Hey guys,
kind of a serious decision i can't get out of my head for quite some time now and I thought maybe some here has some tips for me...
I've been in a ltr for over 4 years now (1,5 years then three months apart during which i didn't sleep with anyone else and since then back together again) am 22 and my gf is the only woman i've slept with... i'm not bad looking and not a huge fool with girls (thou my game has gotten quite rusty, if ever i had any to begin with, some natural skills though)... i'm realising that i'm getting somewhat bored in the relationship, but i still feel love for my girl. But lately i don't really want to invest much more time/money in her when i'd rather be out in bars etc.. She is very into me and has realised that i'm trying to distance myself from her to some extent and has called me out on it a couple of times. Should i just get my balls together and get it over with? I feel that if I break up with her now it'll be some time before i can get my shit together and start approaching other girls. I have no moral issues with having affairs but i see her basically every day and she phones me a lot. Besides, what little time I have left from my studying she wants me to spend with her... would it be wise to break it off and start fresh or just continue to see her and try to creep on the side (though maybe my motivation to approach other girls is somewhat diminished by the regular sex and that very observant eye of hers)?
I know that this is a decision I have to make for myself! But I'm hoping someone has some insight into my situation from past experience.
Thanks in advance!
kind of a serious decision i can't get out of my head for quite some time now and I thought maybe some here has some tips for me...
I've been in a ltr for over 4 years now (1,5 years then three months apart during which i didn't sleep with anyone else and since then back together again) am 22 and my gf is the only woman i've slept with... i'm not bad looking and not a huge fool with girls (thou my game has gotten quite rusty, if ever i had any to begin with, some natural skills though)... i'm realising that i'm getting somewhat bored in the relationship, but i still feel love for my girl. But lately i don't really want to invest much more time/money in her when i'd rather be out in bars etc.. She is very into me and has realised that i'm trying to distance myself from her to some extent and has called me out on it a couple of times. Should i just get my balls together and get it over with? I feel that if I break up with her now it'll be some time before i can get my shit together and start approaching other girls. I have no moral issues with having affairs but i see her basically every day and she phones me a lot. Besides, what little time I have left from my studying she wants me to spend with her... would it be wise to break it off and start fresh or just continue to see her and try to creep on the side (though maybe my motivation to approach other girls is somewhat diminished by the regular sex and that very observant eye of hers)?
I know that this is a decision I have to make for myself! But I'm hoping someone has some insight into my situation from past experience.
Thanks in advance!