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06-28-2015, 03:54 PM
I don't think it matters too much the order you go. So many factors will change and everything is interconnected. Going to Europe could improve your experience later In South America but maybe you will fall in love in Colombia and then miss sitting next to a beauty queen on the flight to Moscow who would have banged you that night if you told her that story about Italy, where you had a threesome with two girls who thought it was cute you had never travelled anywhere else before. And so on. The world is full of possibilities.
The one thing that matters for some people is if you have a strong desire to learn the local language for whatever reason, the younger you are and the longer you are willing to stay in the native country the easier it will be for you. You can learn at any age but your brain prefers to do it earlier.
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06-28-2015, 05:33 PM
^^ well said.
You can have a great time in countless countries. You might as well live in a place where you have an appreciate for and willingness to learn the language and culture in order to get the most out of the experience, wherever it js.
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06-28-2015, 06:43 PM
There really isn't any country that attracts them. It just seems to be a random thing. I've dormed with hot girls in Stockholm, Amsterdam, Barcelona and Berlin. In Stockholm, the room had 3 creepy older guys, a couple of young Chinese guys and a smoking hot 9 blonde from the Netherlands.
All I can say about what Hostel to choose when it comes to women is to avoid hostels that seem too intent on attracting British and American tourists. You can tell these types from names like "The Flying Pig" or "The Irish Inn". Generally the best hostels are a bit out of the way and have simple names. They seem more likely to attract the Dutch, Swedish, German etc girls which are way better for sharing rooms than British for obvious reasons.
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That makes sense. It is definitely a more American or potentially British thing to be attracted to the bigger brand name hostels in major european cities. I am going to be in Paris for a few nights in July. If you have heard of it, do you think that St Christopher's Inn would be one of the more American/British centric hostels? I've heard good things about it but would be much happier staying in the hostels that attract Scandinavians as opposed to some others.
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06-29-2015, 07:49 AM
Regarding the original question, I'll say this. Wherever you are, be there.
It sounds cliche, but one of the biggest time wasters is worrying about where you are not, and men far too often waste hours of their life wishing they were somewhere else, doing something different. Look at the most grounded of men and you'll see they are inside of every moment.
Aim for the freedom to be anwhere, and strive for exciting things, but also teach yourself to be happy, or at least engaged, everywhere.
Life is promised to no one, so do your best to take nothing and no one for granted.
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"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling
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12-20-2015, 07:52 AM
Well, I think the amount of cock I saw on the Thai islands recently has turned me off of the beach holiday scene so that's done and dusted. I've still never been to Ibiza, Greek Islands, Croatia etc but I'm guessing it would be even worse judging by reports on this forum, especially being someone who prefers rolling solo. I'm thinking big cities with plenty of quality women are next on the agenda- just have to pick one with vibrant nightlife so my amateur day game isn't exposed to much.
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12-20-2015, 10:21 AM
I'm glad this thread was started. I was hoping someone thats traveled a lot can answer this for me. I'm getting tired of SEA countries and Asian women in general. I love them but I need a change. I'm basically looking for a place that's the next level of difficulty from thailand terms of gaming white girls. I'm gathering Ukraine is my best bet. Any opinions? Thanks
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12-20-2015, 10:34 AM
A lot of people talking about where to live, and that should ultimately be based on what you want in life. I recommend to prioritize money, but at the same time prioritizing going to the gym, living a balanced healthy life, and getting laid because it's so much fun Nobody ever said it would be easy, but like has been said earlier I think it will get better in late 20's in 30's assuming no major fuck ups.
I do live in SEA, but NYC, Silicon Valley, SF, London, HK, maybe Beijing/shanghai are good for a different track if you need to get a high paying job and are not lcoation independent. Do want to check out Brazil, but I highly recommend really thinking it out first because it's tough to leave paradise. I want to check out Brazil for example but there's just not enough reason for me to leave SEA.
I wouldn't sweat not being too well traveled, before you're thirty I don't think any guy should have any major regrets built up at that point.
Good luck prioritizing it all I still don't have it all down, focus on money, but make intelligent choices not to be a slave too much either, system will eat you butthole first.
