[slubu]

I pipelined on Colombiancupid and badoo before going to Medellin this month...got about 5 numbers, several MSN's, emails, facebooks, etc. They all either flaked or when I got to their facebook they were not good looking. Just my experience however.

[Cr33pin]

(12-26-2011 07:47 AM)slubu Wrote:  

I pipelined on Colombiancupid and badoo before going to Medellin this month...got about 5 numbers, several MSN's, emails, facebooks, etc. They all either flaked or when I got to their facebook they were not good looking. Just my experience however.

How did you end up doing in Medellin

[esperar]

Anyone know of a good way to find Colombian chicks on facebook? Local ones I mean.

[Dash Global]

(12-26-2011 11:16 AM)esperar Wrote:  

Anyone know of a good way to find Colombian chicks on facebook? Local ones I mean.

Your reply rate will be abysmal! I have tried it. For some reason 95% of SA chicks will not respond to dudes they dont know on facebook.

And thats with just sending a friendly hey looking for city / nightlife suggestions.


Stick with ColombianCupid, CoughSurfing, and Livemocha

[Jalouse]

I agree with dash I've tried it too and whilst i did get a few replies it didn't go anywhere.

A better trick if you have a lot of friends on facebook is to look for friends of friends in the local town and then hit up any hot girls that you see with a 'hey i see we that you're a friend of...'. These contacts are way more likely to reply and there is a high chance for a meet.

[thegameoflife]

So the original plan was 8-10 days in Bogota and then a week in Cartagena with my dad but he is pushing hard for Cancun. He thinks Cartagena is going to be dead and that I will be disappointed.

Mixx, any suggestions on how to convince him that Cartagena is the real deal?

[MiXX]

(12-26-2011 05:53 PM)thegameoflife Wrote:  

Mixx, any suggestions on how to convince him that Cartagena is the real deal?

Yeah, get to Bogota, and when he sees that the entire month of January it is a ghost-town, find a random cute girl and ask her where everyone is....and guess what her answer will be?

=)

Mixx

[Jalouse]

(12-26-2011 05:53 PM)thegameoflife Wrote:  

So the original plan was 8-10 days in Bogota and then a week in Cartagena with my dad but he is pushing hard for Cancun. He thinks Cartagena is going to be dead and that I will be disappointed.

Mixx, any suggestions on how to convince him that Cartagena is the real deal?

There's a festival in Playa until the 8th of January called BPM festival. It has some kind of connection with Montreal and allegedly you get a lot of people from Montreal coming down. Here's the site: http://www.thebpmfestival.com/

[Seamus]

Reviving this thread because I just started pipelining on CC this afternoon. This is my first time using online game in Colombia, and the results have been very funny. So far I've opened up 8 girls on instant messaging:

3 girls: anti-slut defense out of this world. All made a point of telling me within the first 60 seconds that they weren't interested in hook-ups, only wanted "true romance" or "the real thing", and grilled me about how long I'd be in Colombia. I'm guessing these are the girls who've been pumped and dumped hard and regret it.

2 girls: unabashed prepagos, or semi-pros. Both straight up told me they wanted a "beneficial relationship" from a guy who takes care of them.

3 girls: acting like they're already in love with me, saying things like "you dropped out of heaven", "oh my god you're so beautiful", and "it's impossible you don't have a girlfriend" within the first 5-10 minutes of chatting.

So basically CC is bizarre, with really strong reactions across the board albeit in different directions. Totally different from online game here in Argentina or back in the States. Will be interesting to see how results play out when I get there.

Edit: I'm writing completely in Spanish, which might make a difference one way or the other

[elcidcampeador]

I found Colombia Cupid impossible compared to Tinder because I'm 26. Not really sure why women would assume I'm automatically less mature than a 30 year old, but this website is IMO one of the few places where it helps to be older.

[Seamus]

(05-04-2015 06:55 PM)elcidcampeador Wrote:  

I found Colombia Cupid impossible compared to Tinder because I'm 26. Not really sure why women would assume I'm automatically less mature than a 30 year old, but this website is IMO one of the few places where it helps to be older.

