rooshvforum.network is a fully functional forum: you can search, register, post new threads etc...
Old accounts are inaccessible: register a new one, or recover it when possible. x


Arobin's ColombianCupid adventures in Medellin
#51

Arobin's ColombianCupid adventures in Medellin

nothing wrong with that...but the picture shows you why you are in medellin and afterwards, hopefully, in farther and better places. i liked the realism about your first time as a gringo in colombia in your earlier post (im like mixx...i have south american blood and have lived in colombia and medellin) but when a man goes to war he better have a very good incentive to do it..risking your life is much easier when there is a beautiful, special woman or a country with many beautiful women waiting with arms open for your return. seeing that picture, just like one, with young american girls, in another post from a college championship rugby team with george w bush (many had flip flops)....just shows you why it is imperative for a man to travel when his women are not worth it.
Reply
#52

Arobin's ColombianCupid adventures in Medellin

Quote: (05-30-2011 09:19 PM)Arobin Wrote:  

Quote: (05-30-2011 07:32 PM)coronel nacimento Wrote:  

but one thing to remember about leaving the states... this is what good american military and the majority of american men have given their lives for...such a waste....
http://www.cnn.com/2011/US/05/26/cnnhero...tml?hpt=C1

It's a support group for young military widows... I don't understand what's objectionable about that.

I guess he's saying there are not hot. Nice way to celebrate Memorial Day by bagging on a military widows bc you don't think they are hot. Stay classy San Diego
Reply
#53

Arobin's ColombianCupid adventures in Medellin

imo.. it would be easier in ecuador or peru for you arobin ...ill make sure to post a data sheet and comparison in the next 2 weeks. buena suerte con las paisas....si ha cambiado algo medellin comparado con hace 2 anos. es un poco mas difici ahora.
Reply
#54

Arobin's ColombianCupid adventures in Medellin

and please, arobin, this has nothing to do with widows...i forgot about memorial day...ive been outside the USA a long time now.
Reply
#55

Arobin's ColombianCupid adventures in Medellin

Quote: (05-22-2011 03:04 PM)Arobin Wrote:  

Here's a follow up with the CC girl. She continued calling/texting me that night despite no response from me. The final one at 2 AM saying, "Te extrano un monton." I invited her over to my apartment last night.

The short version:

She comes over, acts cold for the first hour and won't let me kiss her, finally warms up and we fuck. Along the way she grubs for food, drinks, and cab fare. MiXX was right. Incredibly easy lay.

The really long version:

Early Game

She comes over and is really standoffish and sort of cold. I show her around my apartment and then pour us glasses of wine and sit on the couch and she sits down as far away from me on the couch as she can. She doesn't really talk much, so I just keep rambling and start putting my hand on her leg while I talk. She doesn't really react one way or the other. I tell her I want to show her photos on my computer so I sit at my desk and when she comes over I gesture to my leg and say "Sentate." [Sit] and she says, "Estoy bien" [I'm okay] and continues to stand. So I show her pictures of my trip and put my hand on her lower back as I talk. After I'm showing her pictures for a couple minutes, she suddenly goes over to the window a few feet away to look at the view. I follow her and say something like, "Es una buena vista. Me gusta." [It's a good view. I like it.] Then I take her hands and try to turn her to kiss me and she refuses to turn. Then she asked me about music, so I went back to my computer to show her what music I had. After a few minutes, I got up and tried to kiss her again and she just kept looking away and refusing to face me.

Me: Estas bien? [Are you okay?]
Her: Si. [Yes]
Me: Pareces nerviosa. [You seem nervous]
Her: No estoy nerviosa. [I'm not nervous]
Me: Quieres besarme? [Do you want to kiss me?]
Her: Tienes mucho musica! [You have a lot of music!]

