[mardan]

Guys, I've got a conundrum.
I've had this happen to me twice now, 7 years apart with two different chicks.

Chick 1:
(I wrote a long version, realized I would not have read it myself, here are the highlights)
- very much into me (pushed me to call her, kept calling me)
- says she wants to get married; I say go elsewhere
- goes back to ex bf
- lays me while with bf
- doesn't lay again, tells me she is no slut
- cries as we part (boo hoo)

summary: laid once, she was still very much into me in her mind, but over the course of the next 1.5 years, no arousal->sex

Chick 2:
- very much into me (pushed me to call her)
- says just left 5yr relationship, looking for a FB
- lay once
- will not lay again but still orbits around me (followed me to class, etc)
- she likes me very much by all indicators, but won't lay again

summary: laid once, still very much into me, won't lay again

Both girls were big girls (not fat, just tall). I'm taller but not pornstar-endowed. Though I've had even taller girls tell me I was the best lay they ever had, I'm not sure about these two vaginas.
Even then, the sex was good; I think..

So, why chase me (they both did) but not fuck me?
I was/am very high value in both circles, but I refused to play the provider right off.
Maybe I was the one they wanted to "spare for later", and I, of course, resent that.

I would want to tap the second one regularly; first one is too old now.
Any insight?

[Saweeep]

Maybe you're bad in bed?

[Marmite]

It might be that they are / were trying to blue ball you into making a commitment to them.

[Samseau]

Whatever you got the bang! Remember, the first lay is always the best lay. Time for new chicks!

[Checkmat]

I've spit the same game, laid down the same pipe and fuck style to different girls and had completely different reactions.

Girl A's entire body turns red and her eyes roll back in her head as I choke her and fuck the shit out of her. She makes sure I text her and tells me she wants to cook dinner for me after I fuck her.

Girl B takes the same dick/choking and never hear from her again.

Girl C takes the same dick/choking and doesn't even kiss goodbye and never hear from again.

Girl D takes the same dick/choking and says she is addicted to my cock and can't wait to suck my big head again.

hrug: Just do your thing player. They either like it or they don't. Can't please everyone.

[Sonoma]

Ive had girls withhold bangs because they were worried about liking me knowing I wouldn't like them back.

Might be them trying to protect themselves

[Wreckingball]

She's probably a low sex drive girl. Same thing happened to me with a french chick.
She probably likes you, but she doesn't like sex and sees it as an obligation rather than pleasure. Don't waste your time with her unless you actually like her.

[mardan]

All valid, good points.
Thanks, guys.

Keep 'em coming, though. Any insight helps.