[rinestone]

The talking on the phone while having sex is unforgivable that would be like some chick watching TV while you bang her and asking are you done yet.

This chic is not only poor but very low class.... bottom of the barrel.


[/quote]

she seems like some combination of young/prepago where as long as you pick up the check for a couple things you can bang her (maybe whenever you want, on demand) and not touch her breats. her wanting to take blueberries in the cab is not only revolting, but a sure sign of her abject poverty and the quid quo pro/arrangement you could enjoy.

her answering the cell phone seems like a sure fire indication of what others have talked about in other posts. you don't pay for incoming calls so she's gotta answer it to avoid paying for the call. otherwise she would have to call her friend back, on her dime. in almost three months, i can count the number of cell conversations i've taken part in or overheard that was longer then 3 minutes and they were all with wealthy girls or other americans.

[rinestone]

and way to hang on to your berries dude!

[Lumiere]

Her actions all the way through can be summed it in two words - pay me !

Its not weird or hard to understand her actions when it in clear that was her agenda.

If you don't understand how girls there get like this then just read this article and all will become clear

http://www.expat-chronicles.com/2011/01/...-medellin/

[redneckpunk]

(05-23-2011 01:25 PM)Lumiere Wrote:  

Her actions all the way through can be summed it in two words - pay me !

Its not weird or hard to understand her actions when it in clear that was her agenda.

If you don't understand how girls there get like this then just read this article and all will become clear

http://www.expat-chronicles.com/2011/01/...-medellin/

sooooo you banged a teenage psuedo hooker, welcome to Medellin buuuuuuusted.

no worries my colombian flag claimed she was 22 but was probably 18.

[Craig88]

You should've shoved it up her ass when she was on the phone. See how she ignores you then. lol

[WEDO]

(05-23-2011 01:25 PM)Lumiere Wrote:  

Her actions all the way through can be summed it in two words - pay me !

Its not weird or hard to understand her actions when it in clear that was her agenda.

If you don't understand how girls there get like this then just read this article and all will become clear

http://www.expat-chronicles.com/2011/01/...-medellin/

We don't know that the girl is underage. You can still be prosecuted for having sex with minors if you are a US citizen in a foreign country. So I wouldn't hang that around the guys neck.

I think it is a stretch to say she was a prepago that accepted blueberries as payment. jajaja

She liked the guy and fucked him with the hope that he might like her also and help her out of her miserable situation. I don't believe she is a prostitute yet.....but if she can't find someone she likes fucking to help her out....she will be soon.

When you see these types of young women that have never had a job and have no way of paying for college to better themselves....you have to understand that asking for shit is very normal for them.....because that is how they got the clothes on their back and everything they ever owned in their lives.

[Jalouse]

This does sound pretty screwed up, I was just on the phone to a CC chica in Medellin, she asked me to pick up the fare for her taxi, I told her to take the bus! There was no mention of Blueberries, perhaps I should stop off at the store and pick up a tub just to be on the safe side.

[WEDO]

(05-23-2011 05:59 PM)Jalouse Wrote:  

This does sound pretty screwed up, I was just on the phone to a CC chica in Medellin, she asked me to pick up the fare for her taxi, I told her to take the bus! There was no mention of Blueberries, perhaps I should stop off at the store and pick up a tub just to be on the safe side.

Never understood the logic behind not paying a women's taxi fare if she is coming over to bang the hell out of you...especially if blueberries aren't required.

If you are afraid she might make a dime off of the transaction you can always go down and pay the taxi driver yourself to make sure you get the correct change. jajaja

[Jalouse]

She wasn't coming over to bang the hell out of me we were just going to grab a coffee. I'm still not sure if this is normal behaviour or not, do regular girls expect you to pick up the tab just to come and meet you?

The last girl before this one who told me to pick up the cab fare was a hooker. So for this reason I'm quite suspicious of women who straight off the bat are asking you to shell out money.

[WEDO]

(05-23-2011 06:43 PM)Jalouse Wrote:  

She wasn't coming over to bang the hell out of me we were just going to grab a coffee. I'm still not sure if this is normal behaviour or not, do regular girls expect you to pick up the tab just to come and meet you?