And then she goes over to my computer again and starts scrolling through my music. So this whole thing is super weird to me. I couldn't understand how this was the same girl that was calling and texting me the night before. I bring her to the couch and try to make out with her again and we go through the same routine. Then she turns to me and:

Her: Consiguiste mis texts? [Did you get my texts?]
Me: Si. [Yes]
Her: Bueno. [Good.]
Me: Por que me pides? [Why do you ask?]
Her: No entiendo. [I don't understand.]
Me: Por que quieres saber que recibi tus texts? [Why do you want to know that I received your texts?]
Her: No entiendo. [I don't understand.]
Me: Si. Recibi. Dijiste que te gustan mis ojos. [Yes, I received. You said that you like my eyes.]
Her: Si.

I didn't understand why she was saying "no entiendo" because I think the stuff I was saying was syntactically correct.

Escalating from the Kiss

I position her so she's lying against me while I run my arms over her stomach and legs and then try kissing her again and this time we start making out. We stop then start again a few minutes later, but any time I touch her back under her shirt or squeeze her ass or tits over her clothes, she moves my hand.

This is kind of going on for a while and I don't remember the exact sequence of events but we're going from sitting on the couch at points to looking out at the view to playing with my computer with making out in between but she still keeps stopping me if I try to escalate. Then she goes over to the window by my bed and so I make out with her there and as we're making out, I can feel her subtly moving me back towards my bed, so I move her to my bed and put her down on it and we start fooling around there, but she's still stopping me if I go for boobs or ass. Then after like a minute of making out she's like, "Tengo hambre!" [I'm hungry.] And I'm like, "Um... okay." And she's like, "Tengo HAMBRE!" [I'm HUNGRY!] And I'm like, "Te quieres algo para comer?" [Do you want yourself (sic) something to eat?] And she starts nodding excitedly and I'm like, "Okay, tengo brownies." [Okay, I have brownies.] And I take out packaged brownies and give her one and eat the other (sidenote: big mistake. She somehow managed to get crumbs all over my apartment).

We finish the brownies by my computer and we start making out again and she starts gently pulling me to my bed, so I pick her up completely, walk to my bed and lay her down on it, continue making out and she takes off my shirt. I go for her shirt and she stops me and says, "Para! No, no. despacio!" [Stop! No, no, slow down.] I try again and she lets me and she says, "Tengo frio!" [I'm cold.] and starts getting under the covers and I say, "No, no puedes llevar pantalones dentro los cubiertos. Es una regla." [You can't wear pants within(sic) the covers. It's a rule.] So we start making out again and I take off her pants and she says, "Despacio!" [Slow down!] but then takes them off herself, so I take off mine and get back in the bed with her.

Even though she's down to underwear, STILL any time I rub anywhere near her tits, pussy, or ass, she grabs my hand to stop me and says, "Despacio!" We continue making out and then she touches my boxers and says, "Quitatelos." [Take them off.] and so I say "Tu" [You] and she starts pulling my boxers down and gets to about knees and seems to be fidgeting around without getting them further down so I take them the rest of the way down. I start rubbing my dick against her pussy through her panties, but she keeps saying, "No! Despacio!" and grabs my dick and moves it away. So then I reach down and try to rub her pussy through her panties and I realize she's taken them off. Apparently the fidgeting after taking off my boxers was her taking off her panties. So I try to finger her for a second and she AGAIN moves my hand and is like, "No! No!"

The Sex

At this point, it's pretty clear it's all just token resistance, so I get a condom and start rubbing against her again and she moves my dick so that I'm just rubbing over her pussy instead of fucking her. We do this for a while. I flip her on top of me and get her bra off, then flip her so she's lying down again and start to have sex with her and she's like, "Ah, ah! Despacio! Me duele." [Slowly. It hurts.] so I go in slow and then suddenly she's like, "Casito! Casito!" [???] and I stop and I'm like, "Que?" And she's like, "Casito!" And I'm like, "No entiendo 'casito'..." [I don't understand 'casito'] And she's like, "Casito. Despacio." And so it went on like that with her whimpering and saying "despacio" or "casito" any time I tried to go any faster than like snail slow. The other weird thing was that she wouldn't let me touch her tits at all. Whenever I tried to go near them with my hand or mouth, she'd put a hand over them and clutch them for dear life. I don't know if Colombians are more protective of their boobs or if she's embarrassed about them because they're small by Colombian standards (like a B-cup), but she was not having it.

