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06-09-2015, 08:01 AM
There is no reason, because this is not reasonable or logical. Men bring way more values to the table than women in this society, they should be approaching us instead if it were all about reason and logic.
There is just reality: women simply do not approach men who are not famous, infamous (evil), wealthy or much better looking than they are. If you want women and you're not in those categories, you must approach.
A lot of Game newbies tend to be STEM introverts who are often stuck on the must have reason for everything overanalytical mindset. Drop that and just do what works.
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06-09-2015, 03:53 PM
in case your wondering my age, i'm 27, ya i'm often bitter and resentful, jealous of people that got to experience dating, relationships, and sex in their late teens and early 20's, the more innocent years, I feel i'll probably always feel that way towards people that arrived to the party early while I was very late to the party, even if I ever make it to the party by fixing my issues with women, if I ever do.
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06-10-2015, 01:02 AM
I can relate to Wolverine right here:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fdqYUnHpQm0
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06-10-2015, 02:14 AM
i will admit, there are times I feel like beating up a man, punching his lights out if he dares to question my masculinity in public by telling me to "Man Up, Be a Man, Grow a Pair, Grow some Balls", I feel like making him squeal like a puppy as I break his fuckin' neck.
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06-10-2015, 03:26 AM
if more people just admitted what Elliot Hulse said in the first page on this thread, that the Sperm goes after the Egg, then that would make it easier to accept and deal with, and if people just admitted that women are the choosers, not the men, that sperm is cheap, eggs are expensive, then it would be easier to remove the bitterness and resentment, and if getting laid is a skill that can be learned, not something you are instinctively, innately, naturally born how to do, that would give me hope and inspiration.
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06-10-2015, 03:51 AM
Quote: (06-10-2015 03:26 AM)BronzeAgeGuy713 Wrote:
if more people just admitted what Elliot Hulse said in the first page on this thread, that the Sperm goes after the Egg, then that would make it easier to accept and deal with, and if people just admitted that women are the choosers, not the men, that sperm is cheap, eggs are expensive, then it would be easier to remove the bitterness and resentment, and if getting laid is a skill that can be learned, not something you are instinctively, innately, naturally born how to do, that would give me hope and inspiration.
This goes back to the currently hot debate on Roosh article "Evo psychology do not apply to modern human beings"
With all the advance of condoms of pills, all the cost-calculation related to eggs and sperms are render obsolete and redundant. The proof is that modern female humans are MUCH more promiscuous than male, which is rarely found in similar mammals.
If anything sex has gotten less and less natural nowadays.
Similarly, survival of the fittest is out of the question because government and society ensures that all genes survive, and handicapped and unfit members can easily survive past adulthood.
In the end, just believe whatever it is that works for you. If you get laid by believing that all women are sluts, thats none of my business and fine by me.
Ass or cash, nobody rides for free - WestIndiArchie
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06-10-2015, 04:27 AM
Quote: (06-10-2015 03:51 AM)Dalaran1991 Wrote:
Quote: (06-10-2015 03:26 AM)BronzeAgeGuy713 Wrote:
if more people just admitted what Elliot Hulse said in the first page on this thread, that the Sperm goes after the Egg, then that would make it easier to accept and deal with, and if people just admitted that women are the choosers, not the men, that sperm is cheap, eggs are expensive, then it would be easier to remove the bitterness and resentment, and if getting laid is a skill that can be learned, not something you are instinctively, innately, naturally born how to do, that would give me hope and inspiration.
This goes back to the currently hot debate on Roosh article "Evo psychology do not apply to modern human beings"
With all the advance of condoms of pills, all the cost-calculation related to eggs and sperms are render obsolete and redundant. The proof is that modern female humans are MUCH more promiscuous than male, which is rarely found in similar mammals.
If anything sex has gotten less and less natural nowadays.
Similarly, survival of the fittest is out of the question because government and society ensures that all genes survive, and handicapped and unfit members can easily survive past adulthood.
In the end, just believe whatever it is that works for you. If you get laid by believing that all women are sluts, thats none of my business and fine by me.
yes and I was reading on some sites online, don't know if they are truly accurate, it said that it is not uncommon for Female Rats to be the sexual aggressors during courtship, mating, one of it mentioned that a Female Rat will try to escape her cage when she is so horny to look for a Male, and Rats are mammals just like humans are.
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06-10-2015, 05:39 AM
Analogy time:
Men are hunters i.e. chase prey and hunt
Women are fishermen (fisherwomen? i.e. cast nets and select their suitors
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06-11-2015, 02:56 AM
Does any guy actually feel more "Yang" or masculine when a woman approaches them instead of the other other way around? Not in my experience. Approaching is part of being a man, masculine, "Yang" etc and I feel a little repulsed when a woman approaches me.
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06-11-2015, 02:30 PM
that's why in some ways i'm kinda jealous, envious of how women are valued for their youth more than men are, that womens peak attractiveness years start earlier than mens.
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07-11-2015, 02:55 AM
because they have a vagina, vagina means receiving, so for them having a vagina, women are meant to be spoiled, men are not, thats why Hercules had to do those 12 labors.
