I’ve seen them come and go and long stopped asking why….
I go to the gym regular for about 6 or 7 years. And with regular I mean regular. Drops have been only when I was sick, at a travel or some unavoidable issue.
At the first it was hard, I went with a friend. Over the time he quit and me not. I’ve seen young guys and fat people that hit the gym with a crazy motivation just to disappear after some time. You always see it when it get warmer or New Year’s promises. Those people don’t build up a routine. Over motivation can burn you out. Your body need time to adopt. When you haven’t done sport in years, well you can’t switch to a 6 day routine and believe to hold it for more than a few weeks. After 6 weeks most people disappear. So if you start, do it slow and think of it as a life changing process that will never end. Not a fast thing to do and then stop it. Give your body time to get used to the new stuff. Also when you change your nutrition, don’t change it just to lose some weight, see it as an improvement of life quality in the long run.
The next thing: MOTIVATION
I hear a lot of guys cry about motivation. Well it’s nice to have something that push you but there are two forms of motivation.
Extrinsic motivation: This is a song, a video, or believe that you have to do it. It’s from the outside. You don’t get motivation by yourself in the long run. You always need a pusher to get your lazy ass up. An example are people that hit the gym or do something because they think they can gain something from it. Like more success with women, more popularity.
Often those people don’t make it because it’s not that who they are. If the extrinsic motivation factor leave, those people quit. Don’t be a quitter.
Intrinsic motivation: You do it because you like to do it. For the joy of itself. You don’t think about gain something because do this – in this case work out – is what makes you fun. That improves your life quality. And with this improvement of life quality you get better attitude and people will respond more positive to you. You even can become an inspiration for others. It’s your inner drive.
Everybody that does something, gym, work, hobbies etc know there are good and bad days. I feel sorry for those guys that don’t hit the gym just because they have a bad day. Or it’s too cold, too rainy and too hot or whatever excuse they may have.
Routine beats motivation. This counts more for the extrinsic guys. Do you have motivation to get up every day and go to school or work? NO.
But you do it because have to do it. You don’t think about it. With the gym it’s the same. As I mention, you have to like the general idea to work out. Your intrinsic motivation has to be up. Still there are days when you are in a bad mood. If you like the idea to work you and know it makes you feel better – you go.
But all the other ones, that need a kick in the ass. Well make it a routine. Use a partner with whom you meet up in the gym. A regular time. Then you have one excuse less. I mean do you plan appointments in your work time? Mostly not because only strange people would do it. It’s the same with the gym. I have my fixed work out times when I go and it’s so deep in my brain that I plan other stuff around it. Because going to the gym makes me feel good. And even when I have a bad day and just want to go home and sit down, I’m in the gym. A bad workout is better than none. I not even think about good or bad days any more. I’m just there and do it. And after I feel good. Sure good days are better but for me it’s the bad days that are the result makers. When you don’t let yourself down in the long run. From my experience, to have success, know why you train – so make yourself feel better and then stick to a routine. Have your fixed days when you hit the gym and take it serious. For long term success you can’t rely on good or bad days and miss a workout just because you feel lazy.
Do it over and over again till you don’t think any more if you want to go or not because you are already on the way to the gym.
I go to the gym regular for about 6 or 7 years. And with regular I mean regular. Drops have been only when I was sick, at a travel or some unavoidable issue.
At the first it was hard, I went with a friend. Over the time he quit and me not. I’ve seen young guys and fat people that hit the gym with a crazy motivation just to disappear after some time. You always see it when it get warmer or New Year’s promises. Those people don’t build up a routine. Over motivation can burn you out. Your body need time to adopt. When you haven’t done sport in years, well you can’t switch to a 6 day routine and believe to hold it for more than a few weeks. After 6 weeks most people disappear. So if you start, do it slow and think of it as a life changing process that will never end. Not a fast thing to do and then stop it. Give your body time to get used to the new stuff. Also when you change your nutrition, don’t change it just to lose some weight, see it as an improvement of life quality in the long run.
The next thing: MOTIVATION
I hear a lot of guys cry about motivation. Well it’s nice to have something that push you but there are two forms of motivation.
Extrinsic motivation: This is a song, a video, or believe that you have to do it. It’s from the outside. You don’t get motivation by yourself in the long run. You always need a pusher to get your lazy ass up. An example are people that hit the gym or do something because they think they can gain something from it. Like more success with women, more popularity.
Often those people don’t make it because it’s not that who they are. If the extrinsic motivation factor leave, those people quit. Don’t be a quitter.
Intrinsic motivation: You do it because you like to do it. For the joy of itself. You don’t think about gain something because do this – in this case work out – is what makes you fun. That improves your life quality. And with this improvement of life quality you get better attitude and people will respond more positive to you. You even can become an inspiration for others. It’s your inner drive.
Everybody that does something, gym, work, hobbies etc know there are good and bad days. I feel sorry for those guys that don’t hit the gym just because they have a bad day. Or it’s too cold, too rainy and too hot or whatever excuse they may have.
Routine beats motivation. This counts more for the extrinsic guys. Do you have motivation to get up every day and go to school or work? NO.
But you do it because have to do it. You don’t think about it. With the gym it’s the same. As I mention, you have to like the general idea to work out. Your intrinsic motivation has to be up. Still there are days when you are in a bad mood. If you like the idea to work you and know it makes you feel better – you go.
But all the other ones, that need a kick in the ass. Well make it a routine. Use a partner with whom you meet up in the gym. A regular time. Then you have one excuse less. I mean do you plan appointments in your work time? Mostly not because only strange people would do it. It’s the same with the gym. I have my fixed work out times when I go and it’s so deep in my brain that I plan other stuff around it. Because going to the gym makes me feel good. And even when I have a bad day and just want to go home and sit down, I’m in the gym. A bad workout is better than none. I not even think about good or bad days any more. I’m just there and do it. And after I feel good. Sure good days are better but for me it’s the bad days that are the result makers. When you don’t let yourself down in the long run. From my experience, to have success, know why you train – so make yourself feel better and then stick to a routine. Have your fixed days when you hit the gym and take it serious. For long term success you can’t rely on good or bad days and miss a workout just because you feel lazy.
Do it over and over again till you don’t think any more if you want to go or not because you are already on the way to the gym.