Then she gets a call on her cell phone and answers it while I'm still inside her. She starts talking to her friend and I wanted to see what would happen if I went faster while she was talking and she didn't react at all; like she just kept talking like nothing was going on so I was wondering if she was faking the pain earlier for whatever reason. I wasn't sure what she was saying but it sounded like she was either claiming to be at the mall near my apartment or talking to someone who was at that mall.

Then after about a minute she gets off the phone and is like, "Ya vinó?" [Have you come already?] So I said no I hadn't come yet and she starts whining and saying, "Estoy cansado." [I'm tired.] And so I'm like, "Quieres que yo termino?" [You want me to finish?] and she nods, so I'm like "Alright." And then I get this (still mid-sex, mind you):

Her: Medataxiplata! [???]
Me: Que?
Her: Medataxiplata?
Me: 'Medataxiplata?' No entiendo. ['Medataxiplata?' I don't understand.]
Her: Me da plata para el taxi porque el metro esta cerrado? [Can you give me money for a taxi because the metro is closed?]
Me: Quieres dinero para un taxi? [You want money for a taxi?]
Her: Si. Me da plata? [Yes. Will you give me money?]
Me: Podemos hablar despues? [Can we talk after?]
Her: No! Ahora. [No! Now.]
Me: Despues. [After.]
Her: Pero si? [But yes?]
Me: Despues. [After.]

Post-game

So we continue, I finish and we just lay around a while, occastionally talking, have sex again about an hour later, then lie around some more. At one point she says:

Her: Fui facil? [I was easy?]
Me: No entiendo. [I don't understand.]
Her: Fui facil? [I was easy?]
Me: Oh! [I realized she meant was she easy to fuck] No pienso de eso. Solamente pienso de connecciones. Si hay un conneccion, es bueno. [I don't think about that. I only think of connections. If there's a connection, it's good.]
Her: No entiendo. [I don't understand.]
Me: Ummm... no me importa si es rapida o despacio. Solamente me importa si hay un conneccion y me siento un conneccion contigo. [I don't care if it's fast or slow. I only care if there's a connection and I felt a connection with you.]
Her: No entiendo. [I don't understand.]
Me: Um... no. No fuiste facil. [No, you weren't easy.]

Later she starts asking about taxi money again. I remembered this part in Bang Colombia (sidenote: this book is becoming increasingly eerie in how accurate it predicts my experiences in Colombia) where Roosh talked about being begged for post-lay cab money. I was trying to decide whether I liked her enough to want to see her again (which would translate to don't give her money), so I stalled a bit by teasing her and I'm like, "Oh, quieres darme plata? Por supuesto!" [You want to give *me* money? Of course!] She keeps whining and saying I should give *her* money because in Colombia the guy pays for the taxi and I tell her that in the US, women always give men all their money. She tells me that's not the way it works here. So finally I'm just like whatever, I'd actually prefer not to see this girl again, so I agreed to give her 20,000 COP (~$11) for a taxi.

I start walking her out of my apartment and she sees a container of dried blueberries on my coffee table and she looks at them and then looks at me and keeps making a deliberate show of glancing at the blueberries and raising her eyebrows. I ask her, "Quieres comer?" [Do you want to eat?] and she nods really fast and starts eating them and then she starts walking out and is like, "Llevo para comer en el taxi?" (can I take them to eat in the taxi?) And I'm like, "No... voy a comerlos." [No... I'm going to eat them.] She starts pouting but I take them away from her and walk her out and hail her a cab and that was that.

Conclusions

The experience left me feeling pretty unfulfilled. The whole thing felt like a transaction and not the result of any kind of game. I was re-reading a bit of Bang Colombia this morning and the part about the line between prostitution and normal relationship with a lower class girl definitely rang true.

