[Abnormal]

"I don't buy drinks for girls that don't suck my dick" (have an abundance mentality always; if she genuinly likes you she will love the comeback and confidence)

Notice how that comeback doesn't suggest her specifically, but girls in general.

This might not be the best for everyone, but I filter girls out that get offended easily by pushing the limits of interraction. Often girls get offended and very recently got a full glass of liquor smashed in my face by some broad in San Francisco. Yet I have no intention of turning it down a notch.

[Artist]

A girl who genuinely wants to socialize brings her own drink, or at least never asks you for one unless you are the one offering.

I would reply with " you'll have a better chance asking the bartender for it" or, " we shall head to my place, delicious cocktails are waiting for us"

[Pride male]

Ignore and change the subject.

[Gustavus Adolphus]

(08-16-2015 09:55 PM)Rompetoto Wrote:  

(08-16-2015 08:42 PM)MKDAWUSS Wrote:  

Get her a glass of water.

ordering water shots is awesome.

This is my go to recently if it's crowded as hell. I usually have a shot of Don Julio or Rumple to "cheers" them across the bar with a clear shot... a convincing bartender on your side is a plus. Really sell it. Point at them and wink, or nod, or smile, just get them to throw it back like it's a real shot. Look at them after you take yours, wondering why the shot was so "easy" for them to take after you spent that hard earned money? Motion them over to talk to you... you might be curious what happened. It's just... so loud. Kino time.

You may get a playful punch in the arm or scorn of bitchiness, but they'll come over to see you. The more you laugh at them, the better result, in my experience.

If you order the water shot from across the bar, keep up the game from a distance. You must have good non verbal communication/ flirting skills. Get on it. Buying a water shot for a girl(s) you don't talk to and eventually show value to is lame. It's not a gag on fuglys and rejects.

[Suits]

Has anyone ever banged a girl who demanded a drink?

[Just Approach]

Bitches can come to the bar looking like this; And the bitch still ain't even going to get water, let alone a drink from me.



Gaming in Hollywood has taught me to never buy these bitches drinks.
I've seen it happen so many times where a girl is dancing with a guy theN all of a sudden says she's thirsty. The guy like a SIMP goes to the bar and gets the girl a drink. She sips some then bam her cockblocking friend comes through out of nowhere to pull her away from you with typically some bullshit excuse like we have to goto the bathroom or were leaving.

When a girl asks you to buy a drink for her.
Confuse her by repeating back to hear
"What you want to buy me a drink. That's so cool of you to offer."

She will be confused and then you will have enough time to calibrate the level of intensity to tell that Bitch "Fuck Off" based on the situation.

[optimus]

(08-17-2015 05:13 AM)Suits Wrote:  

Has anyone ever banged a girl who demanded a drink?

Interesting question. Never happened to me.

Once I was in a hostel and I saw two girls talking to a guy they just met.
I went out to buy a keypad for my locker and stopped at a bar to buy four bottles of beer. Back to the hostel I put the bottles on the table and asked them If I could join them. Everything went smooth from there.

[Dalaran1991]

(08-16-2015 06:05 PM)turuk Wrote:  

Hungarian hotty. Face 8/10. Body 10/10. Classy and well-versed in English.

I was like, hmmm, too good to be true...

then

Quote:

After 5 minutes she asked me to buy Champagne so we could drink it together.

if i was you I would start asking "whats your rate?"

If that doesnt raise a bigger red flag than the Red Army standard bearer I dont know what does. Typical gold digger/whore profile


On a broader scope, I think it depends on where you are. I remeber Roosh said in a post he used the typical "Do you want me to write you a check?" with a chick back in Comlombia and lost her. Later he regretted it because the chicks there really dont have money and provider game still somewhat works.