I think it's because a lot are looking for the provider type. I'm late 20's, but I put mid-20's thinking younger = better. I might switch that up though

[Seamus]

Make that 4 for team nuclear anti-slut defense. Just got this:

"Hola Seamus.. que bien que vienes a Colombia, eres un hombre atractivo y me gustaria conocerte pero yo no busco aventuras, busco una relacion seria. ya ttuve dos experiencias con americanos y creen que las colombianas buscamos aventuras
que tengas un buen dia, un abrazo."

I'm assuming I can crack through, but interesting to note that the sex-tourist stigma seems alive and well

[Kabal]

(05-04-2015 06:55 PM)elcidcampeador Wrote:  

I found Colombia Cupid impossible compared to Tinder because I'm 26. Not really sure why women would assume I'm automatically less mature than a 30 year old, but this website is IMO one of the few places where it helps to be older.

I am around your age and have been pleased with my ventures on the Cupid sites over the past two and a half years in short trips to Vietnam, Indonesia, DR, and Philippines, but I have not gotten as good of results from Tinder.

About 30-35 1-2 date bangs (counting coming over to my apartment/hotel as a date) ranging from 6s to 8s; a good source of diversification to night-game.

I imagine these are kinds of statistics and/or reviews that CupidMedia does not put in their marketing materials ("A good source of diversification to night-game -- Kabal, RooshV Forum")

I started CC (and LAC again) a few days ago and am getting similar results. In fact, even better since the modal Colombian girl is better-looking.

Seamus, I would estimate 95%+ of my messages to and from latinas on these sites (and girls in general) are just vanilla exchanges. Very little pre-emptive ASD, very little prepago-like behavior, very little "immediately in love" behavior. I also write entirely in Spanish.

[Seamus]

(05-04-2015 07:30 PM)Kabal Wrote:  

Seamus, I would estimate 90%-95% of my messages to and from latinas on these sites (and girls in general) are just vanilla exchanges. Very little pre-emptive ASD, very little prepago-like behavior, very little "immediately in love" behavior. I also write entirely in Spanish.

Interesting. Possibly it's a Cali thing, my openers aren't sexual at all.

My theory is that Linux just went through and fucked all these girls last week so they're still shell-shocked. It's the only explanation

[Kabal]

(05-04-2015 07:42 PM)Seamus Wrote:  

(05-04-2015 07:30 PM)Kabal Wrote:  

Seamus, I would estimate 90%-95% of my messages to and from latinas on these sites (and girls in general) are just vanilla exchanges. Very little pre-emptive ASD, very little prepago-like behavior, very little "immediately in love" behavior. I also write entirely in Spanish.

Interesting. Possibly it's a Cali thing, my openers aren't sexual at all.

Maybe it's a white guy thing. Perhaps the White God Factor also comes with some Random Bullshit Quotient, judging from the literature on this board.

I also do not message or respond to single mothers; I find them gross. Maybe that also ends up cutting down on some of the... interesting behavior... that I sidestep but some other guys witness.

[Seamus]

(05-04-2015 10:42 PM)Kabal Wrote:  

(05-04-2015 07:42 PM)Seamus Wrote:  

(05-04-2015 07:30 PM)Kabal Wrote:  

Seamus, I would estimate 90%-95% of my messages to and from latinas on these sites (and girls in general) are just vanilla exchanges. Very little pre-emptive ASD, very little prepago-like behavior, very little "immediately in love" behavior. I also write entirely in Spanish.

Interesting. Possibly it's a Cali thing, my openers aren't sexual at all.

Maybe it's a white guy thing. Perhaps the White God Factor also comes with some Random Bullshit Quotient, judging from the literature on this board.

I also do not message or respond to single mothers; I find them gross. Maybe that also ends up cutting down on some of the... interesting behavior... that I sidestep but some other guys witness.

That could be part of it. I'm less interested in white girls, I hit up black chicks and morenas almost exclusively. And I don't know if any of these girls have kids, because personally I couldn't care less when it comes to quick flings.

[Cr33pin]

ColombianCupid and LatinAmericanCupid just have not been worth the money for me here in South America... I think I banged two chicks in Lima from LatinAmericanCupid. The hottest best girls I pulled were from day game. Tinder is a godsend if you are trying to get notches... I'm all for getting a few bangs from tinder but dont rely soley on tinder it will make you lazy and all you will do is fuck sluts that 100 other gringos have already fucked. At least mix it up and get out there and run real game in the real world.