Questions:
-Is this girl's behavior normal for Colombianas? (the insane texts, the weird token resistance all night)
-Any idea why she'd never let me play with her boobs?
-In the instances where she claimed she couldn't understand what I was saying, what was going on? It seems like my Spanish was correct.
-Anyone know what "casito" means? (it's possible I'm not transcribing it correctly)

I am cracking up reading this. I could have written this exact same post last week. Except I gave up before the sex and decided to cut bait and move on. Blowing her off only made her text, email, messenger, stalk me like an insane person. I told her I was going to Medellin and that drove her even crazier. Her name isn't Viviana by any chance is it? LOL!!!!!!!
Reply
#56

Arobin's ColombianCupid adventures in Medellin

did you ever encounter Colombian girls going crazy if they have to wait 1 or 2 minutes for you? They can show up an hour or 2 late, but if ur 2 minutes late they get pisssssed. Some of the birds i've encountered did this. Then just walk away or hang up on them and the fun really begins.
Reply
#57

Arobin's ColombianCupid adventures in Medellin

This chick was giving me major crap for not logging into messenger for a day. She was always hours late for meeting up with me at my apartment. But I knew she would be so I planned for it. I always have plans A, B and C ready to go.

My ex wife gave me less crap.



Quote: (07-02-2011 12:13 PM)redneckpunk Wrote:  

did you ever encounter Colombian girls going crazy if they have to wait 1 or 2 minutes for you? They can show up an hour or 2 late, but if ur 2 minutes late they get pisssssed. Some of the birds i've encountered did this. Then just walk away or hang up on them and the fun really begins.
Reply
#58

Arobin's ColombianCupid adventures in Medellin

Quote: (07-01-2011 12:38 PM)bajarider Wrote:  

I am cracking up reading this. I could have written this exact same post last week. Except I gave up before the sex and decided to cut bait and move on. Blowing her off only made her text, email, messenger, stalk me like an insane person. I told her I was going to Medellin and that drove her even crazier. Her name isn't Viviana by any chance is it? LOL!!!!!!!

Ha, nope. Different girl.
Reply
#59

Arobin's ColombianCupid adventures in Medellin

Quote: (07-02-2011 06:55 PM)Arobin Wrote:  

Quote: (07-01-2011 12:38 PM)bajarider Wrote:  

I am cracking up reading this. I could have written this exact same post last week. Except I gave up before the sex and decided to cut bait and move on. Blowing her off only made her text, email, messenger, stalk me like an insane person. I told her I was going to Medellin and that drove her even crazier. Her name isn't Viviana by any chance is it? LOL!!!!!!!

Ha, nope. Different girl.

lol i know viviana, i fucked her and so did my friend.
Reply
#60

Arobin's ColombianCupid adventures in Medellin

I fucked Viviana too actually.
Reply
#61

Arobin's ColombianCupid adventures in Medellin

Yup. It's obvious she was a poor barrio girl. The talking on the phone just shows how much if an expert she is at fucking and lying about it as she is doing it to another person on the phone.

This is why the iPhone, with it's new FaceTime feature will NEVER sell in Colombia. With everyone bullshitting and cheating, it's easy to tell someone, turn on your iPhone cam, nag get busted.

Mixx
Reply
#62

Arobin's ColombianCupid adventures in Medellin

Quote: (08-26-2011 11:01 AM)Roosh Wrote:  

I fucked Viviana too actually.

just checked Colombian cupid and its seems there's hardly any girls on it anymore, let alone in hot girls. i was in medellin colombia for 6 months about a year and a half ago and most girls look much better in pics. the girls would look like 8 or 9s in pics and in person they would range froms 5s to 7s at best.
Reply
#63

Arobin's ColombianCupid adventures in Medellin

Quote: (08-26-2011 12:12 PM)lovingmedellin Wrote:  

Quote: (08-26-2011 11:01 AM)Roosh Wrote:  

I fucked Viviana too actually.

