[philosophical_recovery]

(04-17-2016 08:35 PM)AnonymousBosch Wrote:  

[Beautiful analysis of the female gaze and how it relates to the wall, femininity, and all things wholesome and good in the world]

Reviewing past flings, I realized how I fell into a trap of girls that had mastered the art of hiding the 1000 cock stare, as we call it in these parts.

It didn't even need to be a girl that had slept around a lot. Sometimes, it's girls that held off, but when marriage didn't happen in their early 20s, they caved and lost their virginity to the wrong man, and were hurt so severely that they cannot truly love again.

But, in the pictures I have with them, it's there. The smile missing the participation of the eyes. The "toleration" glare. It's all there.

I used to take these sorts of things personally. Now, I know it's not about me.

It's about what they've been through.

To further derail, I'm completely out of the loop on this Coachella business. Coachella, what's that?

Regardless, I've met women, the majority of which happen to be eastern european, although there are some plain old american girls that qualify, who get past this "reliving our glory days", and who would still make good companions. In fact, I know a few of them that realized the sand was almost out of the hourglass and they latched onto the best man they could find, got hitched, and popped out kids.

They were never the best looking girls, but they could make up for it with pleasantness and hard work.

The male equivalent of the same is a middle aged man always looking back to his highschool days as the best time of his life. Al Bundy provides a more humorous example:

In both cases, male or female, neither person worked hard to keep the motion in their life.

It's easy to look back to the past with a maudlin glance, as these women have, or in an ostentatiously overly sentimental anecdote to a son. The real effort is overcoming the urge, and making a better life using the past as a lesson.

The past is at best a lesson. It cannot be re-lived. Make the best of the time you have, and carve a way into the future.

Change, adapt. If the past contains your best memories, and you are not making new ones now-- if you are not waking up in the morning awaiting the adventure that comes-- you are in a rut and need to clamber your way out.

[Veloce]

A lot of hate in this thread could easily be applied to L.A. as a whole.

So many thin, good looking girls, ruining their looks by following idiotic trends and fashion styles that remove their femininity.

That $20,000 could easily be hers to spend. I remember I once got hooked up with some older career chick by a mutual acquaintance. The one that was hooking me up with her told me, "You'll like her a lot. She's super independent, has a career, has her own money..." as if these were the selling points. She was entirely average and a shitty lay, but those words always stuck with me, "...has her own money...".

You guys talk about women spending hubby's money as if that's something unnatural. It's not. The man earns the resources and the woman spends it.

The problem is how she's spending it, and the lack of patriarchal principals that enforce this tradition.

But I'd rather live in a society where women are forced to spend hubby's money than having a population of women out there that "have their own money." The latter scenario is much worse for men.

[AnonymousBosch]

$20,000 spent and she doesn't look that much different than what you'd get if you gave Shazza from 'Housos' $20 and told her to head down to her local Vinnies Vogue*, whom I guarantee are well stocked in cammo jackets, dead granny thigh-high vinyl boots and original G'n'R tour t-shirts. Meanwhile, prepare for another lecture from the ANZ Bank about how women's lifetime savings are less because of Sexism.



*Ozspeak for the St Vincent De Paul Society's charity stores.

[They Call Me Mister Tony]

I would actually like to go out to Coachella in the future.

Has anyone here been to Coachella and if so, how was your experience? Was it worth it?

[El Chinito loco]

(04-18-2016 12:34 AM)Veloce Wrote:  

You guys talk about women spending hubby's money as if that's something unnatural. It's not. The man earns the resources and the woman spends it.

The problem is how she's spending it, and the lack of patriarchal principals that enforce this tradition.

But I'd rather live in a society where women are forced to spend hubby's money than having a population of women out there that "have their own money." The latter scenario is much worse for men.

Very good point and it's one of the most commonly misunderstood things that people who grew up in the west have when it comes to countries in Asia.

Women are still by and large feminine in countries in Asia and know their role precisely because these gender roles are kept in place. You have gold diggers and basic frivolous bitches too but plenty of asian women manage household finances responsibly and won't spend their man into a hole. It's in their best interest NOT to tank the household.

On the other hand women in the west have a free pass to literally destroy everything in their path for their own trivial amusement.

When women start becoming career orientated office taskmasters so goes the femininity and the vag dries up fast.

