[metal fan]

(10-09-2015 01:44 AM)VincentVinturi Wrote:  

I see you're in the UK.

One thing to consider is that you're not in the proper environment to evoke the erection reflex strongly enough.
British girls are like boner kryptonite.

i live in london, there are girls from almost every country in london, ugly ones and sexy ones, how can you say british girls are ugly?
kate upton? kelly brook? billie faiers? jess kingham? imogen thomas? hannah martin? and hundreds of others

[VincentVinturi]

^^^
Agree with @Papi Rico - I suspect the majority of ED is primarily psychological (performance anxiety, inexperience, social pressure) and secondarily a result of poor physical health (low T, insufficient DHEA, zinc deficiency, whatever the case may be).

They conspire together and feed back into each other.

So getting both sorted is vital.

[Suits]

(10-09-2015 05:34 AM)the Thing Wrote:  

(10-09-2015 04:29 AM)Suits Wrote:  

Let's also work on your speling problems.

Yep, you spotted my hilarious joke.

[DaveR]

(10-09-2015 09:31 AM)PhDre Wrote:  

^Yes indeed. You're horny and want to fuck but your dick only gets semi-hard.

Also your morning erections are semi-hard only and spontaneous erections are completely absent.

But as I mentioned, in my case, for one reason or another, in a really sunny climate this problem is solved in a couple days and I start popping rock hard boners all the time. And no, it's not a vitamin D issue.

Some thoughts:

1. Could be stress - do you work in the UK? When you visit other non-sunny climates, do you spend time away from the city to de-stress yourself?

2. I don't have problems with erections specifically, but I do sometimes suffer from extreme fatigue due to the lack of light in the North during Winter. Light therapy helps a lot, but it has to be used without fail at the same time each day for it to be effective. I've found that if I forget for just a couple of days, it can take a week or two to get my energy levels back to normal.

I use a Beurer TL80 lamp. The Philips ones are too small and not powerful enough. I've also read that blue/orange lights are useless. The main thing is the colour (6500 Kelvin) and light intensity (at least 10k Lux).

[Cr33pin]

I started drinking beet juice as a natural pre work out before I get them GAINZ in the gym bruh...... and I have done ripped 3 pair or jeans... not from my massive glutes blowing up from squatting 1600 pounds (get on my level) but from the raging erections I get after that beet juice hits my system. I ended up just tying a couple 45lb plates on a chain and putting the other end on my dick and doing dick lifts. But last time I did it I exploded the weight up so fast the plates came up and hit me in the eye. Now I look like I just got out of the ring with Tyson in his prime. So I got these raging rock hard erections but this busted up face.... I don't even have to go to the gym no more I get my gainz from all the fucking fapping I got to do. I don't even know what the point of this post was anymore but I got to go fap.

(fap fap fap fap, oh yea stick a finger in my ass, fap fap)

[VincentVinturi]

(10-09-2015 10:49 AM)metal fan Wrote:  

i live in london, there are girls from almost every country in london, ugly ones and sexy ones, how can you say british girls are ugly?
kate upton? kelly brook? billie faiers? jess kingham? imogen thomas? hannah martin? and hundreds of others

If you feel you're in a pro-boner environment based on your preferences in women then more power to you.

However, I want to make the distinction that while big Western cities like London, Miami, NYC, SF, etc., have plenty of hot chicks, they sorely lack in true femininity and have a culture of superficiality and entitlement.

I've lived in NY, LA, SF, Miami, Medellin, Bangkok, etc., and there's definitely a marked difference in the quality of femininity between Anglosphere cities and non-Anglosphere cities. And they're both full of lots of mega-hot women.

You can be in a city full of hot girls and still not feel that nurturing, feminine energy that you get in a place like Bangkok or Medellin.

Zan Perrion described it this way: there are a lot of girls who are beautified but very few who are beautiful...(especially in the Anglosphere - my addition).

[metal fan]

(10-09-2015 11:29 AM)DaveR Wrote:  

[quote='PhDre' pid='1127538' dateline='1444401100']
^Yes indeed. You're horny and want to fuck but your dick only gets semi-hard.




I use a Beurer TL80 lamp. The Philips ones are too small and not powerful enough. I've also read that blue/orange lights are useless. The main thing is the colour (6500 Kelvin) and light intensity (at least 10k Lux).

i bought a cheap 10000 lux blue light box, its good for sleep but the side effects are headache and blurry vision

[Windom Earle]

(10-09-2015 12:13 PM)Cr33pin Wrote:  

I started drinking beet juice as a natural pre work out before I get them GAINZ in the gym bruh...... and I have done ripped 3 pair or jeans... not from my massive glutes blowing up from squatting 1600 pounds (get on my level) but from the raging erections

Yep, Beets, and to a similar extent - Watermelon, will assist in any pussy beat-ups.

They open the capillaries, the same way Cialis does (just not as strong).

If I'm out on a date and fresh watermelon juice is on the menu, I'm ordering that over a whiskey-dick inducing alcoholic drink, every time.

