Quote: (06-06-2016 04:22 AM)GlobalMan Wrote:
For some reason people in these places have come to associate what you do to earn money with the essential "you-ness", instead of your interests or personality etc. Which is strange
There's a whole thread here about how to draw conclusions about women's personalities based on what they do. Why wouldn't women want to do the same?
BTW, there's a woman I keep seeing pop up in the dating sites that I have sort of a strange fascination with because...she works in a funeral parlor. She has this look in her photos that screams out "I feel so lonely. Nobody will date me because I bury the dead". There was also another I avoided once I found out she works as a psychologist--IN A PRISON. And another was a court bailiff with a really misanthropic attitude from having to deal with the dregs of society constantly. Whether they chose these professions because of a certain personality or via the course of working these kinds of jobs it slowly molded them...what they do matters in sizing them up. The same is true for guys.