Hi Peter, I appreciate your datasheet on Bucharest and your comment in this thread. I'm in Wroclaw right now - assuming you're still in Bucharest? I'm here for a couple months, feeling out what it'd be like to live here long term. Roosh has indicated Westerization has corrupted a lot of Polish women and I can see signs - cell phones held close to the face for women and even men. Not omnipresent, but I was hoping to escape some of that. My very first girlfriend was Polish and I am actually half Pollack which I don't look like at all (darker skinned). I keep Google translate on my phone, listen to pronunciations, hope they're grammatically close enough and throw out a new phrase or two every day. Including having done (and repeated) the full Pimsleur Polish course I have a much better response and IOI rate this trip vs. last trip. As always, important to differentiate ourselves from the crowd.
I can agree with averagebritguy (sp) who mentioned seeing guys doing more work here and Roosh made a point about clown game. It feels like the Western influence which is quite sad. Wroclaw is becoming a very culture-focused city (2016 will be a huge year for the city) and attracting a lot of investments, which I think everyone elevates everyone's pride and that can elevate egos / expectations too.
I'll attest to very good experiences overall with several Filipina and Chinese girlfriends, plus a humble smoking hot South Korean and an ultra-sweet Indonesian gf. The one Japanese gf I had was too Westernized in the end combined with some screwed up family history but I didn't know to not stick it in crazy yet. My personal preference has been for blue-eyed gingers and it's nice to see a bunch of them here but I also love an exotic SEA look. It's more than the look, but how I did feel really cared for by all my Asian girlfriends more than any other group. The Buddhist influence is real - combines a kind of earthy spirituality with an earthy sensuality, appreciation for the moment and real masculine/feminine dynamics.
A point of Roosh's I can initially agree to is the entitled attitude of a majority of 18-22 y.o. Polish girls, at least w.r.t. an older foreign-looking guy. While most men's favorite demographic from a purely feminine standpoint, they also know their SMV. I have a feeling more indirect game is the way to work it, at least with my more laid-back style, which is why I'm going to spend more time near the university, get help with relocation information, etc. As Giovonny says, some girls still need to be guided and that's a pleasure for me as a man. The ones I've had effortless connections with are 26-28 - career-oriented women, often apparently pretty isolated between home and work. Not a bad age at all, but I still want younger and I can see they're more likely to have aged faster than their younger sisters. I really like the new Vertigo jazz club, good food, great entertainment and I made a good connection there with a hot, professional librarian-type. Was leaning in a lot, interested in my (back)stories. Even with her friend there (who knew I was into the hotter one), it was pretty easy to just be comfortable and let the evening unfold. Super smooth skin! We'll meet up next week.
I will add that having taken some salsa classes has really brought my confidence level up for dance floor game, where I'd have been practically paralyzed before. I would have easily had a 7+ (gorgeous dark-haired blue eyed girl who didn't speak much English but was giving me lots of opportunity to engage with her) a couple nights ago but I blew it by admitting I was here for a couple months. I didn't isolate very well (her friend wasn't getting any attention and the hot one probably felt bad for her). I think there's a chance I'll see her again - maybe I'll bring a date to the club
My game is rusty and I'm enjoying the opportunity to practice without getting blown out - for me, I feel opening in Polish (even a few phrases) seems to help. They know you're making an effort.
EDIT: I disagree, I didn't blow it. I know she wanted me, was doing her rationalization check list on why to not come back to the appt. I need to work on my LMR (too much damn work, not enough workin' it!). But I felt really confident telling her it was a fun night and just walking away (no looking back). I know damn well she was thinking about me.. I danced with her over an hour, doing little escalations, touching and tickling her which she said stop but then I'd do it again soon after. I think the DJ was jealous, having to 'prove' he had some connection by doing his own little bachata with her at the end of the night and throwing looks my way. I was just smiling and digging the easy fun. Wroclaw is a helluva place.. maybe after my first few weeks here I'll need to drop by Poznan and ask Roosh gzie moge kupic kotek