Quote: (08-23-2015 01:24 PM)Veloce Wrote:
I second Kosko here.
Basically, bars can either be a great ally or the worst kind of white-knight.
Bars treat female patrons like they shit gold bricks. Hot girls bring rich guys. It's a basic rule of nightlife. So women get an extra pussy pass to say and do whatever they want, to a certain extent.
Look at this stupid shit:
Look at #5. This is taken from a bar called Milk and Honey in NYC, a hipster-ish craft cocktail place. But I've seen this used in other bars too. Basically saying guys can't approach women.
Dumbfucks. How do they think the human race has made it this far? No matter how good the drinks are, avoid places like this and lock down bars that have more level headed and red pill views toward the mating dance.
Also, we're taking your account at face value. This is all assuming you weren't actually miscalibrated or "being creepy".
An upscale hipster "speakeasy" type cocktail lounge in a city near me had list of rules very similar to this, including the no approaching rule.
This place was a fairly regular stop when I had dates with girls in the town, since it was in a little night life district and was convenient, and made excellent cocktails.
After going there for a while I noticed a pattern of the same type of patrons every time. There would be mixed groups of 4-6 made up of chubby mediocre girls and guys who were obviously their sexless orbiters, couples on "date nights" which were either some young guy trying to impress a 6.5 or older married couples usually on double dates, or groups of 2-4 plain girls who didn't have dates and were out to do something "exciting".
What you didn't see, in a city with a lot of beautiful girls owing to the large state university there, were groups of hot girls. Never once did I see a group of hot girls there, even though the bars down the street would be rife with them.
I figured out why-the hot girls didn't come to this bar because there was no chance they were going to be approached there. They went out hoping for the attention and drama of guys approaching them, and even the possibility they might have a random encounter with Chad Thundercock, the man of their dreams. This bar squelched that fun, and even the pleasure of rejecting guys and then making fun of them was denied to the girls. And the more exciting and alpha type guys who would approach knew they would just get hassled for it at this place, and took their business elsewhere, making the hot girls even less likely to want to go there.
So the rule, which was aimed at excluding "douchebag" type guys as undesirables, on the premise that girls say they don't like douchebags and we should always believe women, ended up excluding exactly the groups of people who make a bar a happening and profitable business.
The bar lasted two years and is now closed.