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Mongolian Girls?
02-18-2017, 10:25 AM
Good day everyone. Firstly, received a three-day suspension for posting a couple of photos of Mongolian ladies I know. Apparently, there is a “forum rule” I was unaware that it is against guidelines to post photos of people you “know”; however, perfectly acceptable to post photos of people you “do not know”. Stranger than fiction, however, I can only shake my head and move on. I believe the offense was not in the photos I posted, however the lead moderator being an expat, taking exception to my depiction of how expats living permanently in Mongolia are treated as if they have the plague by the locals. Now worries. Once this thread expires, I will be moving on as I do not have time to visit online blogs routinely. I was simply posting here to give folks who have shown interest, a better understanding of Mongolia as a whole, from an American who has boots-on-the-grounds perspective. Sorry, but no more pictures of Mongolian ladies (apparently not appreciated here).
@Kartik13
Hey Kartik13. I would say go for it. You are correct, these women are very alluring. Robert High Hawk described it best in one of his former posts when he referred to them as the “Scandinavian Blondes of Asia”. It appears you are looking more for the “Club Bed” experience. I will say that the economy has improved and Mongolian women are not as much available for the “short-stay” boyfriend to show them a good time, as they once were. Or at least the women which you would care to spend time with.
It appears you are Canadian – that is what will send off fireworks with these ladies. The better quality ladies like the ones in the photos I have posted, are interested in long-term relationships, and as importantly, relationships that would provide a more opportunistic life abroad. Aside from being an American citizen, I would say that Canadians are second on their list for protentional partners, just edging out England and Australia (do not underestimate your Canadian citizenship – far outweighs your ethnicity). This in itself is a serious “gamechanger”. If you have a little game and civility, then I would say you will not have many lonely nights in UB. Just stay out of the “strip clubs” (frequented primarily by expats who are here permanently). Also, dress nice but casually (I’e., nice tee-shirt or casual shirt, camelhair jacket, Levis and Cole Hans). If you come dressed too formally (yes you will appear as a man of substance), however appear like every other Mongolian putting on airs. The “haves” in the international community of Mongolia dress casual, but well (no need to show they have it). It sets them apart from the local men who dress too far up.
Not to get off topic, however, we tend to avoid expats who have taken up permanent residence in UB, as for the most part, they all seem to be slightly off, and give off somewhat of a creepy vibe. This is not missed by the Mongolian community either who show them all the affection and inclusiveness you would that stray racoon who continually knocks over your garbage can at night. I am not a pub crawler, however there are a few more upscale clubs in UB frequented by the international community where many white-collar professionals share a few libations. Of course, the nicer looking Mongolian ladies are well aware of this, and will pop in and out making appearances as well. Upon your immediate arrival, these “meat markets” are always a good place to scope out possy’s of tall, leggy, Mongol babes. Eat your lunches at Café Amsterdam, or TurningPoint Café (if you can catch it open) same theme and will see many higher quality Mongol ladies lounging and hoovering about. Also, sign up for a 30-day membership at “Flex Gym” when you arrive (yes a gym) – it is a smorgasbord of very, very “hot” Mongol women who work out there. This place is as much a pick-up place as anywhere, and it is designed to be just that. By UB standards, “Flex Gym” is very expensive to belong, and you will only see the international community and more well-heeled Mongolians (generally connected to a management position in mining) working out here. Now for the good part, as part of a community outreach effort, Flex Gym staff hits the streets and “selectively” hands out coupons within the Mongolian community, which offer a FREE three-month membership; and if they wish to continue, may do so at a huge discounted rate. The caveat, these FREE three-month memberships are ONLY given to very, very “hot” Mongolian ladies (generally gym staff hang out at the universities to distribute). After the three months, most of the Mongolian ladies cannot (will not pay) continue, therefore there is constantly a new crop of Asian “hotties” circulating through (sometimes the same ones). This little gimmick is meant to attract eye-candy, and assures a steady and loyal membership from men, especially in the international community. Remember, this is not San Francisco, this is Mongolia.
In short Kartik13, I believe you will do well. It is important you do not view any Mongolian woman as unattainable. Unless the ones that have been spoken for, you should not have any problems attracting female companionship (you will be surprised how many young girls in the Ger district are spoken for). When you stroll through the Ger district, you will see many 17, 18-year-old girls pushing babies in a stroller – keep in mind the girl is not the child’s older sister or nanny, however the mother. A word of advice, if you find yourself enamored by a cute Mongol girl, who has been spoken for or has a ‘bo – forget her. There are too many fish in the sea in UB, and the last thing you need is a jealous Mongol on your butt. You will be viewed as what they call a “sex tourist” and will be open game in the event you offend someone. Also, come during the summer when all is in bloom and the land warms; it is during these times that raven-haired beauties are running all over the place. Most importantly, DO NOT marry a Mongolian woman. She will be amazing, even irresistible here; however, you will be pulling her away from the very land that binds her. Her culture is so foreign to anything that you can understand and will barely recognize her once abroad (I have heard this scenario too many times and always has the same ending). The result is inevitably a train wreck and results in a debacle for the man and her. In short, I say come to Mongolia and enjoy yourself!
@Robert High Hawk
I will miss your “spot-on” commentary. You seem to effortlessly find the words which I find myself groping for (what can I say, I am a “left-side brain thinking” engineer). You are so right about the cold in Mongolia, it is a dry cold. I would love to post photos from the Gobi desert, however, no photos for pleasure allowed from the mining regions (tested this theory once). I believe the issue is that they want no unwarranted oversight over work conditions. I will say that the working conditions are some of the best I have seen in my professional travels – Rio Tinton really does it right.