[Gmac]

Quote:

Girl: —So, I know it's none of my business, but I was thinking I could start using another birth-control method, I wore an IUD last year and I could get one again. But I wanted to know if you have sex with someone else.
Me: —Yes, sometimes. I think it's better if we used both the IUD and condoms to be safer.

(07-09-2015 10:42 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

She is willing to go on birth control if you give up other chicks.

And you prefer not to lie?

C'mon dawg. Be real

WIA

Basically this. You're a fool to be so honest - if you still want to have your cake and eat it too.

[olive]

IUD overrated. Keep having all cakes with condom (if condom hater just turn the cake upside down before having it - for natural baby protection).

[articulatecool]

(07-09-2015 08:45 AM)topdog Wrote:  

And no, I don't see myself getting into a 'relationship' with her, I like what we have.

May I just ask why you don't see her as relationship material? Or do you just want to hold off on getting into an LTR (not personal to her)?

[topdog]

@articulatecool: First, she is pretty but not "LTR pretty". Second, she comes from a fatherless home -> has daddy issues, weird humor sometimes. Third, I came to uncover her sexual past and it's certain I am not the first and won't be her last alpha lover (sex was hot, her blowjobs were very good). Fourth, she smokes occasionally.

Also, as I wrote in earlier posts, just before being with me she was engaged to another guy (6 years older than her) so it seems she was ready to tie the knot (being just 19 y/o) but she called it off for inane reasons.

The most important reason is I am not ready for an LTR, I am still in the beginning stages of growth as a man/seducer and I decided that settling for a 'relationship' with some girl I was just fucking casually would not be the smartest thing to do.

On my side, the door is open to have her in my rotation as FWB, or semi-MLTR but nothing else. She called it quits (gave the ultimatum) because she knew she couldn't extract the degree of commitment she desired (or was coerced to get by her friends or mother).

Still radio silence. I'll let it rest until 2016.

[topdog]

After three months of radio silence, I checked her Instagram out of curiosity... and she has gotten herself a boyfriend. Seeemingly average looking guy, nowhere as tall as me, but showers her with presents, flowers, concert tickets, meals... Funny thing she blurs out his face from the picture of them together.

*Lesson learnt: Never underestimate the capacity of a pretty young woman (who also happens to be very good in bed) to trap another man. The guy is definitely enjoying her almost as much as I did, but I did her for a fraction of the expense (Alpha fucks, beta bucks) Good for her.

On to chase other girls, hit the gym and hustle a better job.

-TD