just checked Colombian cupid and its seems there's hardly any girls on it anymore, let alone in hot girls. i was in medellin colombia for 6 months about a year and a half ago and most girls look much better in pics. the girls would look like 8 or 9s in pics and in person they would range froms 5s to 7s at best.
I mentioned on another post that I rented a room from one of these "clever" paisas (estrato 3 so not so poor or dumb as you might think) and watched her run her operation. Incoming phone calls all day long, text messages, webcam, meetings with gringos in parque Berrio, etc.
She has a couple pictures of her looking way hotter than in real life (in real life even I didn't try to fuck her and I would most 6s) and she would call them "las falsas" (the fake ones).
I used to poke fun at her CC profile where she stated she hated "mentiras" (lies) and would tell her "no quieres mentirosos para que no te ganen" (you don't want liars so they don't beat you at your game).
She lived off these type of scams and was already training her 15 year old daughter (who was hot and did want to fuck) how to flirt and get money off men...the difference between this and hookers is that at least you know that you're doing the hookers for money and don't end up confused about it thinking if it was your game or money that got you your flag.
Btw, girl of original poster looks like just a barrio popular girl who didn't even try to hide it.
Reply
#64

Arobin's ColombianCupid adventures in Medellin

Duplicate!
Reply
#65

Arobin's ColombianCupid adventures in Medellin

Colombian cupid question: For those of you who actually met these women in person, I am deciphering what type of girl she may be. Here is one example:

TYPE 1: Has 1 photo, and searching men from 18-80. Is she a fake or did the webmaster want some web traffic for men to join etc?

TYPE 2: Has a few photos, description is rather brief. Here is the kicker, when they respond to you, its a general short response with their FULL name (first and last) and their email. No question about YOUR profile or what you messaged her. Just a flat out generic response, 1-2 lines and thats it.

Here is an example: como estas ps mi msn es *****@hotmail.com ps a ver si cuadramos algo y nos podemos ver
besos

I am cautious about the dodgy women who claim they are looking for someone to hang with or more, but secretly are looking for a chump to pay for her way while he is there.... Moonlighting prostitutes, no thank you either.

As well, they are huge on msn messenger. I don't plan on hanging on my computer all day while I'm there. Gonna be DAY Gaming. I simply asked for their cell numbers, and they give it w/o objection. They all offered msn etc, but go for the phone. Easier for me. Will that be the right move, I don't know....... Don't care, because all who have been there swear the night game is not easy. Day game is where its at.

On a final note: I have a Brazilian friend, and in Sao Paolo he was telling me his friend who works in the airport there would see the same woman in the departures section weekly, monthly with different men. But here is where the drama starts. She would be crying, ohhh I miss you darling to the departing "gringo", balling her eyes out. But, this would be played again over and over every few weeks but with different men. They found it comical, hence this is where that "maria passapuerte" nickname comes in. But in Brazil, calling a girl a "maria (fill in the blank) shows what types of guys shes into... He told me, that a woman who likes soccer players is called a "maria >>>>>>> (I forgot the term),,, likewise a woman who likes a certain guy a "maria >?????) and so on and so forth. I definitly don't want that to be a foreshadowing with my COLOMBIAN CUPID adventure.

I am quite aware of the potential scams or lies they may pull when they flake or want $$$$$. Just want to avoid these type of women, and not waste time with them online if there is a tell tale cue we can "read" into.

Thanks
Reply
#66

Arobin's ColombianCupid adventures in Medellin

Mixx gave a good answer back on page 1. Stick to girls with a job, they are more straight up. And filter for a girl with university education. At the very least, vocational college.

If you have a moral objection to paying for a girl while hanging out with her, you're wasting your time in Colombia. That statement about "secretly are looking for a chump to pay for her way while he is there". That is EVERY girl in Colombia, no matter what the social class. That is just how dating works here. Not just dating, even. Go on a group vacation with families and only the guys pay. Yes, even with brothers and sisters, only the males pay.

