What are your thoughts on dating or sleeping with older women?
Though I've done it before it makes me uncomfortable for a few reasons:
1. It's non-traditional; in the vast majority of cultures prior to the modern era men dated younger women, sometimes younger by decades or more, therefore it feels like a reversal of gender roles, and something that the feminist movement would favor just for the sake of "female empowerment"
(The feministic Joan Jett "I love Rock N Roll" song about a cougar picking up some young stud at a bar comes to mind here).
2. If a guy is primarily or exclusively into older women then it makes me think he may have mommy issues and want a woman who 'controls him' or wears the pants in relationships.
(This is also why I don't like the stories I hear about female teachers fucking their students - if I had a son I'd want him learning to use game and pick up girls his own age, rather than be seduced by some domineering female authority figure).
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On the flip side, here are some possible advantages I see to being with women who are older than you:
1. Older women in general seem less likely to sleep around and more "mature"; and while some guys here are completely against dating single moms, single moms are less likely to want to sleep around with a bunch of guys or play silly games since they have other commitments in their life; a lot of em don't get out of the house too much and are more appreciative of an alpha who shows interest in him, as opposed to bratty millennials
(Plus as long as a guy stands his ground and refuses to become an income sponge for her kids just to get laid, then he shouldn't have too much to worry about).
2. A lot of older women I see have more feminine charm than millennial girls; while this varies I see far more millennial girls acting spoiled, foul mannered, and snotty than I do women in their 30s-40s.
Though I've done it before it makes me uncomfortable for a few reasons:
1. It's non-traditional; in the vast majority of cultures prior to the modern era men dated younger women, sometimes younger by decades or more, therefore it feels like a reversal of gender roles, and something that the feminist movement would favor just for the sake of "female empowerment"
(The feministic Joan Jett "I love Rock N Roll" song about a cougar picking up some young stud at a bar comes to mind here).
2. If a guy is primarily or exclusively into older women then it makes me think he may have mommy issues and want a woman who 'controls him' or wears the pants in relationships.
(This is also why I don't like the stories I hear about female teachers fucking their students - if I had a son I'd want him learning to use game and pick up girls his own age, rather than be seduced by some domineering female authority figure).
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On the flip side, here are some possible advantages I see to being with women who are older than you:
1. Older women in general seem less likely to sleep around and more "mature"; and while some guys here are completely against dating single moms, single moms are less likely to want to sleep around with a bunch of guys or play silly games since they have other commitments in their life; a lot of em don't get out of the house too much and are more appreciative of an alpha who shows interest in him, as opposed to bratty millennials
(Plus as long as a guy stands his ground and refuses to become an income sponge for her kids just to get laid, then he shouldn't have too much to worry about).
2. A lot of older women I see have more feminine charm than millennial girls; while this varies I see far more millennial girls acting spoiled, foul mannered, and snotty than I do women in their 30s-40s.