[CJ]

(05-20-2011 10:39 AM)vagabond Wrote:  

Yea, I will probably give her a call sunday or monday to set up something early next week, and if that doesn't work then I'll write her down to a random late night text. I maybe too nice but I don't like to write them off that quick. Also, she was a slump buster which is probably why I'm so focused on her.

Makes sense then... I don't know about calling her though, as she's probably more liable to ignore a phone call, but I respect Mixx and G's game so much that I don't know if I can whole-heartedly advise one way or the other.

IF it were me though, I'd shoot her a text that just said "What's up?" Monday night around 8ish, if I didn't hear anything from her after that, I'd forget about it.

[thegmanifesto]

Look at it this way boys:

Ask yourself, would Genghis Khan call or text if he were alive today?

Or any Alpha/Heavy Girl Swooper from history?

Hint: they would call.

[CJ]

Like I said G, I respect your skills 100%, but the times are changing. Really depends on the age of the girl. I know there's a reason you avoid those girls in their early 20s, and these are the ones that are texting the most.

Also, I think Genghis would send a messenger... actually there'd be no time lapse, he'd just take any woman he liked the look of and keep them in his harem... and I've crossed over into excessive analyzing again!

[Alpha]

I personally find its best to call multiple times a day (5x or more if you can) and leave her voicemails professing your undying love for her. Tell her about how she was your first and how you've always wanted to get married with your first. Thank her for her feminine power and beauty, and for ridding you of your virginity. Cry and drop hints at names you want for future kids (with her obvs). Anything you can to sound emotionally needy. Make her believe she is the only girl in your world, except for your mom. This will kick in her maternal instincts (and also her primal fear of rape) and make her respond to you so as to not anger you. This should turn on the pussy spigot for at least two weeks until she gets a restraining order. Warning though: You'll need some lube because she wont be that wet.

I run that tight Omega Game, son!

EDIT: Was this really a dead-ass thread that was up top on the front page for some reason?

[RedBull]

(11-04-2011 01:49 PM)Alpha Wrote:  

I personally find its best to call multiple times a day (5x or more if you can) and leave her voicemails professing your undying love for her. Tell her about how she was your first and how you've always wanted to get married with your first. Thank her for her feminine power and beauty, and for ridding you of your virginity. Cry and drop hints at names you want for future kids (with her obvs). Anything you can to sound emotionally needy. Make her believe she is the only girl in your world, except for your mom. This will kick in her maternal instincts (and also her primal fear of rape) and make her respond to you so as to not anger you. This should turn on the pussy spigot for at least two weeks until she gets a restraining order. Warning though: You'll need some lube because she wont be that wet.

I run that tight Omega Game, son!

EDIT: Was this really a dead-ass thread that was up top on the front page for some reason?

that has to be the dumbest shit I ever heard, this is a forum to score not the forum for a man-bitch.

[TheAntiWhiteKnight138]

Since this thread is being unearthed from the dead I'll take the time to agree w/ CJ. Much younger girls force you to keep your text game on lock. Theres an up and coming generation of girls that DO NOT, and I repeat DO NOT use the telephone for its primary function.......to call people. I've adapted to this and manage to pull young ass like it's my job.

[Alpha]

(11-04-2011 06:20 PM)RedBull Wrote:  

that has to be the dumbest shit I ever heard, this is a forum to score not the forum for a man-bitch.

You clearly missed the whole sarcastic "its a joke" vibe I had with that response. I figured the "Omega Game" comment gave it away.

And don't call me a man-bitch, it hurts my sensitive feelings.

[dongthrust]

Definitely agree. Calling girls that have just come out of college in the last few years seems to generate less results. I had the same balls to the wall calling is for gents, texting is for pussies approach for the longest time. Seems calling girls that never grew up with landlines is the way of the dodo bird. Thing is you can't say too much in the texts, yet you have to generate enough interest for them to text back. They all ask why I'm not on facebook and that I should join, but I ain't into being some gay fanboi. If I get silence or excuses on two texts pushing for meets after a little lenience, I don't pay much attention to them anymore. That may or may not be the best approach, but there are enough birds out there to not care about which way it goes.

