[Flossie]

Hey guys, need some advice about one of the girls i've previously mentioned.
The last few dates we have been on, we have escalated nicely, make outs, her grinding on me, but when pushed for the bang she backed off and said "not tonight". Incidently this was the fourth or fifth "real" date we have been on that we banged.

On the second last date we went on, we went to dinner, then bounced back to her place with a bottle of wine. She said we couldn't go inside because "the place was a mess". So we chill outside, get a wood fire cranking, and relax under some blankets watching the stars, drinking a nice bottle of wine. We then start to make out, and things get a little heated, I tell her lets go inside where its more comfortable, to which she politely declines, and informs me that she needs to go to sleep soon.

At this point I was confused as shit, because I usually have a pretty good read on people, but this girl was giving nothing away. we make out some more, and then start chatting. I very openly asked her if she was seeing anyone else, to which she said no, then I asked her if she likes me. She said she likes me a lot, "which is the problem"-quote. Then she says this, "i have no experience with guys, like NONE what so ever. No experience" "do you get what im trying to say?" I asked if she was a virgin to which she said yes. We made plans to hang out on valentines, and be each others Valentine. I would be her first. How cute.

I was inwardly relieved because I thought she wasn't interested in me, due to her taking fucking ages to get back to me via text.
Fast forward to saturday, i pick her up, take her to the hotel I have booked for our romantic evening. We drink, we dine, and then we bang.
funny thing is....in the heat of the moment we skipped the condom. And I wasn't aware she wasn't on the pill. She was a little bit freaked out at that, I tried to calm her down by playing it off, she said next time "protection will be used, until pills are taken". we didn't bang in the morning because last night put her off.
We went to lunch after we checked out, got an uber back to her place, the uber driver mistook her for my gf, to which she didn't object. Back at her place we talked for a bit before she kinda chased me out so she could go shopping and go to the chemist to get the morning after pill. We kissed, and when I said we should do that again when I'm back from work she said she would love too.

I sent her a text a few hours later asking how everything went at the chemist.
Still haven't gotten a reply, which isn't that unusual for her. I dont know if im over thinking this or not, because at the end of the day I got laid.

I'm not super worried if she flakes out and disappears into the aether of the universe like some girls are known to do, but I't would be better if she didn't because she is genuinely a cool chick.

What are your opinions on this?
I'm not contacting her again until after I come back from work in 10 days, where I wont have reception.

[SydneyD]

You're overthinking

[Vienna]

(02-15-2016 10:31 AM)Flossie Wrote:  

Then she says this, "i have no experience with guys, like NONE what so ever. No experience"

(02-15-2016 10:31 AM)Flossie Wrote:  

I'm not super worried if she flakes out and disappears into the aether of the universe like some girls are known to do, but I't would be better if she didn't because she is genuinely a cool chick.

Yet you create a thread about this girl.

It's okay mate, we all get invested. Hell I get this way way more than I want.

Your dick and brain are on a collision course. Recognize this and don't act on the impulses you get concerning this girl - let any actions you want to take regarding her stew for a good while. You displayed neediness if she had to chase you out and you then texted her shortly after wondering how she was doing. You're not her boyfriend.

My advice would be to take a chill pill, hit the gym and read a book. Hit up some girls on Tinder. Don't contact her - let her wonder about you.

If she ends up in your bed again, great. If not, well you already fucked her bro. In the words of Roosh: You're one of the sexual popes of her lifetime. Good job!

[Remington]

Kudos for banging a virgin.

Maybe this chick has been messing around with a few women which could explain her supposed inexperience. So...threesome?

After banging a girl, I was always have her text me either after she gets home or back from whatever it is she needs to do. You want a positive text saying that she had fun with you and/or wants to see you again. This is the protection text, in case she goes bonkers.

[texas]

Good job on hitting it. As a rule, any time you think about a girl like you are and if you EVER make a post and especially a thread about her, you are too invested. Does not matter how cool she is or you think she is. Pursue another girl or call an old plate in the meantime and occupy your mind with other things. It sounds like you are doing this already but Im just writing this since its the newbie thread.

If you like her, the way to get her to like you is to give her a taste and disappear and fuck off for a while like you are doing. Ignore her even if you dont want to. Your dick works in other girls too. If you dont like her, do the exact same and when she hits you up while youre with other girls your demand is proven. The behavior is the same whether you like her or not. Dont even text her when you get back. Most likely she will text you by the time you return and have coverage. Especially if she really was a virgin.

Pretend like you are fishing. You are the fisher, your lifestyle or sex or whatever value you offer is the hook, and she is the fish. Throw out your bait and hook her. When she has shown interest in your bait, instead of reeling in the fish, let it swim around for a while. Step back and look at the clouds, walk around the pond, hit on some joggers, enjoy other things, she is not going anywhere.