[jariel]

(03-29-2015 11:23 PM)buja Wrote:  

It's easy to ignore the psycho-ness of a Latina at first because they are so fun to be with in the beginning. Let's face it...psycho chicks are really passionate and enticing.

I think that was one of the central points of the latina discussion we had recently on the game board.

Latinas are masters at running what I call "Make you feel special" game. They will cook meals that will make you fall asleep afterwards, they'll clean your shit until every speck of dirt comes off, and they will fuck you like they're trying to have your triplets.

But that's the game. Latin women want to have boyfriends. Want to get married. Want to have children. Want/need to get taken care of. This is not the same game as the one you have to play with white American women who have different motives and incentives. For latinas to get what they want, they rope you into this fantasy that you being served a certain way is how it's always going to be, that they're always going to be wonderful. It's not that they don't continue to do some of those things, it's that their flaws start to show over time, and the flaws are serious, to the point that they start to overshadow some of those great things -- like the good ass sex.

Ultimately, they are walking Potemkin Villages with exotic skin tones, beautiful hair, and baby-making bodies, but they tend to have serious, point of no return level issues.

Scotian, I loved your post.

The first colombiana I fucked was a currambera named Paola Andrea. I think I busted as soon as she said her name. Remember that scene in Hitch, when he's a dork in college and he meets the girl and he giggles and shit? I'm pretty sure that was me at that time. But anyway, the first time we fucked, it was different because I'm used to fucking latinas from the Caribbean, and they will fuck you hard. She didn't fuck hard, she fucked strong. She had all kinds of body with no fat, everything was right where it needed to be, and it was firm and strong -- oh you better believe I have pictures of that body saved on two different flash drives.

I remember the day after fucking her for the first time, I started doing two-a-days.

One of the things I like about Colombian women, and the same can be said about Brazilian women, is that they take serious pride in maintaining their attractiveness.

I've come across 40-50 year-old colombianas who still look good, some of them look better than their teenage daughters. Latinas from the Caribbean tend to hit a serious wall by 30, and since they're past the primes of their youth, all that "thickness" they had when they're younger has become pure fat. Also, the young ones are being raised in ghetto American culture, so they're picking up ghetto traits, habits, and philosophies. Colombians, Brazilians, Venezuelans, etc. come to the U.S. with money, so they avoid that same ghetto culture.

[chochemonger1]

(03-29-2015 10:59 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:  

(03-29-2015 09:49 PM)chochemonger1 Wrote:  

For a wife or serious girl, i still think, that nothing beats a 2nd or 3rd tier city Brazilian girl.
Mix of loyalty and sexiness that Colombia and Mexico dont share so much.

Which 2nd and 3rd tier cities in Brazil would you say would be best for wives?

Anywhere in Minas Gerais. Mineiras have the best combination of loyalty and looks that I have seen. Not an area for notch counts though.

[buja]

(03-29-2015 11:49 PM)jariel Wrote:  

Ultimately, they are walking Potemkin Villages...

That has got to be the best metaphor I have ever heard!

[getdownonit]

(03-29-2015 11:49 PM)jariel Wrote:  

Ultimately, they are walking Potemkin Villages with exotic skin tones, beautiful hair, and baby-making bodies, but they tend to have serious, point of no return level issues.

[Papi Rico]

(03-29-2015 11:49 PM)jariel Wrote:  

Latinas are masters at running what I call "Make you feel special" game. They will cook meals that will make you fall asleep afterwards, they'll clean your shit until every speck of dirt comes off, and they will fuck you like they're trying to have your triplets.

I gotta give you a +1 for this.

The best is when they take it to the extreme with "make you feel like a God" game. They know exactly what to say and when to say it. Exactly what to do and when to do it.

I would happily accept this sort of conduct, fully aware of the underlying intentions, over an Asian with the purest intentions but unable to give me that "Damn, I feel like a God today" feeling.

[blacknwhitespade]

Aside from practicing my Spanish, what are some ways that I can become knowledgable in the ways of Latin women/culture, i.e. what I need to know/look out for when pursuing one?

Also, I've noticed that many hispanic women (at least the ones in the United States) can be very temperamental. I theorize that this is a sort of shit test/defense mechanism, since many of these women are single mothers living in poverty and are used to unreliable men. Are the women in Mexico this way? How do you navigate these nuances?

[TravelerKai]

(03-30-2015 11:41 AM)blacknwhitespade Wrote:  

Aside from practicing my Spanish, what are some ways that I can become knowledgable in the ways of Latin women/culture, i.e. what I need to know/look out for when pursuing one?

Also, I've noticed that many hispanic women (at least the ones in the United States) can be very temperamental. I theorize that this is a sort of shit test/defense mechanism, since many of these women are single mothers living in poverty and are used to unreliable men. Are the women in Mexico this way? How do you navigate these nuances?

Let me stop you right there.

If you are going after Mexican women, you better stick to ones with intact families. Families that have their shit together. No borracho father in laws, brother in laws, etc. Check out that family like a livestock inspection. Pull back the eyelids, raise the legs, check the color of the gums, everythang.

