Quote: (07-01-2011 05:56 PM)Urban Renaissance Man Wrote:
You seem militant! Lol.
I am pragmatic.
Fact: You do not need women to validate your worth as a man.
Conclusion: Learn to live without tying your self worth to their perception of you or their presence around you. If you're that desperate for occasional pussy, either travel to where it isn't ridiculously overpriced(and where your return on investment in an LTR/marriage would be better) or buy an escort-problem solved.
It is really very simple logic.
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The fact that we're designed to interact with them, at least from time to time, in itself demonstrates that women have some importance.
Obviously we need to reproduce-the biological imperative is there.
What I don't see is any justification for men to a) try to change the core of their very being and shift who they are or b) put themselves through an emotional grinder for the sake of one piece of ass (read: "approach 900 random women, get 5 lays!").
They are not worth the effort that the vast majority of men in the US (and especially in many a PUA community) seem willing to put in for them.
I'm not the first one to say this here, but guys in the US (and I'm sure there are other male demographics with which this is also true) put
far too high a price on sex and female companionship.
Then you wonder where all of the inflated egos, bitch shields and attitudes come from.
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Still, I can't blame all women for that. My choice in women plays some part. I could've gone for the nice church girl. Instead, I liked the cute bi girl, who's a lot of fun and good in bed. Not saying you've necessarily done this, but a lot of us guys get into relationships with women WE KNOW we have no business with, (Because they're cute, naughty, available, the only girl around who likes us, etc.) and then we blame all of womankind when this obvious undercover slut (sometimes not so undercover) cheats on us or breaks our heart in some other way!
What does this have to do with anything?
When speaking of American women, the fact of the matter is that they provide a very poor Return on Investment. Nitpicking the facts and trying to separate them into a million little groups will not change that. Some groups may provide a poorer return than others(ex: Black American women), but none of them are prime assets.
My argument holds regardless of which "type of girl" you're trying to find here. The men who get the most out of them are the ones who invest the least in time, money and effort. Exceptions to the rule exist, but the return on the massive investment you'll put in to find said exceptions will still be poor.
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Sometimes it's the fact that we've placed a woman on too high of pedestal or shown too much attention and neediness that makes a girl go astray.
This is the reason for male failure in the vast majority of cases.
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Still, even if it's an intellectual choice and not a heartfelt one, it's still possible to meet women who understand, if only intellectually, it's not wise to leave a man who's good to you simply because someone else might be cuter. Those women are out there, and yes, even in America. They just aren't going to be the women hanging out next to the Laker locker room, or TGIF Fridays, on Saturday night in the Crenshaw District of Los Angeles.
You enjoy finding your needle in a haystack.