Met up with an online girl for what I hoped would be round 2 last evening. Everything went according to plan the first night out and got the lay. She sent me enthusiastic texts making sure I got home OK and that she had a great time.
Second night out goes really well and we're back at her place. But, she's not having any of it this time. Once we're in her room, all she wants to do is snuggle and talk and resists all attempts at escalation with various excuses. Doesn't even want to touch my dick at all. Now she wants to take things slow.
I understand that women sometimes don't want to throw down for various reasons, but when I said something like "Hmm. Things feel a little different than the last time" she said "Yeah, well the reason is I felt sort of bad about that..."
Phrases like that really make one sit up and take notice. I'm still new at this, and buyer's remorse is one of my nightmares.
Also, she took some medication while I was with her at her place that she had in a drawer. I couldn't get a look at the labels, but from a distance my guess is that it may have been an anti-anxiety/antidepressant drug of some type.
My gut is telling me to eject from this situation in a way that it hasn't before with the other girls. I'm still new, maybe I shouldn't always trust it. But it's definitely telling me to eject.
A shit decision to have to make, because otherwise we get along well and she's the most attractive girl I've met up with so far. But who's to say that she might not pull this "I feel sort of bad.." shit again and again. Risky.
I'm pretty sure she knows she's a hot piece and is now trying to control the frame and manipulate me into a LTR by coming on strong and then pulling back (I need to know you better that's not really the type of person I am). I don't like it.
Thoughts?
Second night out goes really well and we're back at her place. But, she's not having any of it this time. Once we're in her room, all she wants to do is snuggle and talk and resists all attempts at escalation with various excuses. Doesn't even want to touch my dick at all. Now she wants to take things slow.
I understand that women sometimes don't want to throw down for various reasons, but when I said something like "Hmm. Things feel a little different than the last time" she said "Yeah, well the reason is I felt sort of bad about that..."
Phrases like that really make one sit up and take notice. I'm still new at this, and buyer's remorse is one of my nightmares.
Also, she took some medication while I was with her at her place that she had in a drawer. I couldn't get a look at the labels, but from a distance my guess is that it may have been an anti-anxiety/antidepressant drug of some type.
My gut is telling me to eject from this situation in a way that it hasn't before with the other girls. I'm still new, maybe I shouldn't always trust it. But it's definitely telling me to eject.
A shit decision to have to make, because otherwise we get along well and she's the most attractive girl I've met up with so far. But who's to say that she might not pull this "I feel sort of bad.." shit again and again. Risky.
I'm pretty sure she knows she's a hot piece and is now trying to control the frame and manipulate me into a LTR by coming on strong and then pulling back (I need to know you better that's not really the type of person I am). I don't like it.
Thoughts?