The last girl before this one who told me to pick up the cab fare was a hooker. So for this reason I'm quite suspicious of women who straight off the bat are asking you to shell out money.

Yes, it is normal for guys to pay the taxi and for coffee, drinks and food if you invite them to eat.

Colombian guys pay and you'll have to pay also or risk being labeled "tacano". jajaja

If you think she is playing you for money then tell her to call you when she gets there so you can pay the taxi yourself.

I think some guys here take the money thing way to far....I would much rather buy a hot chic lunch and have her engage me for an hour than randomly approach women in a mall and try to chat them up.

The best advice I can give you is make lots of friends in Colombia so you'll be in the large groups partying their asses off in the Colombian clubs instead of the gringo standing alone trying to figure out how to approach a large group. jajaja

[Jalouse]

(05-23-2011 06:52 PM)WEDO Wrote:  

(05-23-2011 06:43 PM)Jalouse Wrote:  

She wasn't coming over to bang the hell out of me we were just going to grab a coffee. I'm still not sure if this is normal behaviour or not, do regular girls expect you to pick up the tab just to come and meet you?

The last girl before this one who told me to pick up the cab fare was a hooker. So for this reason I'm quite suspicious of women who straight off the bat are asking you to shell out money.

Yes, it is normal for guys to pay the taxi and for coffee, drinks and food if you invite them to eat.

Colombian guys pay and you'll have to pay also or risk being labeled "tacano". jajaja

If you think she is playing you for money then tell her to call you when she gets there so you can pay the taxi yourself.

I think some guys here take the money thing way to far....I would much rather buy a hot chic lunch and have her engage me for an hour than randomly approach women in a mall and try to chat them up.

The best advice I can give you is make lots of friends in Colombia so you'll be in the large groups partying their asses off in the Colombian clubs instead of the gringo standing alone trying to figure out how to approach a large group. jajaja

Thanks, it's hard to overcome your own cultural norms, if I'm at home and I organise a date then the girl says hey can you pick up my cab fare to get there you'll instantly think wtf? Whereas paying for drinks, food is very normal. I can't think of any other place I've been in the world where the girl asks for her cab fare to get to a date.

Also in my experience it has been a small percentage that have asked me to pay the cab fare straight up front which is why I'm quite suspicious when they're asking for this before we've even met. The last one ended up bouncing on my bed with these huge fake pair of tits out asking for a regalo of 200,000 pesos.

[thegmanifesto]

WEDO -

"I think some guys here take the money thing way to far....I would much rather buy a hot chic lunch and have her engage me for an hour than randomly approach women in a mall and try to chat them up."

Me too, but I guess everyone has their own financial situations.

Personally, I would rather have a great meal with a fly girl, a great evening, a great experience, live life and swoop, then save that money and not swoop.

Every night.

For me its all about swooping.

Not saving a few bucks here and there.

[Lief]

I think CC is a waste of time.

Can you get laid from it? Absolutely.

However, Roosh often talks about Cost Per Notch (CPN). With online game you have to track Time Per Notch (TPN).

Online game in Colombia takes a lot of time. You screen the listings, contact the girls, get responses, try to talk on MSN, some flake and are never online in MSN, you set up meetings, and then when you do meet up you never really know what you're going to get. The girl could have a number of imperfections that you don't see in photos - acne, bad teeth or even a dick (transvestite). And a percentage will flake out at the last minute.

Sorry online dating is not efficient. If your TPN is over 4 hours to bang a 6.5 you are doing something wrong wherever you are on the planet.

I think that the older chicks are much more open to being banged on CC. Girls who were late 20's and early 30's didn't flake and you could tell they were gagging for foreign cock. However, a 7+ girl, less than 22 is not easy to meet up with through CC.

I just don't see many 8's on CC. Maybe a few attention whores but not girls that are truly seeking for dudes.

I think I could have these Colombian cougars waiting for me at the airport but with the young chicks things would be infinitely more complicated.

Thus, I agree with Lumiere - Cupid is a waste of time.