Family is incredibly important for certain kinds of people. Mexicans, Chinese, Filipinos, etc.

For example: My wife is Chinese. I just sent her and the baby to China to visit the grandparents. My father in law scolded her to make sure she does all my laundry, the house is clean, and make sure all my things are prepared before she left.

My in laws make sure I get taken care of. They support me in ways, no one else or no amount of money can buy. You need fighters in your corner as the head of a household. A woman with no family cannot be held to task on your behalf by anyone. My mom cannot tell my wife anything like that. Her dad can however and he will do it without me asking too. When I met him from day one, he made certain that she demonstrates for me that she does not come from a trash family with bad values.

You need a healthy and intact family to marry into. An orphan or girl from a broken home needs love too, but let someone else go through that drama and mold that woman.

I don't want any RVFer to have to go through what the rest of us divorced guys ever went through. You guys should start correctly and keep it that way.

[jariel]

(03-30-2015 11:41 AM)blacknwhitespade Wrote:  

Aside from practicing my Spanish, what are some ways that I can become knowledgable in the ways of Latin women/culture, i.e. what I need to know/look out for when pursuing one?

Also, I've noticed that many hispanic women (at least the ones in the United States) can be very temperamental. I theorize that this is a sort of shit test/defense mechanism, since many of these women are single mothers living in poverty and are used to unreliable men. Are the women in Mexico this way? How do you navigate these nuances?

There's an American woman named Skye Stephenson, I think she grew up in Peru or Chile, she has a great book on South American culture. I'm Latin, but from the Caribbean, so it was an interesting read on people from my culture, but who obviously have different experiences, perspectives, environments, etc.

Expect the women to be poor and avoid single mothers completely -- you shouldn't care about their circumstances, nuances, whatever, because that's not what you're looking for.

I respect Colombian men because they tend to completely reject single mothers and divorced women -- contrary to popular belief, the divorce rate in Colombia is actually low, but not as low as Mexico -- I think that's a rather intelligent philosophy about women to have, it's definitely better than the Captain Save-A-Hoe mentality.

You'll need to find a young latina, likely younger than what you're accustomed to dating in the U.S. because it's more likely that she won't have had children yet.

Just don't expect her to be a virgin.

U.S.-based latinas fall into one of three categories:

1. They're first-generation and poor, which means they're highly exposed to impoverished Blacks and they become a part of ghetto American culture, i.e. Dominicans, Cubans, Puerto Ricans, Central Americans.

2. They're second-generation who don't really know anything about their culture and don't speak the language, and they're mannerisms and philosophies are more align with white Americans.

3. They're first-generation and middle class because they're families came to the country with money, i.e. Colombians, Brazilians, Venezuelans.

Door #3 is your best bet, and here's why.

They're Americanized enough that they speak the language and are comfortable with the culture, but they're parents also make an active effort to keep them attached to their heritage, i.e. Spanish is spoken in the house, yearly trips "back home", etc. Miami latinos make up the majority of that group, but the good ones are usually gone before they graduate college, that is to say, by the time they're sophomores, they're probably already planning getting married to their high school boyfriend -- some good ones leave Miami after high school and meet their future husband while away at college.

Higher-class latinos don't fuck around, the men aren't going to let their dimes roam around in their 20s to just take random dick, and the girls actually want to be in relationships.

That's the main reason why it's hard to find decent latin girls in Miami, they're high-caliber players who dudes sign and keep giving extensions to so they don't hit the free agent market while they're still desirable -- once they do, they're usually older and strapped with children so their value is incredibly low, and the best they can hope for is that random dick they missed out on in their younger years.

[blacknwhitespade]

(03-30-2015 03:18 PM)jariel Wrote:  

(03-30-2015 11:41 AM)blacknwhitespade Wrote:  

Aside from practicing my Spanish, what are some ways that I can become knowledgable in the ways of Latin women/culture, i.e. what I need to know/look out for when pursuing one?

Also, I've noticed that many hispanic women (at least the ones in the United States) can be very temperamental. I theorize that this is a sort of shit test/defense mechanism, since many of these women are single mothers living in poverty and are used to unreliable men. Are the women in Mexico this way? How do you navigate these nuances?

There's an American woman named Skye Stephenson, I think she grew up in Peru or Chile, she has a great book on South American culture. I'm Latin, but from the Caribbean, so it was an interesting read on people from my culture, but who obviously have different experiences, perspectives, environments, etc.

Expect the women to be poor and avoid single mothers completely -- you shouldn't care about their circumstances, nuances, whatever, because that's not what you're looking for.

I respect Colombian men because they tend to completely reject single mothers and divorced women -- contrary to popular belief, the divorce rate in Colombia is actually low, but not as low as Mexico -- I think that's a rather intelligent philosophy about women to have, it's definitely better than the Captain Save-A-Hoe mentality.

You'll need to find a young latina, likely younger than what you're accustomed to dating in the U.S. because it's more likely that she won't have had children yet.