[Alpha]

(11-05-2011 12:26 AM)dongthrust Wrote:  

Definitely agree. Calling girls that have just come out of college in the last few years seems to generate less results. I had the same balls to the wall calling is for gents, texting is for pussies approach for the longest time. Seems calling girls that never grew up with landlines is the way of the dodo bird. Thing is you can't say too much in the texts, yet you have to generate enough interest for them to text back. They all ask why I'm not on facebook and that I should join, but I ain't into being some gay fanboi. If I get silence or excuses on two texts pushing for meets after a little lenience, I don't pay much attention to them anymore. That may or may not be the best approach, but there are enough birds out there to not care about which way it goes.

You can generate intrigue over a text by doubling her time to respond every time (I wrote about text game here). She'll wonder why you don't instatext her like every other guy, etc etc. Be indirect with your answers to help build mystery. Introduce slightly sexual topics if appropriate.

I suppose the key is to not text her a lot, act like you could take it or leave it. Every time you flip the script on them, girls go nuts... for your nuts.

As for facebook: I tell them I don't have one because I'm only friends with my family members.

[RaulValdez739]

(05-19-2011 02:59 PM)Dash Global Wrote:  

@ Mixx & G


Young grls & guys ie 18-22 simply are a diff bread, by time demographics and culture. Hell im almost 25 and even at my age its almost been all txt with the exception of close friends and girlfriends. So I can imagine younger ppl simply having no experience or desire to talk on the phone with ppl outside of their inner circle. It is def a cultural thing imo. We are in the txt / social media age. Real shit is slowly being pushed out. Not saying this is a good thing but it is the reality.

If you call a yng grl to soon you run a high chance of making her feel uncomfortable.

So fellas u need to work for the actual phone calls as that is a sign of higher meaning/worth. But dont worry to much if she doesnt pickup ur phone calls at first and only txts u. Nothing personal im sure as of what I explained above. Just keep laying the foundation and you will break through.

I called a girl who was 21 instead of texting the first time(which i normally do). She froze up and it felt awkward. It was as if I was the first guy to call her in awhile.

[pitt]

Great thread but in my opinion there is not the right answer for this.

When i get in touch and she doesnt reply, i may be a little persistent till she tells me why she doesnt want to speak to me or persistent till i get to fuck her and i act like nothing is wrong along the chase. Both strategies have worked before and have not worked, this all depends on the girl you are dealing with. Some will like about you being persuasive, some will see you as needy and desperate. If i have fucked the girl already then i dont really give a fuck, i just move on.

However i always try to have a large number of fuckbuddies so i only eliminate her from my list when she stops being a quality product in my book.

[ImmoralPsychology]

I never understood why so many guys insist on moving on so quickly. For me, it depends on a few variables. If she's not worth any effort at all, I probably wouldn't even have emailed her in the first place. Assuming she was worth the 30 seconds to message once, she's probably worth the 30 seconds to try again. Sometimes, the email doesn't go through and she never gets it. Maybe she got it and deleted it by mistake. Maybe she just got busy and forgot. Maybe she's got a boyfriend at the moment and feels guilty to pursue anything else right now, but a month later could find herself single and lonely and ready to take your invitation. There are limitless situations where a girl might not get back to you that have very little to do with how interested she is in you.

However, there is one thing that you can count on and that is that she is (obviously) not interested in you more than whatever else she's got going on in her life at the present moment. Maybe you can't compete with what she's got going on right now, but there are things you can do to help change with very little effort.

One thing that I will sometimes do when a girl doesn't get back to my email is to wait a little while, say a few days or a couple of weeks, and then send off another one. However, in this one, I do NOT ask her out or to meet me, but I use it as an opportunity to show her what she's missing out on by not knowing me.

Just a couple of weeks ago, I sent something like this:

"Hi (girl's name), long time no talk! How's it going? By the way, did you email me last week? If you did, sorry I couldn't get back to you until now. I went to Hawaii for a few days. It was a blast! Check out my pics! So gorgeous..."

Then I went on the net, looked around for a few pictures that looked like they were taken with an iPhone and attached them to the email.

Bingo. I got a reply less than 5 minutes later.