When society starts masculinizing women and the whole independent womyn with own money thing (who gives a shit) starts becoming the end game then we have what we see today in the anglosphere.

Plenty of disaffected unhappy women living out material fantasies and plenty of men who no longer take marriage seriously at all and increasingly start dropping out of productive society altogether.

[hedonist]

(04-17-2016 11:26 AM)scorpion Wrote:  

What's striking is the utterly shameless narcissism and self-importance on display. It's painfully obvious that these women regard themselves as celebrities. Hence the absurdly overpriced "designer" clothes that look like absolute shit, the stylists and plastic surgeons, the VIP passes and of course, the cataloging of the event on social media through carefully staged photographs designed to titillate their "followers" (fans).

Honestly when I first saw this steaming pile of shit tv program Big Brother in Australia I knew we were in a change for the worse.
This slob got famous for doing a bum dance on national tv and even had a music video made.

One other fish and chip show owner who won, quickly left her husband and started turning up on various red carpet events but faded away very quickly.

Before reality tv/social media you 90% of the time needed some sort of talent whether it was acting/musical etc to get noticed....now you can take a student grant use it to go to Thailand with your GF (which 100's of thousands of people have done) and start blowing up on websites.






Because it started out as a sort of anti-establishment event, and it's been corrupted by money and status seeking attention whores bloggers, post wall women, etc. As has been pointed out.


But that's pretty much Western Society as a whole....it steals from the East, repackages it as sex (yoga...how spiritual do you really think someone is that takes 100 selfie photos of themselves posing on a mountain?) or health to make $$$$

[Leonard D Neubache]

(04-17-2016 11:26 AM)scorpion Wrote:  

...With social media, however, each woman becomes the star of her own reality show, and receives a constant stream of adoration from her followers/fans...

Hesitant as I am to nitpick a post that has a hojillion likes, I don't think women like that receive any genuine adoration from fans and followers.

They opt into a kind of delusional commune wherein they add likes to every pathetic message and picture their comrades broadcast with the unspoken agreement that when they broadcast their own pathetic messages and pictures that their comrades will reciprocate.

It's all a giant circle jerk. Nobody involved gives a shit about anyone else in the circle. They're just there to get off.

p.s. I think there's a movie script in this. Something like the 6th sense. A woman keeps going to Coachella year after year into her forties, and at the end of the movie it turns out she OD'd during her first visit and she's just a fucking ghost haunting this earth.

[AnonymousBosch]

(04-18-2016 04:46 AM)Leonard D Neubache Wrote:  

They opt into a kind of delusional commune wherein they add likes to every pathetic message and picture their comrades broadcast with the unspoken agreement that when they broadcast their own pathetic messages and pictures that their comrades will reciprocate.

They're damn well keeping score too. I've watched multiple passive-aggressive outburts from various younger women where they'll demand everyone 'like' a post so they know who their 'real friends' are otherwise they'll remove them from their friendlist. You can imagine the chain of events this starts.

A girl I talked to a while back thought it was 'weird' that I didn't have a Facebook. I said I was sick of watching my female relatives create nuclear amounts of 'drama' with one another on it. I finished with a shrug. "I think Facebook is a girl thing really. I stick to car forums", and that seemed to satisfy her.

Of course, by 'female relatives' I mainly meant prospective bangs or ex-bangs but she didn't need to know that.

[yeppels]

What a waste of money. I went camping at Coachella two years ago. Spent all our money on a tent, food, and booze. Talked to some people who did the "VIP Experience", in other words, payed a few grand to stay at a hotel. The real VIP experience is camping. Basically no sleep for 3 days, getting plastered every morning with your neighbors while playing a 30 person game of flip cup, and partying all day and all night.

Partying with cool people from all over the world, this is the VIP experience for me at a music festival.

Plus, the hottest girls were wearing short shorts, blouses, and flowers in their hair. Cost them $30.

[LeeEnfield303]

(04-17-2016 05:19 AM)HankMoody Wrote:  

How does a hairdresser have $20k to blow on a concert?

"Mommy, how do you have $20k to blow on a concert?"

[kaotic]

These females are fucking retarded, no matter what, these supposed "cougars" can't compete for shit compared to a college girl scraping money together for a Chella wristband.

VIP Section is cool, but fuck that, I'd rather run around with the regulars.

The amount of hot girls, drugs, and booze there is absolutely fucking insane.