In the West I think any girl who asks for a drink is a redflag. We know how Western girls are. Reeks of entitlement and gold digger attitude. In which case I think its either next or go all in "I ll get you a real drink at my place"

[SpiderKing]

Protein Shake

[turuk]

(08-17-2015 03:48 AM)Abnormal Wrote:  

"I don't buy drinks for girls that don't suck my dick" (have an abundance mentality always; if she genuinly likes you she will love the comeback and confidence)

Notice how that comeback doesn't suggest her specifically, but girls in general.

This might not be the best for everyone, but I filter girls out that get offended easily by pushing the limits of interraction. Often girls get offended and very recently got a full glass of liquor smashed in my face by some broad in San Francisco. Yet I have no intention of turning it down a notch.

I'm trying to push my limits in conversations too but I avoid outright insulting the girl with vulgar stuff.

Why insult the girl when you can playfully turn away her request?

As you said.. Insulting the girl with saying things like you said or asking her tit for tat kills the atmosphere.

You will get liquor smashed in your face. Probably get in a slap if she is ballsy. It is a way to burn the bridges.

[Suits]

(08-17-2015 05:52 AM)optimus Wrote:  

(08-17-2015 05:13 AM)Suits Wrote:  

Has anyone ever banged a girl who demanded a drink?

Interesting question. Never happened to me.

Once I was in a hostel and I saw two girls talking to a guy they just met.
I went out to buy a keypad for my locker and stopped at a bar to buy four bottles of beer. Back to the hostel I put the bottles on the table and asked them If I could join them. Everything went smooth from there.

There are plenty of situations where being generous/friendly is a good move. Although, it needs to be combined with good game, I would never argue that offering a beverage is consistently a mistake. Unless you're offering a drink to try to drum up non-existent interest, I don't see how it could hurt you, provided that you don't come across as desperate when offering it.

However, buying a drink for a girl who outspokenly expects one seems like a good way to immediately lose any chance of banging her.

[turuk]

I'm seeing that a lot of people counter her request for a drink with an insult. How did that work out for you?

[optimus]

I imagine you're upset about not having a response taking it into account there's so many alphas here.

What most guys here are trying to say is that; 99.9% of the time, a girl (stranger) asking you for a drink will lead to less resources and not getting laid. It's like lottery; you might get a nice prize but realistically, your chances are close to zero.

[Saweeep]

(08-16-2015 09:34 PM)MidWest Wrote:  

"Go ask that guy over there for a drink"

I like this.

With an actual point to a beta looking dude and "He seems like a nice guy"

[Indy]

A couple of good responses I've heard from this forum, and used:

"Do I look like the guy who buys drinks?"
"Okay, Wild Turkey it is."

[Vicious]

I buy girls drinks all the time, If they want to get drunk around me then that should be encouraged.

You have to be the one setting the tone for the transaction though and tell her to "try this Chianti" or "there's a great speakeasy just a couple of blocks from here they have a superb Dirty Martini". Offer before she gets a chance to ask, but don't ask what she wants.

Use what she gives you to take the lead and direct the interaction. If you assume she's doing this just to get a drink you're coming from a place of hostility.

[Saweeep]

(08-17-2015 08:52 AM)Vicious Wrote:  

I buy girls drinks all the time, If they want to get drunk around me then that should be encouraged.

You have to be the one setting the tone for the transaction though and tell her to "try this Chianti" or "there's a great speakeasy just a couple of blocks from here they have a superb Dirty Martini". Offer before she gets a chance to ask, but don't ask what she wants.

Use what she gives you to take the lead and direct the interaction. If you assume she's doing this just to get a drink you're coming from a place of hostility.

There's a distinction between buying girls drinks and girls demanding drinks.

It's the latter we are talking about. Nothing wrong with the former.

[Gmac]

(08-17-2015 03:48 AM)Abnormal Wrote:  

"I don't buy drinks for girls that don't suck my dick" (have an abundance mentality always; if she genuinly likes you she will love the comeback and confidence)

Notice how that comeback doesn't suggest her specifically, but girls in general.