The key, I think, is to come across like it's you that now sees her as just a friend. Show no romantic interest at all while at the same time shoving her face in the fact that you're a pretty exciting dude to hang with. Obviously, the whole "I might not have gotten your reply" would only work if you're out of range, but it's not necessary to use that particular line.

Next time, I might just wait a couple of weeks and send a "touch base" email. At the same time, tell her about the awesome party I threw last weekend that had over 100 people. It's easy enough to find great party pics on the net too. Of how about the "check out these pics of me and my friends skydiving!"? (She'll never figure out that speck in the sky is not you.)

One of these emails every once in a while completely devoid of invites or any other hint at getting together just may get her all fired up for ya.

It may be considerable effort putting these things together the first time, but you can recycle them on all your new girls that don't get back to ya (and hell, even those that do who are moving a bit too slowly!) and make your work efficient.

[pitt]

Wise words immoral. I am going through the same shit right now where this chick didnt reply to my last message on tagged. However i am not even sending her a message again, im calling her and see whats up.

[RedBull]

(11-04-2011 09:47 PM)Alpha Wrote:  

(11-04-2011 06:20 PM)RedBull Wrote:  

that has to be the dumbest shit I ever heard, this is a forum to score not the forum for a man-bitch.

You clearly missed the whole sarcastic "its a joke" vibe I had with that response. I figured the "Omega Game" comment gave it away.

And don't call me a man-bitch, it hurts my sensitive feelings.

now that i read it again, LOL. well said. I think he should ignore this lizard, she will come back begging for attention once she realizes she has been easily replaced and that he is content without her. lizards have very weak attention spans kinda like soft furry animals. if she texts you first, pull a reverse bitch shield, and make her beg for your attention. hehe.

[More and more]

Glad I found this. Recently I've had some non-responses to texts from girls who seemed into me. Usually I would text once and leave it at that if she doesn't reply. But now I'm thinking that maybe I'm giving up too quickly. If I do message again, what do you think I should say? I was thinking something like "hey, did you get my text last [ ]?" What do you think?

[CMan0928]

(12-04-2012 12:18 AM)More and more Wrote:  

Glad I found this. Recently I've had some non-responses to texts from girls who seemed into me. Usually I would text once and leave it at that if she doesn't reply. But now I'm thinking that maybe I'm giving up too quickly. If I do message again, what do you think I should say? I was thinking something like "hey, did you get my text last [ ]?" What do you think?

Don't go with that. If you must try again, let this be the last time. Don't kiss her ass or feed into her attention whoring. Ask her specifically if she wants to hang, pick a night and time and include that in the first text you send her. This has worked for me. If she still doesn't reply, move on.

[WesternCancer]

Whatever you do don't send them that. What are you saying in your original texts? If it was asking them on a date maybe try making a statement that will compell them to reply. I've used "I just made the hugest mistake" followed up with something silly or trivial with good success.

[robreke]

(05-19-2011 01:45 PM)Fisto Wrote:  

I've txted "I'm just taking ur silence as meaning Fisto, u handsome devil, I can't wait to see u"

This get's a laugh and sometimes you can get things going again.

I like this.

I sent a"nice to talk with you today" text to a girl 30 minutes after I met her and never heard back.

Was going to wait a few days and text her another "how's your week or PT studies going?" then her her up with your cocky text after the second.

Do you send that cocky text after she ignores your first text or your second?

[Sebastian]

this type of thread is more appropriate in those 'PUA' forums. There are tons of info to check it out.
I tried from 'knock knock' to 'hey I saw your twin' to get her reply to my txts. I don't believe those things anymore.

Now I just send regular txts several times. that's it. There is no way to change her interest level in you.
She might reply if her situation has been changed. (eg: she had couple guys pursuing her and they are gone. Her friend is getting married and she feels lonely all of sudden etc)

Whatever you did with her last time, your Interview has been DONE. You can't go back in and say 'oh I forgot to say more about myself which is very interesting'

[MY DETROIT PLAYAS]

Sebastian touches on something a lot of guys don't consider; the peripheral events in a girl's life that we have no control over

Depending on what's going on in a her world at that VERY MOMENT moment affects whether/when your texts get answered in a timely manner of not. Her emotions might be dampered (death in the family) or spiked (attending a wedding) and these things indirectly affect what effect your witty text may or may not have on a girl who otherwise seems all in.

