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08-27-2015, 09:29 AM
I think it's worse than that. Ashley Madison appears to be an essentially fraudulent enterprise. For all intents and purposes, there were no women on there.
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08-27-2015, 09:32 AM
Not so sure.
I think it proves that women don't need to go online to get fucked though.
Cheating online is a big risk. Guys are desperate enough to take it, women aren't. They have other ways of getting fucked.
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08-27-2015, 10:20 AM
Some thing to keep in mind:
Ashley Madison is a website you have to pay for.
Women do not need to pay for 'casual' sex
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08-27-2015, 10:21 AM
Ashley Madison always from day one seemed scammy and sketchy to me...because as if women need help having an affair? Accounting for the differences between the sexes - sex drives, work-to-return etc,. - a female 5 has about the same amount and quality of sexual options as a male 7 (probably even more).
Women don't want casual sex? Any man who's been around enough women knows that they love to fuck and knows what they can be like.
Women do want casual sex...they just don't want evidence, a paper trail - credit card statements, logs, private messages that can be discovered. Women are extremely protective of their image (I'm sure we've all met a raging slut who's fucked 50+ guys who seemed 'nice and wholesome'). That doesn't mean they don't want to get fucked, just that they want discretion, REAL discretion - ignorant as most of them are, Women still know that things like hackers and spyware exist.
Men don't really even give a fuck about any of that if there's a shot at sex.
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08-27-2015, 10:26 AM
All digital sites have just as bad ratios to a extent. You could argue Tinder is worse than AM. From the profit model the only barrier you have to keep *some* men away from even the slightest hope of casual sex is price. This is why thirst is commodified and a heavy price is paid for men who want to attempt to quench it (p4p, you name it). So it can't be out of this world to think that a platform that has no little to no barrier to entry such as Tinder or OKC is not worse than AM in regards to ratios of attractive women.
AM gets a bad rap because it marketed purely for infidelity which will in-fact scare some women off and as noted above women will just seek other avenues to get what they want. But there is indeed a market for married and attached men as the truth is that women, even single women, would rather fuck a married man then a single man. All the hard work is done for her as a woman as already vetted and proofed the man as being worthy for long term commitment and to raise kids with.
Here in godless Toronto with one of the highest rates of usage per capita for AM, women will still just fuck a married man they meet in real life, but I just am now sure how that all gets started because you need some level of cover. Your aren't going around fucking married folks within your social circle so there has to be some type of smoke screen going on here. My rabid ginger friend prefers to fuck married men in "open relationships" because she is basically a whore, but can't decide between relationships and shot flings. She is lucky she still looks good for being 30, she could smash into her wall any week now. But she drops hints why she continually does it. It provides attachment without attachment with a quality man. She can have a "open fling" with the married man and get all the stuff she wants with less effort on her part in trying to change the dude or navigate if he is any good. It all sounds bizarre but you would be surprised how many women are open to it. I know many married men on RVF can vouch for the different type of attention they get from women if they have their band on the finger.
So don't discount totally the desire of women to fuck with married men. AM was a scam profit model but it was built here in Toronto of a perverse and real market that was (still is) taboo and underground. The locals here who started it saw a market that needed to be served in acting as the middle man in it and the smoke screen and make bank doing it. The ideas for the AM site did not come out of thin air is what I am trying to say..
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.5:1 Male To Female Ratio On Ashley Madison Proves Women Don't Want Casual Sex
08-27-2015, 10:30 AM
*Women don't want casual sex from married beta men online.
You need to switch the stakes into something more female orientated than just casual sex to entice the hamster.
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08-27-2015, 10:40 AM
I just find it hilarious that the whole website was a scam and millions of thirsty betas paid to join for the privilege of messaging fake female accounts. Gotta acknowledge the scam of the AM owners to make money running a dating website on which no one was getting laid.
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08-27-2015, 11:30 AM
Quote: (08-27-2015 10:17 AM)Days of Broken Arrows Wrote:
This CAN'T be true!!!!!
How do we know? Because back in 2013, Hugo Schwyzer told us in an Atlantic article that "Turns Out Women Have Really, Really Strong Sex Drives: Can Men Handle It?"
The urge of the men is mostly create by the physical needs. Women are more in control of their sex drive, thats how they gain power. When you stimulate the mind of the women, fuck her mind, then yes her sex drive can go crazy and it can get hard to keep track.
Also lock about all those stories from women, its mostly novels. Men are more driven by porn. 50 shades of grey and all the other ones are fiction books. How many men buy sexual books with no pictures?
It also match with the quote that there are no good men out there. Women just don't see the ordinary guys because they are looking for the top 10 or 15 % that match their fantasies.
Also read an other article, women would either abstain from sex then give away their smartphone. Attention whoring inside.
As long as a man cant pull the trigger in the mind of the women, she will mostly refuse causal sex with you.
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08-27-2015, 11:42 AM
Statistics can prove anything you want them to prove.
We know women DO like casual sex.
We know most men are thirsty, that's what is really proven by the uneven ratio.
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08-27-2015, 12:05 PM
If women really did love sex as much as men, then the oldest profession in the world wouldn't exist.
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.5:1 Male To Female Ratio On Ashley Madison Proves Women Don't Want Casual Sex
08-27-2015, 12:10 PM
My two cents: most men looking for side action are not that picky and are willing to find it on the internet, while most women that want to get some side action want it with a specific man that they know. Women don't want side action as much anyway, and they usually wouldn't get what they want from AM.
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08-27-2015, 12:39 PM
There is no way the ratio is a low 5.5 to 1.
From what I read is exponentially higher than that, not to mention dudes were talking other dudes.
There were plenty of fake women, of the women who signed up not many of them confirmed their emails or even used the site.
The whole thing was just one big scam and circle jerk of dudes.
Now it doesn't mean that women were hard to find on there, but the hilarious facts that people paid for this, and their data STILL didn't get deleted.