If a girl comes to your place and fucks you, just pay the taxi if she needs one. Kind of lame to expect her to ride the bus both ways out of her own pocket. A lot of local girls have no income and no walking around money at all.

MSN suits girls better than the CC website. It's more immediate to chat in real time. If they have a smartphone with data plan, they can be available more often.

They don't want to chat on a dating website. Imagine IRL if you met someone at a speed dating event. The first thing you'd do is bounce them to a new venue without the organized dating taint. On CC, they want to bounce to MSN to get to know you.
Reply
#67

Arobin's ColombianCupid adventures in Medellin

Thanks Tigre, much appreciatd...... Just want to hit the ground running when I get there. I don't have the social network there, as social network works well typically everywhere especially there in meeting hunnies.

I don't mind paying, just will be cautious as Mixx noted of not going to an expensive restaurant first time out etc.
Reply
#68

Arobin's ColombianCupid adventures in Medellin

I've met plenty in person.

About searching for men 18-80, in my experience sometimes it's a gold digger, sometimes she just chose a quick answer to the question without much thought.

Almost all descriptions are brief, and many responses are brief as well. Also many will not hesitate to give you their contact information.

Usually the ones who want money are overly sweet from the beginning, telling you everything they think you might want to hear. Or, you might ask como estas, and they might say mas o menos, or something like that. When you ask what's wrong, they give you the "story."

Tigre I have to disagree with you "If you have a moral objection to paying for a girl while hanging out with her, you're wasting your time in Colombia."

I have to admit I've been pleasantly surprised, but I have met some attractive women who didn't ask for anything.

One that I was bangin and hangin out with would take turns with me paying for shit. But, she is college educated and has some money.

There was another cutie that would give me stories and ask for money, but I let her know that I'm not a caretaker. She continued to fuck me for free while talking to guys through messenger trying to hit them up for money. I know because I sat and watched her chatting with dudes a couple of times just for laughs.

One time I went to western union with her to pick up money that some dumb ass had sent. Then I fucked her later that day.

One girl did try to pull that "bring the family to lunch" shit. We made plans between us, but later she told me her mom, grandmother and little brother are coming. I asked if she expects me to pay for everybody. She said yes. I said sorry don't have enough pesos. Next time.

Never happened.

I chatted with a milf. Wasn't all that attractive but had a killer curvy body.

We agreed to a date. When I arrive to her place in a taxi, her daughter and boyfriend came with her. We go to the mall to eat. Everybody orders, then look at me to pay. I was pissed. But I paid.

I said to myself "I better get some pussy for this." The bill was only 75,000 pesos, maybe $40 usd. Cheap for four people.

Fast forward, same night. We end up in a hotel. I fucked her, and the next morning she's telling me about stuff that she needs. I said I don't have any money. She calls me "tacano" (cheap).

I can't believe this dumb bitch asked me for money AFTER we fuck??? Never saw her again.

There's a beautiful 22 year old that I'm bangin. She'll take a 2 hour bus ride to see me. We lay in my bed all day, fuck 2 to 3 times, that's it. If we have lunch or something I pay for it. No biggie. She pays for her own bus tickets. Never asked for a dime.

Those are just a few examples.

I've been out with girls that didn't ask for and didn't expect nada. A few others, yeah, they tested me.

I can't hate on them though. Foreign men want to use them for their beauty. They know this. So they try to flip the script and use us for dinero. It's a two way street.
Reply
#69

Arobin's ColombianCupid adventures in Medellin

Quote: (04-16-2012 10:49 AM)Tbone Wrote:  

I can't hate on them though. Foreign men want to use them for their beauty. They know this. So they try to flip the script and use us for dinero. It's a two way street.

True. CC is definitly interesting. I have always done better in real life meeting and dating women when I met them the "old fashioned" way. I know they probably have suitors lined up coming to see them each month. Vice versa, we have girls waiting to see us too.