Re: Asking for cab fare - it's a normal part of Colombian courtship and it does not imply abject poverty. You pay for everything in Colo - it is just the way it is and don't think much about it.
I have had Colombian girls play the whole "it hurts" line. It's a lie and they just want you to finish.
This girl sounds like a semi-pro.
I think blueberries are expensive in Colombia - (ie - imported?)

[Jalouse]

(05-23-2011 09:00 PM)Lief Wrote:  

I think CC is a waste of time.

Can you get laid from it? Absolutely.

However, Roosh often talks about Cost Per Notch (CPN). With online game you have to track Time Per Notch (TPN).

Online game in Colombia takes a lot of time. You screen the listings, contact the girls, get responses, try to talk on MSN, some flake and are never online in MSN, you set up meetings, and then when you do meet up you never really know what you're going to get. The girl could have a number of imperfections that you don't see in photos - acne, bad teeth or even a dick (transvestite). And a percentage will flake out at the last minute.

Sorry online dating is not efficient. If your TPN is over 4 hours to bang a 6.5 you are doing something wrong wherever you are on the planet.

I think that the older chicks are much more open to being banged on CC. Girls who were late 20's and early 30's didn't flake and you could tell they were gagging for foreign cock. However, a 7+ girl, less than 22 is not easy to meet up with through CC.

I just don't see many 8's on CC. Maybe a few attention whores but not girls that are truly seeking for dudes.

I think I could have these Colombian cougars waiting for me at the airport but with the young chicks things would be infinitely more complicated.

Thus, I agree with Lumiere - Cupid is a waste of time.

Re: Asking for cab fare - it's a normal part of Colombian courtship and it does not imply abject poverty. You pay for everything in Colo - it is just the way it is and don't think much about it.
I have had Colombian girls play the whole "it hurts" line. It's a lie and they just want you to finish.
This girl sounds like a semi-pro.
I think blueberries are expensive in Colombia - (ie - imported?)

I've found that Colombian Cupid has varied depending on where I am, here in Medellin it's been pretty crap but in other places I've met some hot girls and one absolute stunner.

I've only met young girls, I think the oldest would be around 24, it's not that this is my personal preference it just seems that these are the only ones that reply, I'm not even sure if mid to late 20's single girls without children exist in Colombia.

Add to this that night game can be tough due to people heading out in big groups so I can see why internet game is a popular option.

[WEDO]

Colombian Cupid is something I do on my down time....I never waste much time chatting with women before asking them out.
It's not something you should depend on to get dates that is for sure....but over the years I have met some hot women on the site.

[zanetti]

(05-23-2011 01:25 PM)Lumiere Wrote:  

If you don't understand how girls there get like this then just read this article and all will become clear

http://www.expat-chronicles.com/2011/01/...-medellin/

interesting/disturbing article

i've never come across that guy's website before - just had a look and he's sure as hell had some interesting experiences in colombia, peru and china

is he on this forum??

[Arobin]

I think I had a stroke of beginner's luck with the first CC lay and am finding further efforts to just be wasted time. I had two dates scheduled for yesterday. One texted me 5 minutes after the meet time to say she was running late and wanted to meet someplace else farther from my apartment and I said I wasn't going there and she could call me if she wanted to meet by me later. She IMed me later to apologize and ask if we could reschedule and I told her that I'd meet her if she came to my building the next day. She never showed and I IMed her to have her apologize again and say she got busy at school and her phone was out of credit.

The other just didn't show and I never heard from her.

I supposedly have a date with a girl tomorrow who claims she has no cell phone and I've only talked to over MSN, but we made the date Wednesday and I emailed her to confirm this afternoon and didn't hear anything back, so I'm going to consider that off.

I think it's back to focusing on cold approaching for me. I'm hoping cold approaching around Poblado will yield less flaky girls. Getting stood up for dates is just too much of a time suck, which I didn't really expect. I figured if I arranged so that they had to come to a place 5-10 minutes from me, very little of my time is at risk, but blocking out 2 hours in my day for something that doesn't actually happen screws me up productivity-wise.

