Quote: (04-30-2016 09:47 AM)General Stalin Wrote:
Quote: (04-30-2016 01:46 AM)Suits Wrote:
Quote: (04-30-2016 12:53 AM)General Stalin Wrote:
Everything about "dating" for generation Y is casual. Just hanging out, whatever, grabbing a couple drinks and maybe going back to one of eachother's apartments to bang if you're feeling it, and maybe seeing eachother again a week or two later if you care to and can fit it into your suuuuper busy schedule.
That's because women have spent the last two decades punishing men for having serious intentions.
This is true. Women have spent the last two decades devaluing men who want to court traditionally, provide, and family-up. Women have been brainwashed since the 60's to think that settling down with a man and taking care of a family and a home is basically slavery. Any man who resembles that sort of paradigm is unattractive.
Quote: (04-30-2016 01:46 AM)Suits Wrote:
Quote: (04-30-2016 12:53 AM)General Stalin Wrote:
The reason being that the point of dating in the first place is finding a suitable mate to start a family with. Nobody wants families anymore so what's the point of taking a person seriously? Most young men and women don't believe in marriage, and certainly don't want to have kids - so what incentive is there besides just fucking eachother? People don't even know how to properly love and care for eachother anymore because there is no goal besides just not being alone for a while.
A lot of guys are serious about having a family. However, the female 7's and above (and many of the 5's and 6's) have no intention of trading all the attention and free prizes they get for having boobs in exchange for a responsible family life.
They only start taking marriage seriously once their looks begin to fade, the attention from high value males disappears and they need a quick bail out.
I don't know man from my observation a lot Millennial men have drank the Kool-Aid too. I have a lot of lefty-leaning male friends who have the same mindset as women: kids are icky and just get in the way of the fun and exciting life that 99% of them are never going to have.
For every man who has drunk the cool-aid, there's a guy in his early twenties that falls below the 20th percentile on the attractiveness scale for men, who would happily be a reliable husband. This is because men who are not more attractive than 80% of men are invisible to women and would jump at a chance be locked into a stable relationship with a 6 or better.
Until the wall is imminent, every female 6 or above believes that she deserves a man who is more attractive than 90% of his peers.
Of course, these man are almost always natural players (who will enjoy the ride until about thirty and then settle down with a ball-buster that will make his life a disappointment, which will lead to lots of use of the phrases "whatcha gonna do?" and "women, can't live with 'em, can't live without 'em. Shucks."
The sweet spot is the 80-90% percentile of men on the attractive scale. These men are visible to women, but not good enough to settle down with because they lack absolutely perfection. These guys have witnessed the success of the 90%+ crowd and faced the rejection of women who will fuck them, but not "settle" for them. The smart ones realize that the best plan is improve themselves and marry a woman a decade younger than them a their peak in their early to mid-thirties.
The dumb ones get locked down by an unattractive wall-approaching ball buster who ends up even uglier than the one the 90%+ gang has to put with.
My point being, that there's a ton of guys an attraction percentile equivalent to everything south of an 8 who would definitely go for marriage to a woman of an equal level of attractiveness who is still in her early twenties.
But that doesn't work for the charming women of the new millenium because YOLO.