Tbone, did you exclusively use CC to meet women, or did you try any day/night game. I am leaning towards CC while I'm not in Colombia to pipeline (pre trip) and while there, day game say around the financial district. I have a thing for those admin/secretary type of girls. Plus they have their own dinero which is a plus in my opinion. I think gaming the educated and/or office girls has plusses and minuses. For one, not many dudes will try this route but instead will stick to the malls, or cafes. Secondly, not too many venture outside of parque lleras.

Any of you other cats have a "tell sign" when pre screening girls on CC for dishonesty or potential flakiness? I know Roosh mentioned that the girls with a big social circle tend to flake at a high rate.

Thanks!
Reply
#70

Arobin's ColombianCupid adventures in Medellin

Up until now just CC. My spanish was far from conversational, so I would meet girls on CC and talk with a translator. This would be enough to build rapport, so when we met in person my limited spanish wouldn't so much stand in the way.

Since my spanish is improving, I tried an approach at a restaurant worker (turns out she's the owner). I said (in spanish) I am American and I am trying to learn spanish. Can you be my teacher?

But she knew by my facial expression that I was attracted to her. Got her number. Working on the bang.
Reply
#71

Arobin's ColombianCupid adventures in Medellin

Fantastic !!! I hope you get the bang,, get to eat for free then HA !! if it was that place people are hyping about crepes y waffles???? you're in heaven dude...

If you're in Medellin this summer, as for any of you cats send me a PM. Its gonna be one caliente summer!!!
Reply
#72

Arobin's ColombianCupid adventures in Medellin

Great tips Mixx!!!! youre the man!!! =)


Quote: (05-20-2011 01:27 PM)MiXX Wrote:  

It is flooded with horny (old) gringos. I don't disagree with Lumiere on that note, but CC is easy, imo, because women there are 100% looking for a foreign bang or boyfriend. So, you are targeting women that are waiting for guys like you: Not Colombian or Hispanic.

Women on CC are for the most part from lower status neighborhoods. The barrios where women tend to be the easiest lay even for the ugliest and fattest, and broke Colombian local dude.

Women here are slick however, and the more experience they have dealing with gringos, the more of a slick flake she will be.

So, what I recommend is:

1. Only go for girls that are "new members" of CC. If they've been there for the past 10 years, forget it...she's already had her way with gringos and has lost her innocence. This is the one with least chance of getting laid by you.

2. Make sure you see each other on webcam. THIS IS HUGE!!! Any woman that sees a guy on cam is mnore emotionally connected to you before you even land in Colombia!

3. Avoid calling girls only a few days before you land. The more she is used to your calls, the less of a novelty you are.

4. NEVER bother with girls who answer your e-mail with 5 words for you to call her when you arrive. These are a waste of time, as tehy are not really giving you an IOI.

5. If you see a girl is online everyday without fail, she is likely a pro. Looking for a fool to pay her bills. Normal girls have busy lives working/school/kids/parents/friends.

6. Most important...NEVER, EVER, EVER accept meeting her in a rich $$$$ restaurant. Always go for a cerveza and an arepa. Go for 1st cheap dates that cost you no more than 20USD TOTAL!!! Once she proves not being a flake, and you've built a bridge to potentially fuck, then you can escalate to nicer and more intimate things. Liek dinner at your place.

Mixx
Reply
#73

Arobin's ColombianCupid adventures in Medellin

I love this report, Arobin really went into it with detail and lots of minute stuff that (despite the girl's erm, strange behaviour), is quite instructive!

"Imagine" by HCE | Hitler reacts to Battle of Montreal | An alternative use for squid that has never crossed your mind before
Reply
#74

Arobin's ColombianCupid adventures in Medellin

I was 20 years old, first time in South America, I had 6 bangs in 7 days, and I do not speak any Spanish at all at that time. All my girls were from CC
Reply
#75

Arobin's ColombianCupid adventures in Medellin

How did I miss this epic thread when compiling them for the Colombia master thread? Thanks Diego for digging up all of these random threads from four years ago, good work, you're a skilled user of the search function.
Reply


Forum Jump:


Users browsing this thread: 1 Guest(s)