[chochemonger1]

90 percent No or even when she picks the place in general. A man has
to pick the place always even if it is cheap and not expensive and you have 50 percent more chance of banging, at least. These last 2 weeks, in Brazil, got no play when I went to see 2 girls at a fancy place. And also they where 28 and 30.

[General Stalin]

A girl shouldn't be telling you where the date is going to take place or making the plans. She can offer suggestions, but as the man it is up to you to direct the date. If she tells you unsolicited to meet at some upscale joint, unless she offers to at least pay her way, then next.

[DonnyGately]

The odds of me letting a woman pick the meet are identical to that of her winning PowerBall.

In which case, I'll let her.

[Cattle Rustler]

Fuck no.

You're getting taken to the cleaners only to be friend zoned.

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If you already know, why ask you asking then?

[Latan]

(06-04-2016 03:17 PM)chochemonger1 Wrote:  

These last 2 weeks, in Brazil, got no play when I went to see 2 girls at a fancy place.

Did you pay the entire bill?

[pitt]

I met one of these girls in DR last year. She told me what restaurant we should go eat (she named one of the most expensive restaurants around where i was staying). I couldnt stop laughing at her face, she was a solid 8.5 in my book, I told her to delete my number, I set the rules bitch.

[DiogoFC]

Hey, man, are you back in Brazil? Where are you staying?

(06-04-2016 03:17 PM)chochemonger1 Wrote:  

90 percent No or even when she picks the place in general. A man has
to pick the place always even if it is cheap and not expensive and you have 50 percent more chance of banging, at least. These last 2 weeks, in Brazil, got no play when I went to see 2 girls at a fancy place. And also they where 28 and 30.

[el mechanico]

I have something to say about this.. We had a chat the other day with a friend that just got divorced and only online dates..

Now.

You're going because you're not hitting the streets and earning pussy with what you have in person so you should be subjected to all these lame scenario dates. That's laziness or lack of skillz whatevs.

Let me flip..

Yeah online is a pain but once the girl agrees to meet 90% of the work has been done so stick with it and try to manipulate the situation to the best of your ability.

What is expensive? 3rd world expensive? Yes Brazil is 3rd. 1000 dollar bottle service? Fuck no not anywhere.

[WestIndianArchie]

You can get the bang DESPITE the expensive place.
It's rare that you get the bang BECAUSE of the expensive place.

All goes back to game and whether you can get her out of her headspace and into yours.

If a chick is in gold digger mode, or she sees you as a provider - the relationship goes transactional, and she'll try to extract as much resources out of you as possible without giving up anything.

Because if she fucks on the first date, obviously she's not LTR material. And there are plenty of square dudes (even here) that abide by that mentality.

But if you scoop chicks @ the fancy bar at the new hip restaurant - it's basically a wash.

WIA

[chochemonger1]

(06-04-2016 07:18 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

You can get the bang DESPITE the expensive place.
It's rare that you get the bang BECAUSE of the expensive place.

All goes back to game and whether you can get her out of her headspace and into yours.

If a chick is in gold digger mode, or she sees you as a provider - the relationship goes transactional, and she'll try to extract as much resources out of you as possible without giving up anything.

Because if she fucks on the first date, obviously she's not LTR material. And there are plenty of square dudes (even here) that abide by that mentality.

But if you scoop chicks @ the fancy bar at the new hip restaurant - it's basically a wash.

WIA

Here in Brazil it is usually an older chick who suggests places like these. I only went to try something new. I thought over 30 chicks in Brazil might be quite cool since they take care of themselves, but they are damaged goods like all over the world.

[Rawmeo]

If she pays her half of the bill, then sure, why not.

However never bring a girl to an expensive place and pay for her if you haven't got the bang; she will thank you for the dinner, hug you, go back home, and call her alpha cock to come fuck her. You'll be straight in the friendzone, locked there, without a chance of getting out.

Remember, gifts / expensive dinners are not a way to get a girl. They are a way to thank a girl that you already have.

As a man, you set the rules. If she offers this place, just ask "all right but you'll have to share your half if we go". If she puts the slightest objection, then next her, because she's trying to get a free dinner on your back. A girl who wants you to pay for her without even putting out isn't the girl you want to waste your time with in the first place.

[JuanQuinQuin]

So many rules. My opinion, do what you feel like? Sometimes I take strippers I'm banging to a Steakhouse, sometimes I take quality girls to hole in the wall restaurants. That's because I feel like it.

However, know this. Certain women are in the prey for a boyfriend/husbands and/or an explicit relationship in the old fashioned way. If you play the Provider Game in any developed World Country, e.g the old USA, then her pussy closes and the 3rd Bang Rule or More will descent Upon you. And She will make you sweet for that pussy. It's up to you to decide how far you will like to play the game.

[Physician]

Only go there if YOU are the one feeling like it.

I'm not a fan of spending a lot of money on any girl, even the ones i've already banged, even though i can afford it. But sometimes I enjoy being in a fancy joint with a beautiful classy girl.

I second the thought that if a girl suggests going to such places without at least offering to share the cost, it's generally a bad sign.

[Saweeep]

It's easy to overreact to things and "next" people willy nilly. I think some of you guys are doing that.

To me it sounds like just another shit-test to be overcome.

[Saweeep]

(06-05-2016 12:18 AM)Rawmeo Wrote:  

However never bring a girl to an expensive place and pay for her if you haven't got the bang; she will thank you for the dinner, hug you, go back home, and call her alpha cock to come fuck her. You'll be straight in the friendzone, locked there, without a chance of getting out..

I think this is sound advice for a newb or for younger guys.

But a seasoned player, especially one who's a little older...I don't think it matters.

It's more important that you go where you are comfortable and are able to run your game.