[metal fan]

(10-10-2015 03:39 AM)Windom Earle Wrote:  

If I'm out on a date and fresh watermelon juice is on the menu, I'm ordering that over a whiskey-dick inducing alcoholic drink, every time.

you got to drink a ton of waddymelon to get an effect, and watermelon is full of sugar

[DaveR]

(10-09-2015 02:46 PM)metal fan Wrote:  

i bought a cheap 10000 lux blue light box, its good for sleep but the side effects are headache and blurry vision

Was it designed specifically as a medical lamp? I wouldn't advise using general-purpose light boxes (for greenhouse, room lighting or other uses). Medical ones are UV-filtered.

Mine produces white light and I haven't had any issues with headaches nor blurred vision. I use it for about 1-1.5 hours each morning while reading.

[Windom Earle]

(10-10-2015 08:55 AM)metal fan Wrote:  

(10-10-2015 03:39 AM)Windom Earle Wrote:  

If I'm out on a date and fresh watermelon juice is on the menu, I'm ordering that over a whiskey-dick inducing alcoholic drink, every time.

you got to drink a ton of waddymelon to get an effect, and watermelon is full of sugar

Bullshit on both fronts.

Watermelon has about the same amount of sugar as milk (around 6 grams per 100 grams), and is also natural/unprocessed.

If it took a ton to have an effect, you wouldn't be hearing about it as being beneficial. Watermelon contains citrulline, which is converted into arginine - a precursor for nitric oxide which helps in blood vessel dilation. There's about 150 milligrams of citrulline per 4 ounces of watermelon.

[YardDog]

OP - i agree with others, until you get your body fat down it's impossible to know if this is a head trip or something physical.

A couple questions to clarify your issue:

- Does your issue occur when masturbating or just with a girl?
- If this happens when you're alone, can you get a very hard erection but lose it in seconds without stimulation? Or can you only get a chubby type boner that's not very hard?

The first issue has to do with your penis's 'neck' muscles not trapping blood. This could be due to too much of a norepinephrine vasoconstricting effect. When this happens even a PDE5i won't work that well for you. This could be a hormone issue (see connection between venous leak and low T, low DHEA). The worst case scenario on this front is a venous leak issue caused by injury.

If it's the second issue then it seems like your body has weak nitric oxide production and a PDE5i will help. Also eating foods like watermelon (just buy bulk l-citrulline, it's cheap and easy), beets, etc, that boost NO production will help. But you need to lose the weight and get fit. A fit body with regular exercise is a NO producing machine. You could have artery plaque built up from being overweight that limits your NO production. You can reverse this with diet and exercise.

I would go to the site Peak Testosterone and read everything there. Then read this thread that is probably the best on the web I've found in explaining how erections actually work and different things to try: http://www.allthingsmale.com/community/t...ons.19251/

Again, until you get your body weight down and lipid numbers in line - so you know your body can adequately produce NO - it's impossible to say for sure what's going on.

[duedue]

(10-09-2015 01:29 AM)Hades Wrote:  

I don't know why anybody would advocate no fap if your dick doesn't work. That's like saying "don't lift" if you have no muscle. If anything, jerk off significantly more and sleep nude or wear loose fitting shorts to bed. Regular, uninhibited nocturnal erections will help more with circulation and the hormone feedback than anything else.

The rest of the advice in the thread is good too. I'd add 'start popping zma and fish oil and lift regularly'.

Fapping too much can result in "penis fatigue".

[eatthishomie]

That's where edging comes in. Gives you all the benefits of regular fapping without the drain on your libido that regular masturbation to orgasm brings.

[Days of Broken Arrows]

Besides all the things other commenters have mentioned (body fat being the main one) I wanted to throw in that the times I've had a problem with this has been because I had infections but didn't know it yet.

The first was a sinus infection deep inside one of my right sinus cavities that wasn't draining.

The second was far worse: an abscess tooth that had been slowly festering. It finally came to a head and resulted in excruciating pain and a root canal.

When it was all over I was back to normal in my sex life as if nothing had happened. That was the tip off that infection can wreak havoc on the body in unexpected ways.

One other thing: I've found that if I have any kind of minor injury or dry skin on my private parts, I respond less well sexually -- and sometimes don't respond at all -- until it's cleared up. I discovered this after dating someone who gave "aggressive" blow-jobs, which are apparently something I'm not cut out for.

[Cr33pin]

(10-16-2015 04:01 PM)Days of Broken Arrows Wrote:  

Besides all the things other commenters have mentioned (body fat being the main one) I wanted to throw in that the times I've had a problem with this has been because I had infections but didn't know it yet.

The first was a sinus infection deep inside one of my right sinus cavities that wasn't draining.

The second was far worse: an abscess tooth that had been slowly festering. It finally came to a head and resulted in excruciating pain and a root canal.

When it was all over I was back to normal in my sex life as if nothing had happened. That was the tip off that infection can wreak havoc on the body in unexpected ways.

Interesting.... I got some kind of sinus infection type deal here in Serbia. Mainly just some mucus I have to spit up in the mornings, but its got color to it which google tells me means infection. I took some kind of 3 day 500mg antibiotic but it didnt solve much. But my libido has gone to shit, I have to get drunk and slip myself a roofie before I let my hand abuse my pecker, pretty much against its will.