You may go a week without hearing back then out of the blue you get a 'wyd - wanna hang' at 11:21am on a Wednesday night

That magical text, funny joke or blurb that guy's seek just doesn't exist. Timing - is the key to success a lot of times

Along with being short, direct, decisive.

You can talk your way out of waaay more pussy that you can talk your way into.

With texting - less really is more

[General Stalin]

^^^ Lots of truth here.

Touching upon a few different topics in this thread (especially since it was started 3 and a half years ago):

Texting is ubiquitous with young adult females in contemporary America. Calling is almost considered "creepy" if you just started talking to a girl, and your phone call can be ignored just easily as a text make no mistake. Girls are glued to their phones and texting is the medium of choice.

On the flipside, if a girl has already hung out with you then no amount of text game is going to get her re-interested in you after she has gone cold. If you've already hung out AND banged and she starts going cold then consider that done. She is likely talking to other guys and is not very able to spin plates so sh is focused on a more appealing option.

MDP is pretty accurate with timing as well. I hung out with a hottie last year and it seemed like things went well and we had another date planned but she ended up flaking ultimately. Turned out she started talking to her ex again. I was banging this cute alternative girl for a while earlier this year and things tapered off. Ended up hitting her up again out of the blue and got another bang out of her randomly. Turned out she started seeing someone else and it ended quickly because she realized she wanted to remain single. These fucking broads don't know what they want. It's all about feel/vibe and going with the flow.

[Sebastian]

It's easier to understand with this analogy.

You listed some shit on craigslist. this guy checked it out and he seemed interested. But,he stopped txting. you want to ask him if he still wants it.
what would you say? 'are you still interested?' that's it.
At that point, it would pretty look stupid trying to Sell it Again.
'hey man, guess what this can do for you yada yada' LOL

(10-22-2014 02:27 PM)MY DETROIT PLAYAS Wrote:  

Sebastian touches on something a lot of guys don't consider; the peripheral events in a girl's life that we have no control over

Depending on what's going on in a her world at that VERY MOMENT moment affects whether/when your texts get answered in a timely manner of not. Her emotions might be dampered (death in the family) or spiked (attending a wedding) and these things indirectly affect what effect your witty text may or may not have on a girl who otherwise seems all in.

You may go a week without hearing back then out of the blue you get a 'wyd - wanna hang' at 11:21am on a Wednesday night

That magical text, funny joke or blurb that guy's seek just doesn't exist. Timing - is the key to success a lot of times

Along with being short, direct, decisive.

You can talk your way out of waaay more pussy that you can talk your way into.

With texting - less really is more

[Mister X]

Good text game will get you surprisingly far. However this is more so about what happens when they don't respond.

I shouldn't have to say this but I will for emphasis anyway. Abundance mentality. That's gotta be your mindset. That text messages aren't that serious and you send whatever lazy, half ass text you want, when you want, to who you want.

Perfect example, last week I wanted to reopen a girl. All I sent her was a kissy face smiley. Nothing more, nothing less. It was like a Thursday evening, out of the blue, and just felt like sending her something on a whim. I didn't try to carefully plan a clever, witty line or something interesting to grab her attention, I just threw a smiley face her way.

She didn't reply, and I didn't really care. How much did I lose really? What was my level of investment? Close to zero. It's also hardly something she can show her friends to laugh about. It's not like I sent her some beta 200 word text or anything. A kissy face. No answer, no problem.

Playing the field should be fun, playful, and light. You can't obsess over any perceived losses. You also can't play this game of counting who texted who first, who texted last, etc. This is one of the most potent weapons girls have. They tease you by having a flirty convo with you and stopping cold out of nowhere at some point, just to shit test. Happens to me all the time. You can try a preemptive strike and eject sooner than she does, but why overthink/overgame/micromanage? Let her have her fun teasing. You can't overthink stuff like that.

Girl doesn't reply to your text? Give her one (or two, max) more chances and cut your losses and move onto the next one. But don't dwell on trying to come up with the perfect restart message or anything like that. Have fun with it.

[OnlyMarryInTajikistan]

If a girl doesn't reply to you asking her out, it's over.