This might not be the best for everyone, but I filter girls out that get offended easily by pushing the limits of interraction. Often girls get offended and very recently got a full glass of liquor smashed in my face by some broad in San Francisco. Yet I have no intention of turning it down a notch.

I would recommend against anyone on this forum using this strategy, especially the newbies. Bad form / anti-game if you ask me.

(08-17-2015 08:52 AM)Vicious Wrote:  

I buy girls drinks all the time, If they want to get drunk around me then that should be encouraged.

You have to be the one setting the tone for the transaction though and tell her to "try this Chianti" or "there's a great speakeasy just a couple of blocks from here they have a superb Dirty Martini". Offer before she gets a chance to ask, but don't ask what she wants.

Use what she gives you to take the lead and direct the interaction. If you assume she's doing this just to get a drink you're coming from a place of hostility.

I think this is good advice for the mid-level / seasoned veterans, but not necessarily for the OP posing the question. Most beginners aren't going to be able to "control the frame" and maneuver around the drinkfishing skanks to get what they want. And I agree with the above guy, major difference between offering to buy a girl a drink and those demanding one.

[turuk]

I think a simple "no" or "no, I don't know you good enough" is fine I guess and then re orientate the conversation to some other topic.

[turuk]

Some other ones:

"No, I'm cheap."

"Alcohol is bad for your skin."

"I just know you for x minutes, girl"

I think these are better than tit-for-tat answers which will just burn the bridges. You would be better off telling her to ****-off rather than saying something insulting, vulgar or devaluing.

[Saweeep]

Turuk, those responses are awful.

[Gmac]

(08-17-2015 09:51 AM)turuk Wrote:  

I think a simple "no" or "no, I don't know you good enough" is fine I guess and then re orientate the conversation to some other topic.

No response at all and/or laughing (confidently... I've seen bad game when guys do it awkwardly) is better than a "no." Then you just walk away if you don't get the desired outcome immediately.

Of course for me in this situation I am laughing at a woman naturally because I'm genuinely amused when girls demand drinks. Guys new to game have to fake it till they make it.

Usually she'll give up and go on to the next guy. Don't waste your time on these girls. Unless you're el mechanico... in which case you troll the shit out of them.

[zombiejimmorrison]

(08-16-2015 06:51 PM)Caligula Wrote:  

Say "you get this round, I get the next one."

This one sounds the most neutral and good for beginners. I'd just be self amused if a girl asked me for a drink, I'd say "You first" and see how it goes. I've learned that you don't need to be elaborate with what you say, its more about not coming off as a desperado.

[turuk]

(08-17-2015 10:46 AM)CrashBangWallop Wrote:  

Turuk, those responses are awful.

yea?

[NCS]

You still seem like you are afraid of "losing" the girl by somehow feeling like you are answering wrong, as though there is some sort of magical answer to this shit test that will suddenly soak her panties - instead of focusing on letting her win you. What sort of inner game work are you doing right now? Seems like a big part, and I've struggled with this too at times, is understanding your own value. Without understanding your own value you'll always follow the path to failure -> see every every woman as better than you, which leads to pedestal, which leads to oneitis, which leads to beta bitch, which leads to her crushing you, repeat.

Me, I'd answer with a very bemused and honestly curious "now why would I want to do that?", and unless she comes up with something that really hooks me to qualify herself then I'm just going to respond with amused laughter at her like she is a friends teenage daughter who is acting out.

I wouldn't spend $3 for a beer for this woman as you describe her, let alone "only 30 euro" which for us on the other side of the pond is $33. NFW, $33???!? for a pretty girl shit test? Child please.... That's a case of shotgun shells and a round of trap shooting. More than enough lures to fish for a day. A huge burger and a beer while enjoying a game with my mates. Half a tank of gas in my truck. A huge steak from the butcher to bbq and a cheap-ass bottle of wine that I can share with an interested woman at my place with a Netflix and chill evening. You get the idea.