[Merenguero]

You lost it at the Facebook stage and just move on. If the subject of Facebook even comes up during the initial interaction, it's a lost cause. Some guys experiences may be different with that, but I don't know how much different.

[Easy_Mode]

(05-28-2016 10:46 AM)kirdiesel Wrote:  

Sorry for bumping this thread... but this girl has now come back!!!! I never responded to her last message that we shouldnt talk anymore.

I got the following text ON FACEBOOK today:

"Hi,.. I want to say sorry for my previous behavior.. that was not right on my part... I just wanted to see how you are doing"

To avoid making another mistake.. how would you proceed going forward from here?

Well, after you blew it or she wasted your time, personally, I would be far more aggressive. Tell her she can make it up to you. She'll ask how. You won't beat around the bush on this. You'll tell her she can fuck her way out of the doghouse, or some such nonsense. If she balks, or tries to change the subject go ghost. She'll go away or straighten up.

You're not taking her out. You had no behavioral problems. She did. Don't come across as demanding, but be funny, yet stern. She should know you're serious, but at the same time laughing.

[swiss rabbit]

(05-28-2016 10:46 AM)kirdiesel Wrote:  

I got the following text ON FACEBOOK today:

"Hi,.. I want to say sorry for my previous behavior.. that was not right on my part... I just wanted to see how you are doing"

To avoid making another mistake.. how would you proceed going forward from here?

wait some time, don't seem too eager
maybe then say something about her behavior being a bit juvenile but it's fine, you're over it, don't right away ask to hang out, she how she reacts, if she seems interested, seem disinterested and then invite her to hang out...go out for a drink and then go home... just my opinion

[kirdiesel]

Thanks guys... I followed Easy Mode's method and am now waiting for an answer to see how she answers and it develops...

Appreciate the help.