At a hostel I met this French guy who was telling us stories about all of his wild tale with women. Listening to this guy you would easily imagine that he was banging a different girl every couple of days. He even claimed to bang a different girl every day some weeks. He certainly didn't look like a typical "player" but there was a certain truth to some of the things he said. I became curious about him and ended up going on a trip with him to another city for about a week. I got to see first hand his game and how he operated but most importantly I got to see the women.
He did have a system and it worked - for him. This is what I learned from him and that experience:
1. The system doesn't matter. It always takes work. He put in a lot of work.
2. He was completely focused on getting sex. If he had a choice between a 4 and 6 and felt the 4 would be easier to bang he would pick the 4. Most guys wouldn't do this.
3. He went after women that were into him for forever reason and he was good at spotting them.
4. He used lots of negs and was very sarcastic but he also got sexually. Picking girls up and spinning them around etc. He would also mix English and French which the girls loved.
5. If you want sex it has to be your focus and you have to be sexual yourself. The women have to sense that you are sexual and that you want them. He was very good at conveying this in but in a controlled manner.
In that week he banged two women. The only problem was. I wouldn't have banged either of those women. They were both over 30 and a 5 at best. This is why it's important to know the quality of women a guy claims to get. If I was to drop my standards to his level I would also be banging a lot more women. Everything a guy says depends on this and also who he is. The irony of the story is this. While I was never jealous of the women he got. He was jealous of the girls I got to date but most of the time did not bang. He wanted better quality but wasn't willing to change himself and his approach to get it. The easy sex was like an addiction he couldn't break. He was a great guy to hang out with and he did teach me a few things that I am thankful for though.
He did have a system and it worked - for him. This is what I learned from him and that experience:
1. The system doesn't matter. It always takes work. He put in a lot of work.
2. He was completely focused on getting sex. If he had a choice between a 4 and 6 and felt the 4 would be easier to bang he would pick the 4. Most guys wouldn't do this.
3. He went after women that were into him for forever reason and he was good at spotting them.
4. He used lots of negs and was very sarcastic but he also got sexually. Picking girls up and spinning them around etc. He would also mix English and French which the girls loved.
5. If you want sex it has to be your focus and you have to be sexual yourself. The women have to sense that you are sexual and that you want them. He was very good at conveying this in but in a controlled manner.
In that week he banged two women. The only problem was. I wouldn't have banged either of those women. They were both over 30 and a 5 at best. This is why it's important to know the quality of women a guy claims to get. If I was to drop my standards to his level I would also be banging a lot more women. Everything a guy says depends on this and also who he is. The irony of the story is this. While I was never jealous of the women he got. He was jealous of the girls I got to date but most of the time did not bang. He wanted better quality but wasn't willing to change himself and his approach to get it. The easy sex was like an addiction he couldn't break. He was a great guy to hang out with and he did teach me a few things that I am thankful for though.