Noone gives a fuck about how much your shit costs there, it's a about the look, it's fucking hipsterville for bitches with the most outrageous outfit, lack of clothing, or those stupid ass hipster hats.

Most the dudes are shirtless or rock a tank top, or out of control hipster fashion.

After the 2 weekends of Coachella is a festival called Stagecoach aka the Coachella for country music.

If you think Chella is bad for old cougars, you should see Stagecoach, especially in the RV Park (seperate wristband). It's bad, all these old milfs and wanna be cougars drunk as fuck wanting to relive their hayday.

Good thing is you got alot of Buckle Bunnys aka sluts in boots who dress the part but don't know shit for music.

It's hilarious - both festivals are a fucking fashion show now. However, the music is halfway decent.

It's going to get even worse, Coachella is creating a new festival slated for October - featuring old school bands which will bring older women in DROVES.

http://musicfeeds.com.au/news/coachella-...p-legends/

Quote:

Sir Paul McCartney, The Rolling Stones, Roger Waters, The Who, Bob Dylan, and Neil Young

Yes you heard right, while I'm looking forward to this, most people my age won't be interested, meaning and older crowd and older women competing.

[El Chinito loco]

You should take pictures of some of the old grannies at the classic rock festivals.

I imagine it's wall to wall ancient whores with mustaches, tits down to their knees, and stretch marks reliving their "glory" days when Mick Jagger may or may not have dropped a hot load on their face when they were 18 and waiting in line to suck off the band.

[Belgrano]

(04-17-2016 01:53 PM)monster Wrote:  

Coachella girls - there's really no concentration of hotter girls in the world. If this is what happens when anti-establishment sells out then I hope every anti-establishment thing everywhere sells out!:

Surely you made a mistake when choosing pictures, this one doesn't have anything in common with the other two.
From left to right:
1. Chubby, weird face, past her prime if there ever was one.
2. Classic butterface.
3. FAT.
4. Manface.

Compare that to the supernova of femininity in the second pic or the group of fit and slim smokeshows in the third one.
Must be the cheerleader effect.

[TheOllam]

(04-16-2016 07:18 PM)Oz. Wrote:  

LOL Totally True with todays Wiminz March. The leaders are already figuring out how to move those crowds to music venues for big bucks!

[Abelard Lindsey]

Rod Dreher (crunchy con guy) made a BFD over this. He was going on and on about how bad and evil these women are for doing this kind of cosmetic surgery and doing this and that and what not. He made clear why most people tune out social conservatives these days.

[Splord]

(04-16-2016 06:10 PM)TheOllam Wrote:  

spending about $5,000 to have the skin on her stomach and the backs of her legs tightened."[/i]

5000 for a back-of-legs skin lift?
WTF bitch, just walk more, it is good for your health , better for the skin at the back of your damned legs and most importantly

it 'll do wonders in FILLING THE HUGE EMPTINESS THAT IS YOUR LIFE!

[Goldin Boy]

(04-16-2016 10:11 PM)polar Wrote:  

(04-16-2016 06:10 PM)TheOllam Wrote:  

"The single mom paid $8,000 to have fat removed from her stomach and inner thighs earlier this week before she heads to Coachella next weekend (the festival takes place, with the same lineup, over two weekends). She also dyed her hair, got fake eyelashes and plumped up her lips at the dermatologist."

“I need to do my best to prepare for the outfits that I’m wearing,” says Crowley, who works as a hairdresser and lives in Putnam County. “I’m kind of wearing short shorts and crop tops.”

Where DOES a single mom hairdresser find 8 grand for plastic surgery on top of a $400 ticket?

Putnam County is one of most affluent counties in the US. There are no inner-cities areas/low-income communities. It's an exurb of NYC, so whatever salon she works at, must be an upscale place where they charge exorbitant prices. She probably gets child support too.

I don't see why anyone here is outraged about it unless they're paying for the surgery so she can give the cock carousel 1 last spin before the Wall.

And that pic in the article doesn't do her justice. Fat people don't exist in NY's suburbs.

WB, raw.

[Hoser]

The biggest fan of Coachella I know is a square-shouldered, high-T blonde of impressive build and floppy tits. She once showed me, with no provocation, a text her then-boyfriend had just sent her, "You fuck like a prize fighter!", expecting me to approve.

