Quote: (07-16-2016 06:23 PM)Quintus Curtius Wrote:
Any suggestions on good openers (or other strategies) to use on a check-out girl in a grocery store? You're in line, and there isn't a lot of time to get a dialogue going.
This would depend on how often you see her.
They generally are not really bothered to interact with anyone and are shitty at showing any interest.
Around my work and home, I often see the check-out girls more than not and I generally am inquisitive and build rapport.
Initially, I like to eye-fuck them and get them out of their comfort-zone. Just be memorable.
The more times you see them, the more they warm up, even if its just 30 seconds a time. Their faces will light up when they see you.
I never really focused on openers specifically, I have just blurted out shit depending on my mood.
Regardless, I always ask them how they are and will segue based on their enthusiasm or lack of (mostly lack of, don't blame them).
- On a scale from 1 - 729, how tired are you?
- What time do you finish?
- I am cashing in my bonus points for a Ferrari, what time should I pick you up?
Essentially, you just gotta break her out of her monotonous autopilot mode.
I like talking to everyone though, even the uglies. Sometimes it makes their day and it doesn't even matter to me. They always treat me well at my local stores, be it weighing fruit or bagging items.
As for baggers, I will always join in on bagging my items. Sometimes I am anal as to where to put the stuff, other times, I feel like it will accelerate the process. Usually, though, I will send the bagger to get me cigarettes.
I will always flirt if I get a chance though.
- Check this perfect packaging, I think I might apply here for a job
- I bet I can pack it quicker than you
I like to be silly.