I usually counter with "what will I get?". But this seems to insult some girls.
What are the possible ways of dealing with girls wanting drinks? Some girls I feel just want to use me as the drink-provider while others are genuinely interested and want some drinks to socialize.
Yesterday I walked into a bar, three girls gave me IOI's. With IOI I mean 3 second eye contact and trying to catch my attention. I felt down yesterday so I didn't approach.
I was kind of passive and down about something yesterday and I didn't even look around a lot. I just was staring in front of me into the mirror. One girl came next to me. I turned my head a little bit. She turned her head too. She asked where I was from. She was like 21 or something. Hungarian hotty. Face 8/10. Body 10/10. Classy and well-versed in English. We chatted for 10 minutes about her Hungarian roots, about what she does and some history.
After 5 minutes she asked me to buy Champagne so we could drink it together. It was already end of the night for me so I said I can't drink. I told her I had to wake up early. She said just buy it for me. I asked her "so what do I get in return? " with a grin. After that the convo kind of died off because of the atmosphere. I tried to pull her to my home with lines such as "let's drinks something at my place", and some daring lines such as "I have a secret for you at home."
This convo went on for couple of minutes. I told her "I was sorry that I couldn't get her a drink" and she said "maybe we can drink another time" and distanced herself a little bit at the bar. I finished my beer asap and when I was about to stand up she looked at me. She said "ciao".. I said good night and I left. Today I also felt down so I couldn't put up with her, plus I didn't really have time to hang out with her and drink with her.
So I would like to have advice on this:
-what is your policy on buying drinks for girls?
-how to know if she is really interested or just faking?
-how would you have dealt with my situation?
What are the possible ways of dealing with girls wanting drinks? Some girls I feel just want to use me as the drink-provider while others are genuinely interested and want some drinks to socialize.
Yesterday I walked into a bar, three girls gave me IOI's. With IOI I mean 3 second eye contact and trying to catch my attention. I felt down yesterday so I didn't approach.
I was kind of passive and down about something yesterday and I didn't even look around a lot. I just was staring in front of me into the mirror. One girl came next to me. I turned my head a little bit. She turned her head too. She asked where I was from. She was like 21 or something. Hungarian hotty. Face 8/10. Body 10/10. Classy and well-versed in English. We chatted for 10 minutes about her Hungarian roots, about what she does and some history.
After 5 minutes she asked me to buy Champagne so we could drink it together. It was already end of the night for me so I said I can't drink. I told her I had to wake up early. She said just buy it for me. I asked her "so what do I get in return? " with a grin. After that the convo kind of died off because of the atmosphere. I tried to pull her to my home with lines such as "let's drinks something at my place", and some daring lines such as "I have a secret for you at home."
This convo went on for couple of minutes. I told her "I was sorry that I couldn't get her a drink" and she said "maybe we can drink another time" and distanced herself a little bit at the bar. I finished my beer asap and when I was about to stand up she looked at me. She said "ciao".. I said good night and I left. Today I also felt down so I couldn't put up with her, plus I didn't really have time to hang out with her and drink with her.
So I would like to have advice on this:
-what is your policy on buying drinks for girls?
-how to know if she is really interested or just faking?
-how would you have dealt with my situation?