Hey..
So the basic story is that i was a bit of a computer nerd in school but from 17-21 was pretty prolific with women (a combination of being 6'4 by that point, having style - girls would actually complement how good i smelled or how trendy/good my clothes looked and mainly i'd say having confidence upon finding out that girls were into me at that age) mainly due to MSN being piss easy to pull from.
So i'm 26 now and between 21 and now i let myself go quite a lot (working on that) among other things and so i've been out of the game and out of practise.
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I'm mainly opening this thread for 2 reasons..
1) I need to open better, so suggestions
2) I had 2 girls that came to nothing (never ended up meeting) but i think my text game was poor and so i want a review of what i did wrong so to speak and how i can improve.
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Conversation 1..
Hey Tracy, i'm x, 25 and live in Leeds. Where you from?
Her: Castleford
Me: Cool, How old are you?
Her: 19, you?
Me: Cool, 25. Do you work or are you in college?
Her: No, you?
Me: Uni. What are you interested in/enjoy doing?
Her: No, i'm with my mate - Not sure why she said that
Me: Cool. You single i presume?
Her: Yeah
Me: Good, got a pic i can see?
Her: No
Me: You shy or outgoing?
Her: Shy
Me: Cool, how tall are you? What kind of guys do you go for?
Her: I don't know
Me: You free tonight? Meet me. 6pm. City center. We'll go to starbucks or a bar.
Her: Not until 11.30. Wait, in Castleford?
Me: You wanting fun or a new boyfriend?
Her: No, don't want a bf. Would you regard this as her stating she wants sex.
Me: Cool. You doing anything tomorrow?
Her: No.
Me: Meet me tomorrow evening then.
Her: You come into Castleford.
Me: Yup. Train station.
Her: Ok.
Me: You got a pic on facebook?
Her: No
Me: How shy are you? You like a guy in control?
Her: No, i like girls. Joke i assume.
Then checked out each others pics.
...........
Conversation 2
Me: Hey, it's x from POF. How are you?
Her: Ok, just at my brothers.
Me: Cool. Just off to gym, text me a pic.
Her. Plz!
Me: Yes, My apologies.
Her: Lol (sends pic)
Me: Pretty
Her: Hate having my pic taken.
Me: Why?
Her: Cos i don't think i look good
Me: My attitude is that whatever you don't like about yourself can be changed. Hence why i'm gyming it.
Her: Not always true
Me: Not always but a lot of the time.
Her: I still hate having my pic taken no matter what i looked like
Me: Fair enough
Her: More confident since losing 3 stone
Me: Good, when you free?
Her: How long you been going gym?
Me: Bla.. What you interested in/enjoy doing?
Her: Blaa..
Me: Cool. Shall we take a walk ending at a pub (one of her enjoyments)
Her: Gonna give you a chance to run now, i am best mates with my ex and he is protective.
Me: That's fine, a non issue unless we get serious
Her: Just thought i would let you know.
Me: Why'd you break up?
Her: Grew apart
Me: Why's he still protective then?
Her: We're soulmates if you believe that kinda thing Stinks of still being into him
Me: Okay
Her: He's no threat
Me: Cool, when you free then?
Her: Bonfire tomorrow if your interested.
Me: Prefer a private drink. Had no intention of meeting the group so to speak
Her: Ok
So the basic story is that i was a bit of a computer nerd in school but from 17-21 was pretty prolific with women (a combination of being 6'4 by that point, having style - girls would actually complement how good i smelled or how trendy/good my clothes looked and mainly i'd say having confidence upon finding out that girls were into me at that age) mainly due to MSN being piss easy to pull from.
So i'm 26 now and between 21 and now i let myself go quite a lot (working on that) among other things and so i've been out of the game and out of practise.
..
I'm mainly opening this thread for 2 reasons..
1) I need to open better, so suggestions
2) I had 2 girls that came to nothing (never ended up meeting) but i think my text game was poor and so i want a review of what i did wrong so to speak and how i can improve.
..
Conversation 1..
Hey Tracy, i'm x, 25 and live in Leeds. Where you from?
Her: Castleford
Me: Cool, How old are you?
Her: 19, you?
Me: Cool, 25. Do you work or are you in college?
Her: No, you?
Me: Uni. What are you interested in/enjoy doing?
Her: No, i'm with my mate - Not sure why she said that
Me: Cool. You single i presume?
Her: Yeah
Me: Good, got a pic i can see?
Her: No
Me: You shy or outgoing?
Her: Shy
Me: Cool, how tall are you? What kind of guys do you go for?
Her: I don't know
Me: You free tonight? Meet me. 6pm. City center. We'll go to starbucks or a bar.
Her: Not until 11.30. Wait, in Castleford?
Me: You wanting fun or a new boyfriend?
Her: No, don't want a bf. Would you regard this as her stating she wants sex.
Me: Cool. You doing anything tomorrow?
Her: No.
Me: Meet me tomorrow evening then.
Her: You come into Castleford.
Me: Yup. Train station.
Her: Ok.
Me: You got a pic on facebook?
Her: No
Me: How shy are you? You like a guy in control?
Her: No, i like girls. Joke i assume.
Then checked out each others pics.
...........
Conversation 2
Me: Hey, it's x from POF. How are you?
Her: Ok, just at my brothers.
Me: Cool. Just off to gym, text me a pic.
Her. Plz!
Me: Yes, My apologies.
Her: Lol (sends pic)
Me: Pretty
Her: Hate having my pic taken.
Me: Why?
Her: Cos i don't think i look good
Me: My attitude is that whatever you don't like about yourself can be changed. Hence why i'm gyming it.
Her: Not always true
Me: Not always but a lot of the time.
Her: I still hate having my pic taken no matter what i looked like
Me: Fair enough
Her: More confident since losing 3 stone
Me: Good, when you free?
Her: How long you been going gym?
Me: Bla.. What you interested in/enjoy doing?
Her: Blaa..
Me: Cool. Shall we take a walk ending at a pub (one of her enjoyments)
Her: Gonna give you a chance to run now, i am best mates with my ex and he is protective.
Me: That's fine, a non issue unless we get serious
Her: Just thought i would let you know.
Me: Why'd you break up?
Her: Grew apart
Me: Why's he still protective then?
Her: We're soulmates if you believe that kinda thing Stinks of still being into him
Me: Okay
Her: He's no threat
Me: Cool, when you free then?
Her: Bonfire tomorrow if your interested.
Me: Prefer a private drink. Had no intention of meeting the group so to speak
Her: Ok