Hello everyone, I'm about to hit the sheets but there's one thing that's become extremely apparent to me and I'd like to wake up to some feedback on it.
Certain times, I'm a spot-on master in social situations. I can hold people's attention, make them crack up with laughter, tell the most detailed stories, and completely dominate the interactive process of talking to women. It's almost as if my mind is lubricated in these situations as everything simply flows. I feel no anxiety, no pressure, nothing negative whatsoever. When I'm in my zone I am IN my ZONE (people around me actually stop what they're doing to listen to me speak) and only falling asleep can take me out of it.
However, there are times when all that is flipped on its head. I'll be nervous walking past a sexy woman, my thoughts are forced and sporadic and my mind will just feel a bit clogged up in general. It is entirely uncharacteristic of me, knowing what I'm capable of and having pulled off what I've pulled off.. I simply do not understand why I'm on 100 sometimes and the next day I'm on 0.
I have no lack of notches, and everything I do has been learned from mentors and cold, hard experience. The mindsets and beliefs I've developed (which allowed me the high degree of social success I've achieved) should be with me all of the time right? I'm confused as to why it feels so fleeting sometimes.
When I'm out of my zone I can't even text women in an attractive manner, and I usually end up avoiding replying to them altogether until I'm back in it.
I understand that everyone has ups and downs, but my ups are extremely 'up' and my downs are extremely 'down'.
Can anyone else relate to this? I haven't met anyone in my travels who shares this problem and I would hate to think it's unique to me. Oh and sorry if I haven't explained myself very well lol, I'm forcing myself not to nod off at the moment
Certain times, I'm a spot-on master in social situations. I can hold people's attention, make them crack up with laughter, tell the most detailed stories, and completely dominate the interactive process of talking to women. It's almost as if my mind is lubricated in these situations as everything simply flows. I feel no anxiety, no pressure, nothing negative whatsoever. When I'm in my zone I am IN my ZONE (people around me actually stop what they're doing to listen to me speak) and only falling asleep can take me out of it.
However, there are times when all that is flipped on its head. I'll be nervous walking past a sexy woman, my thoughts are forced and sporadic and my mind will just feel a bit clogged up in general. It is entirely uncharacteristic of me, knowing what I'm capable of and having pulled off what I've pulled off.. I simply do not understand why I'm on 100 sometimes and the next day I'm on 0.
I have no lack of notches, and everything I do has been learned from mentors and cold, hard experience. The mindsets and beliefs I've developed (which allowed me the high degree of social success I've achieved) should be with me all of the time right? I'm confused as to why it feels so fleeting sometimes.
When I'm out of my zone I can't even text women in an attractive manner, and I usually end up avoiding replying to them altogether until I'm back in it.
I understand that everyone has ups and downs, but my ups are extremely 'up' and my downs are extremely 'down'.
Can anyone else relate to this? I haven't met anyone in my travels who shares this problem and I would hate to think it's unique to me. Oh and sorry if I haven't explained myself very well lol, I'm forcing myself not to nod off at the moment