[WEDO]

(05-27-2011 07:37 PM)Arobin Wrote:  

I think I had a stroke of beginner's luck with the first CC lay and am finding further efforts to just be wasted time. I had two dates scheduled for yesterday. One texted me 5 minutes after the meet time to say she was running late and wanted to meet someplace else farther from my apartment and I said I wasn't going there and she could call me if she wanted to meet by me later. She IMed me later to apologize and ask if we could reschedule and I told her that I'd meet her if she came to my building the next day. She never showed and I IMed her to have her apologize again and say she got busy at school and her phone was out of credit.

The other just didn't show and I never heard from her.

I supposedly have a date with a girl tomorrow who claims she has no cell phone and I've only talked to over MSN, but we made the date Wednesday and I emailed her to confirm this afternoon and didn't hear anything back, so I'm going to consider that off.

I think it's back to focusing on cold approaching for me. I'm hoping cold approaching around Poblado will yield less flaky girls. Getting stood up for dates is just too much of a time suck, which I didn't really expect. I figured if I arranged so that they had to come to a place 5-10 minutes from me, very little of my time is at risk, but blocking out 2 hours in my day for something that doesn't actually happen screws me up productivity-wise.

I would never waste my time waiting for a cc girl to show up....just go out and do your thing and tell them to call you when they get in the cab and then go meet them at your apartment after you have been cold approaching all day or hanging out with other chicks you met.

I have found it takes two or three chicks on the hook at all times to keep me entertained 24/7 in Cali so it might take you a few more in Medellin. Not that Paisas are than much flakier than Calenas but on a personal level I find it almost impossible to have any feelings for them except sexual. So I tend to go through them fast.

Good luck.

[Rockstar]

WEDO- how are you liking cali compared to Medellin? What are the differences in the women?

[WEDO]

(05-28-2011 05:41 PM)Rockstar Wrote:  

WEDO- how are you liking cali compared to Medellin? What are the differences in the women?

Well I love Cali....but it's not for everybody....you really need to have friends here to get the full effect....then you'll be in the large groups partying your ass off instead of the lone gringo wondering how to approach.

The women in Cali are less reserved than Paisas....they don't hold their cards as close to their chest...so you know which ones really like you much quicker.

It has been my experience that SNL are much easier....I can't tell you how many times I have just taken a girl out for drinks and or dancing and just brought her back to my place and banged the hell out of her with absolutely no discussion and no resistance.

No strings attached just casual sex is more common in Cali or I have just never spent enough time in Medellin where I got to the point where I could just call a Paisa up and ask her to come over with us both knowing that it was just going to be a fuck fest and nothing more.

If you aren't looking for a girlfriend and just want to bang a lot of Paisas I would start lying and telling them you are working for a company that is going to open up shop in Medellin and that you are also looking to buy an apartment there. jajaja

Otherwise stick with the real young ones that are more likely just to go with their feelings and bang the hell out of you just to see what happens.

If you want to get to know Cali I'll be there the 16th of June thru the 2nd of July.

[redneckpunk]

(05-23-2011 05:59 AM)rinestone Wrote:  

and way to hang on to your berries dude!

I'm been laughing at this line daily for a week. classic.

[coronel nacimento]

good man arobin..been to medellin 3 times. brazil is better but you will have to learn portuguese. im in quito ecuador right now so in 2 weeks i will post a good data sheet....but one thing to remember about leaving the states... this is what good american military and the majority of american men have given their lives for...such a waste....
http://www.us.cnn.com/2011/US/05/26/cnnh...tml?hpt=C1

[young_money]

That link doesn't work. Use this one http://www.cnn.com/2011/US/05/26/cnnhero...tml?hpt=C1

[coronel nacimento]

thanks money....this is what this forum is all about

[Arobin]

(05-30-2011 07:32 PM)coronel nacimento Wrote:  

but one thing to remember about leaving the states... this is what good american military and the majority of american men have given their lives for...such a waste....
http://www.cnn.com/2011/US/05/26/cnnhero...tml?hpt=C1

It's a support group for young military widows... I don't understand what's objectionable about that.