I was quite friendly with the chick, but still, It was all I could do to nod and raise my eyebrows in feigned approval, meanwhile thinking, "This is not what a woman should be aspiring to."

PS: I was purple pill at the time, else I might have given her the straight dope.

[Highpool]

Bosch: Nothing hurts a girl more than building up a mental image of a guy as the ultimate badass, only to see him turn out to be a spineless wuss when the right kind of pressure is applied to him. THAT extinguishes the light. It teaches her that no matter how much strength and confidence a guy exudes, if they hook up and go long term the facade's likely to crumble.

Being dumped by a guy she's still into is like a dull ache compared to that. If a girl experiences that once, twice, 5 times, 30 times, there's still hope. "Maybe if I polish up my girl game enough, mr right won't be able to resist tying himself to me. 31st time's the charm!"

[TheOllam]

It's Back, let's see what crawls out of 2017:

Coachella, the music festival that attracts many of our favorite celebrities, got off to a rocky start Friday in Indio, California.

Headliner Radiohead ran into technical difficulties, leading the British band to storm off the stage twice.

[CRR]

While it's certainly possible that these women have the money or someone to milk it from, as someone who works in finance you'd be surprised (or perhaps not) how people view money, especially women like this. Furthermore, practically every plastic surgeon accepts financing.

I get that people have unforeseen expenses or debt that was the result of bad luck and decisions made when one was much younger. But women like this who are old enough to know better will justify it to themselves no matter what, often under the guise of "I deserve to be happy" and just put it on their credit card.

The guy whose wife spent 20k or whatever so his wife could defatten herself, my first reaction was "huh?".

But then it occurred to me, he probably would pay anything just to get her out of the house for an extended period of time. I'll have dinner/drinks with friends/relatives of mine who are married to nice, pleasant women and think "It would be nice to meet a nice, pleasant woman". Then I read about women like this, who represent the vast majority that I've met throughout my life and think "Thank the lord I'm not the guy paying 20k to make my wife go away for a few days".

[Jetset]

I didn't know any specifics about Coachella before, just in general that it's a music festival in Palm Springs.

Holy hell, seems like every single bitch on my Instawhore, the side account I keep for fap material, is there. Isn't there literally anything else going on for attention whores with big fake tits to do?

[Latinopan]

(04-16-2016 06:10 PM)TheOllam Wrote:  

So what are the odds the husband is banging a 20-something while the wife is away pretending to be a 20-something at Coachella?

More likely, given how much money the husband is spending, I assume they are middle upper class, the husband just want to get the wife far away for as long as possible and he is willing to pay for it, he certainly knows she fucks some guy while she is out but many of these men don't care, more likely he is banging the 19 years old nanny.

[TheOllam]

#Coachella #Coachella2018

Tickets officially sold out for 2018. So Basic.

[churros]

From the Guardian rag. Beyoncé as corporate black feminist idol.

Quote:

When she headlined Glastonbury for the festival’s 40th anniversary, in 2011, it was big for Beyoncé. Tonight’s performance, in the slot she was initially scheduled to do in 2017 (before announcing her second pregnancy), is big for Coachella.

...

Thus begins a show that is somehow not just about Beyoncé. She makes it about far more than her or her career: it’s about black excellence, female power and the unrelenting possibility of self-belief. She has only a handful of white dancers among a reported 100. WTF? Her set is in thrall to soul, jazz, gospel, dance, melody and music itself. With her second song, Freedom, she creates a literal movement with her orchestra in motion; it feels like a march for purpose.

Tonight, Beyoncé plays political as fiercely as she plays feminist. During Sorry she hones in on the line “suck on my balls” with furious wrath. She flits between going hard and expressing sweet graciousness towards the audience during her addresses. The artistry of the transitions between songs, and the travel across her 20-year catalogue – combined with the sheer awe of scores of people on stage moving and playing in perfect unison – proves that Beyoncé is in a league of her own. She is the greatest of a generation, both a leader of a huge group and a solo star of unconquerable talent.

...

There is clearly a double entendre to the notion of wokeness, but the show doesn’t get woke at the expense of actually waking everyone up to the joy and togetherness of live performance. EDITOR

...

Mid-way through the set, Beyonce had turned to the crowd and, with total sincerity and humility, said: “Thank you for allowing me to be the first black woman to headline Coachella.” The crowd left the Polo fields with only one thing to say: “I was there.”