Quote: (09-20-2015 09:51 PM)Tbone Wrote:
During one of my extended trips to Colombia I met Diana and we started dating. While I was there I became a pudgy fucker because I wasn't working out like I should.
When I went back to the states I immediately started working out and eating better. So a couple of months had passed, and one night I was talking to Diana on skype and took off my shirt to flex a little bit.
She was NOT impressed; she was actually repulsed. All she did was frown and tell me not to get any bigger. And I wasn't even that big. I had lost fat and gained some (not a lot) muscle.
She told me her preference in men was not too muscular or ripped, but not necessarily fat.
I have another ex who wasn't into the ripped look either (even though I was ripped when we met, but she told me later on that it wasn't her preference).
These two are probably in the minority, but I suppose it's proof that some women out there aren't really into ripped dudes.
When girls are trying to lock you/have you locked down, they often try to get you to stop working out so you are less attractive to other girls. Basically she feels like if you keep working out, you'll become out of her league. Its subconscious in a way and I don't think it reflects reality at all.
Most girls like guys who are big or ripped.
It's the same principle why if you're an average guy, and you start lifting and approaching girls, you may get hate from some of your friends.