshit that girls believe). She's not the experienced, worldly lover you'd prefer. The age differential wouldn't be proper, but oh yeah, it just might be tempting. You're reading her palm, and you can tell that she's full of youthful spirit and energy but still has a lot to learn.

Don't lay it on too thick - watch for over-sensitivity and reactivity - but the vibe you're giving out should be that, although she's very charming and amusing and you two are having a good time you know the age difference isn't really appropriate for anything long term.

Don't go too far into 'What would people think?' You don't want to seem too fuddy-duddy. You're a rule breaker, so would never care if people saw you dating a woman half your age. It's more: well, you'd most likely be bored at having nothing in common.

You're triggering a couple of things here: the female urge to want the behavioural freedoms that come with being older than they are, whilst avoiding the consequences of that freedom by longing to appear younger than they are; the need to be taken seriously, no matter how shit-witted the opinion they're espousing; the predictable 'don't tell me what to do?' desire to break social convention because the rules don't apply to her; and the instinctual female desire towards corruption of the spirits by those around them rather than elevation.

All you have to do is make her think that your sexual desire for her is strong, but your wisdom and experience is holding you back, thinking, yeah it might but fun, but it's a bad idea.

She'll want you, like her, to long to exist as raw emotion, and will work to lead you astray, because corruption with the threat of self-destruction is 'romantic' to them.

I've reached a stage where I can't hide my age, so play up on this now. My beard's gotten quite long, and whilst I still have a lot of colour, I've got two long grey streaks going down from each side of my mouth. A girl asked me why I didn't dye it. "What, and hide my devil horns?"

I mentioned a few weeks ago the girl I'm seeing told me she was going to see 'Wonder Woman' with her friends. I know she subtly asking me along, but I pre-dismissed the invitation. "Ah, I'm a bit old for kid's films. You go and have fun."

Get the differential?

[dknightbro]

I'm not that old and I'm already pushing my creep factor to high levels for learning purposes. Yea, I don't get chit tested as much playing it cool, but where's the fun & learning in that?

So it's not something I worry about since I've already gotten looks of disgust and scorn in my prime years. It's amusing getting that reaction from one girl and the next one is feeling you.

Getting those "creep" experiences is simply training for my older years. I actually don't feel like a creep doing it since I see it as honest game that some chicks will totally dig.

Disregard the reactions from the rest.

[jimbob]

19?
Why go so fkn low?