You may be on to something.

[Days of Broken Arrows]

Tl; dr: Get some pomegranate juice if you have ED.

I recently went to the doctor for a flu/cold/whatever. The useless female physician's assistant couldn't diagnose it.

What she did find, though, was that my blood pressure was high. She said if it didn't come down I was looking at taking meds regularly. This runs in my family so it was no surprise.

I researched some natural blood pressure fixes and one was drinking a cup of pomegranate a day for a month. After just two days of drinking this stuff I felt an immediate change. But not in my blood pressure.

What happened -- unexpectedly -- is that I found I started feeling like I was 19 again. I mean this in the strictly physical sense. Seriously, it was like I was my old self all of a sudden. Doctors say you lose virility with age, so I'd assume that was what had happened to me in the last few years. But drinking this stuff caused an almost instant change.

(I am uncomfortable getting graphic on here, so I hope you all can read between the lines.)

Anyway, I would strongly recommend this. Not just for ED, but to turn it up to eleven if things are waning a bit, so to speak. Works wonders.

Now if I can just get the blood pressure down, I'll be great.

[Sebastian]

POM juice from grocery store? it can get expensive if you have to drink a cup of extract everyday.

(01-21-2016 03:37 AM)Days of Broken Arrows Wrote:  

Tl; dr: Get some pomegranate juice if you have ED.

I recently went to the doctor for a flu/cold/whatever. The useless female physician's assistant couldn't diagnose it.

What she did find, though, was that my blood pressure was high. She said if it didn't come down I was looking at taking meds regularly. This runs in my family so it was no surprise.

I researched some natural blood pressure fixes and one was drinking a cup of pomegranate a day for a month. After just two days of drinking this stuff I felt an immediate change. But not in my blood pressure.

What happened -- unexpectedly -- is that I found I started feeling like I was 19 again. I mean this in the strictly physical sense. Seriously, it was like I was my old self all of a sudden. Doctors say you lose virility with age, so I'd assume that was what had happened to me in the last few years. But drinking this stuff caused an almost instant change.

(I am uncomfortable getting graphic on here, so I hope you all can read between the lines.)

Anyway, I would strongly recommend this. Not just for ED, but to turn it up to eleven if things are waning a bit, so to speak. Works wonders.

Now if I can just get the blood pressure down, I'll be great.

[serpico]

If you're overweight, then your health is compromised. Don't expect your functionality to work fine if you're in bad shape. Get fit.

[Days of Broken Arrows]

Good idea. But for me this would apply in every other area.

When it comes to health, I've learned that if a study or reputable doctor says "a cup," then it needs to be a cup. That goes double for any issue that includes the word "erection," esp. as I've gotten older.

You might be right and I might get extract as a supplement, but for this, I'd rather spend the money on juice and do what they say, esp. since it's worked wonders.

In other words, I'm not screwing around, so I can better screw around.

(01-23-2016 08:50 AM)Sebastian Wrote:  

POM juice from grocery store? it can get expensive if you have to drink a cup of extract everyday.

(01-21-2016 03:37 AM)Days of Broken Arrows Wrote:  

Tl; dr: Get some pomegranate juice if you have ED.

I recently went to the doctor for a flu/cold/whatever. The useless female physician's assistant couldn't diagnose it.

What she did find, though, was that my blood pressure was high. She said if it didn't come down I was looking at taking meds regularly. This runs in my family so it was no surprise.

I researched some natural blood pressure fixes and one was drinking a cup of pomegranate a day for a month. After just two days of drinking this stuff I felt an immediate change. But not in my blood pressure.

What happened -- unexpectedly -- is that I found I started feeling like I was 19 again. I mean this in the strictly physical sense. Seriously, it was like I was my old self all of a sudden. Doctors say you lose virility with age, so I'd assume that was what had happened to me in the last few years. But drinking this stuff caused an almost instant change.

(I am uncomfortable getting graphic on here, so I hope you all can read between the lines.)

Anyway, I would strongly recommend this. Not just for ED, but to turn it up to eleven if things are waning a bit, so to speak. Works wonders.

Now if I can just get the blood pressure down, I'll be great.

[Nascimento]

(10-09-2015 12:13 PM)Cr33pin Wrote:  

I started drinking beet juice as a natural pre work out before I get them GAINZ in the gym bruh...... and I have done ripped 3 pair or jeans... not from my massive glutes blowing up from squatting 1600 pounds (get on my level) but from the raging erections I get after that beet juice hits my system. I ended up just tying a couple 45lb plates on a chain and putting the other end on my dick and doing dick lifts. But last time I did it I exploded the weight up so fast the plates came up and hit me in the eye. Now I look like I just got out of the ring with Tyson in his prime. So I got these raging rock hard erections but this busted up face.... I don't even have to go to the gym no more I get my gainz from all the fucking fapping I got to do. I don't even know what the point of this post was anymore but I got to go fap.

(fap fap fap fap, oh yea stick a finger in my ass, fap fap)

[tonysoprano]

Look into pelvic floor dysfunction and CPPS