Only using tinder to fuck sluts is like being a badass level 70 Orc on World at Warcraft... all your glory lies in a make believe digital world.

[Lian]

Hey guys/GOL, I found out about ColombianCupid.com reading thread-10341.html also by GOL, and wanted to throw in my experience with it in case anyone finds this like I did or Googling "colombiancupid.com roosh" which led me here.

Out of curiosity since I'm considering going to Colombia and/or Brazil, I made a quick fake profile so I could see whether it was worth it to actually flesh out a profile. At the same time I also wondered whether there'd be another "country-"cupid, and Googled Brazilian Cupid. There was, Brazilcupid.com. I opened it and kind of left that tab to the side. I noted that it looked literally identical to Colombiancupid.com.

I then skimmed through the pics, and there was certainly some decent talent on there. I got to 1000 thumbnails and it wouldn't load any more, telling me to narrow my search. The default sorting had been by last online, and literally all of the 1000 up to that point had supposedly been online within the last 24 hours, and most within just the last few hours... bizarre, I thought, I know Colombia isn't that well-off but why would these attractive girls be spending all this time there.

In the meantime every couple thumbnail pages it would force me to add info to my profile before moving on to the next page or doing anything really, and I had to clear cookies to avoid it... it started to get really annoying. And before uploading a photo you have to click a checkbox that explicitly states you own the rights to the photo, which I thought was a bit strange as well... Facebook and the rest of them do it to an egregious degree of course but they let you live in ignorance-is-bliss la la land for the most part about it.

Then I went to message one chick, and it made much more sense. Pay $35 for a month to message. That coupled with what one of the other posters said about how he got a message but couldn't reply back without paying pushed me over the edge to write something about it.

Obviously people have had success on it (though it does seem like it's been a while since anyone commented positively), I just couldn't help shake the feeling that most of the attractive girls are paid to have a profile on there or get a commission if someone signs up to message them, who knows, or there is some p4p BS going on with it. At the very least I couldn't believe that the "Last Online" times were even close to reality, which made me think if they've actually got a system in place to fudge these, then what else might they be doing.

Nothing earth-shattering, just thought it worth mentioning that it seemed pretty sketch in case anyone is thinking of paying to sign up.

[WanderingSoul]

The Cupid media sites aren't scams. It's a legit company.

I didn't think the talent on ColombianCupid is that good though.

[Tigre]

(01-20-2016 12:36 AM)Lian Wrote:  

Obviously people have had success on it (though it does seem like it's been a while since anyone commented positively), I just couldn't help shake the feeling that most of the attractive girls are paid to have a profile on there or get a commission if someone signs up to message them, who knows, or there is some p4p BS going on with it. At the very least I couldn't believe that the "Last Online" times were even close to reality, which made me think if they've actually got a system in place to fudge these, then what else might they be doing.

The count of last online profiles is probably true.

My friends that have used it report the occasional P4P proposition from girls on the site. I wouldn't say it's common, though.

The site is designed to make you want to sign up. So they will use various incentives to get you to invest time and pull you in. Making you upload photos is one tactic.

It's rumored that new members initially get pushed hard to the top of girls' searches. So you get a lot of matches up front. Makes you want to sign up to read what these girls are writing to you. Once you sign up and really start to use the site, you may not be right at the top of search results as before.

Cupid has some kind of two-tiered pricing structure where it's cheaper to be a member inside Colombia. I remember the price as being 40k pesos 1 month and 80k pesos for 3 months. But it's been a while since I was active and that may not be accurate.

Obviously girls pay nothing to use it. It's taken for granted that the guy is the one stepping up to a paid membership, never the girl.

With dating in Colombia, the limiting factor is not the amount of hot girls or their willingness to engage with you. It's the fact that dating them requires some kind of investment from you (paying for dates + your time and energy). You can only direct your efforts in so many directions.

[Lian]

Very interesting, thanks Tigre.

[Schlep]

Creepin

Hows your spanish? I'll be visiting either Bogota or Lima for 7 days at the end of Feb.

Signed up on CC for a months membership. Contacted women in bogota looking for ones who spoke good english. After a week on CC my results have been horrible. About 7 or 8 replied and I got their whatsapp number. But, all 6's.