[kaotic]

Being an asshole doesn't help your cause, neither does hate or anger.

Just leave that bitch be, and move on with your life.

You've got nothing to prove with her and nothing to prove to yourself about her.

If you do see her everyday, just play it cool and go about your business.


If she makes advances towards you or texts you just ignore them.

[Rhyme or Reason]

What's going on with your emotional states man? You seem unnecessarily volatile. You did end up fucking her so who cares?

Read this:

http://www.rooshv.com/dont-shed-a-single...you-banged

[TheDuncan]

When I say asshole I just mean smart ass funny comments, never taking shit seriously, teasing, treating them like kids essentialy, not an asshole coming from a place of anger or being rejected, thats how I am with any chick.

You are right though, just ignore her advances.

[kaotic]

Sarcastic asshole then, that's fine, since that's exactly who I am.

Yeah just play nice when in person, and ignore her.

Don't get frustrated with pussy, EVER.

Remember, bitches are a dime a dozen.

[TheDuncan]

Thanks man, I still get frustrated from time to time but the more I deal with women and as I get older I learn that its really not a big deal, women will always come and go.

Plus when some other bitch is sucking your dick, nothing else matters.

My biggest lesson at the moment is walk away and dont turn back, as much as I tell myself "dont do it, ignore her" I always find an excuse, "maybe I cant fuck her one more time..."

Like you guys said, who cares I already hit it.

[pialox]

You always want what you can't have. That's why you keep going back after it.

But you know what? You can have it, because pussy is just pussy. It's just attached to another girl that's all.

[TheDuncan]

Absolutly, from now on I will listen to you guys and not repeat the same mistakes (I do believe going through something is the best learning experince though)

This woman is CRAZY, got into an arguement with her and she kicked me out her place, made a big show in front of everyone, she has some serious baggage, emotional issues and all the signs were there for me, I dont get why I could not listen to you guys and what I felt inside (your heart never lies), I'll be 100% honest, crazy pussy is the best but is it really worth the drama and trouble?

The next day I sent her a text saying how I appreciate what she did for me and how she is a good person and how I hope she finds what she wants; nice reply back? Instead I got a crazy paragraph about how "IM JUST CRAZY RIGHT? I Thought you were a different man but I guess I should have known" blah blah.

I just text back "right"

I called her later because I had someting at her house that I needed, got it the next day, but that same day she text "btw thanks for telling me thank you I appreciate that.."

I text her "no worries, I think you are a good person and I hope you have a good one", wanna know what I got back? "OH BUT IM JUST CRAZY LIKE YOU SAID, I just bring pain to peoples lives, you dont want me as a friend trust me"

What. The. Fuck.

I have not text her and have decided thats it, no need to go back to that, I mean god damn..I will admit I feel bad for her in a way because as crazy as she is; she isnt a bad person, and she did some good things for me, I wonder what the hell made her that way as a person, Im gonna take a guess she will end up with some super beta in the end, some guy who just uses her or ends up alone.

Now I see why you guys say, avoid crazy, I am with the girl I should have been with the whole
time anyway, no drama, fun to be around and good sex although not as good as crazy pussy

[TheDuncan]

I would also like to add that as men we take situations and learn from them rather than sit and pout or cry about it, with that being said what did I learn the most from this?

1.Learn to walk away, you guys said it from the get go, if you arent getting what you want from the situation then move on, there is plenty of pussy out there, no one girl is worth extra drama, making you wait and games, when you have the ability to walk away at any time it makes you that much more confident you feel better about yourself, shows your value, and that value is up to you.

2.Make your intentions clear from the get go, some of you posted "you layed in this girls bed 3 times and nothing?" I admit I cuddled and made out but I opened my mouth a bit too much and I wasnt as clear about what I want physically, I wouldnt say I was completly giving off a "lets be good friends" vibe but I wasnt as clear as I needed to be.

This wasnt a faliure, it was an experince that I learned things from and Im grateful for it, on to the next.

[bucky]

(05-09-2016 11:00 AM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

(05-09-2016 06:35 AM)TheDuncan Wrote:  

So whats the proper verbal game?

Proper pre-1st-bang verbal game is essentially just sexualizing the conversation indirectly. If I could sum it up it succinctly it would be: Getting her to think about sex in general and sex with you without saying you're thinking about sex with her...though she knows that you are

It's really a combination of what you say, when you say it and how you say it.

Years ago in Ukraine I found myself on a walk with two girls I knew. One cute, one an annoying chubby nationalist who liked to rip on me and Americans in general. The chubster went off on a bitchy rant about how Americans aren't really good at anything. I did my best Patrick Bateman smile and said "well there's one thing I'm good at." Briefest of pauses, then changed the subject and continued the conversation.

The cute one was in bed with me within a week. She later mentioned that specific point in the conversation with her friend, both of whom were apparently interested in me, as somewhat of a turning point.