Just don't expect her to be a virgin.

U.S.-based latinas fall into one of three categories:

1. They're first-generation and poor, which means they're highly exposed to impoverished Blacks and they become a part of ghetto American culture, i.e. Dominicans, Cubans, Puerto Ricans, Central Americans.

2. They're second-generation who don't really know anything about their culture and don't speak the language, and they're mannerisms and philosophies are more align with white Americans.

3. They're first-generation and middle class because they're families came to the country with money, i.e. Colombians, Brazilians, Venezuelans.

Door #3 is your best bet, and here's why.

They're Americanized enough that they speak the language and are comfortable with the culture, but they're parents also make an active effort to keep them attached to their heritage, i.e. Spanish is spoken in the house, yearly trips "back home", etc. Miami latinos make up the majority of that group, but the good ones are usually gone before they graduate college, that is to say, by the time they're sophomores, they're probably already planning getting married to their high school boyfriend -- some good ones leave Miami after high school and meet their future husband while away at college.

Higher-class latinos don't fuck around, the men aren't going to let their dimes roam around in their 20s to just take random dick, and the girls actually want to be in relationships.

That's the main reason why it's hard to find decent latin girls in Miami, they're high-caliber players who dudes sign and keep giving extensions to so they don't hit the free agent market while they're still desirable -- once they do, they're usually older and strapped with children so their value is incredibly low, and the best they can hope for is that random dick they missed out on in their younger years.

Solid post, you've pin-pointed the pool of Latin women in the United States. I've encountered/dated girls from all 3 of those groups. I would agree that the ones from middle/upper class families are the best, however like you said they are somewhat rare, exclusive, and many possess the traits of the typical AW.

I hear that the white women in Mexico and other Latin countries are also quite exclusive and difficult to get with for a foreign/American man. Heard that Mestizas are more accessible, at least for sex, but what about serious relationship? Does your own stats/status have an impact on what to realistically expect? I am a white/european-descent American man, 33yo but look mid-20s, never married, no kids, attractive and in great shape, 5'9", have an interesting job in the engineering field, my Spanish is passable and I'm working to improve it.

I can tolerate some feminism, don't care if they aren't virgins, just as long as they are pure-ish (i.e. haven't fucked the whole town), are not single moms, and show promise (feminine, industrious, religious/traditional, want the man to lead, honest), and of course I don't want to get scammed. What are some pointers to look for to avoid being scammed?

[jariel]

(03-30-2015 05:17 PM)blacknwhitespade Wrote:  

What are some pointers to look for to avoid being scammed?

Interesting question.

I'm going to put all of chips on "gringo hunter" being mentioned more than once in the conversation surrounding this question.

[scotian]

blacknwhitespade, are you planning on meeting a US based Latina or traveling south and meeting her in her own country? Also, are you planning on bringing her back to the US or leaving her in her home country? These are all important factors for the advice you're looking for.

[Spectrumwalker]

(03-30-2015 05:17 PM)blacknwhitespade Wrote:  

What are some pointers to look for to avoid being scammed?

Downplay your resources, and your net worth. Don't make it obvious your wife hunting. Trash talk the idea of marriage right in front of your girl. If she bolts, she's a halfway hooker. If she stays, she still could be into you because she likes what she sees and respects you as a man.

I truly don't recommend bringing a Latin girl back stateside. The idea of raising a family in the states absolutely terrifies me.

[Americas]

Brazil and Mexico are IMO the two best. Due to population size and just the general feeling I get from these girls and their degree of loyalty, I think Brasileiras and Méxicanas are the best bets.

I think you could find perfectly fine candidates in places like Nicaragua, Bolivia, Cuba, Paraguay, Honduras, ect. but the talent isn't quite as good and you would have to dig a lot deeper (and hence, spend more time).

I think Chile, Uruguay, and Argentina are good choices. However, this would take an extraordinary amount of resources to network and establish a solid relationship in these Southern Cone countries.

Stay away from Colombia, Costa Rica, Ecuador, and perhaps Panama.

I don't know enough about the Caribbean countries besides Cuba, and Venezuela and Peru to say (I think there's some potential in these two latter countries).

[Merenguero]

(03-30-2015 07:05 PM)Americas Wrote:  

Brazil and Mexico are IMO the two best. Due to population size and just the general feeling I get from these girls and their degree of loyalty, I think Brasileiras and Méxicanas are the best bets.

I think you could find perfectly fine candidates in places like Nicaragua, Bolivia, Cuba, Paraguay, Honduras, ect. but the talent isn't quite as good and you would have to dig a lot deeper (and hence, spend more time).

I think Chile, Uruguay, and Argentina are good choices. However, this would take an extraordinary amount of resources to network and establish a solid relationship in these Southern Cone countries.

Stay away from Colombia, Costa Rica, Ecuador, and perhaps Panama.

I don't know enough about the Caribbean countries besides Cuba, and Venezuela and Peru to say (I think there's some potential in these two latter countries).

After you take a look at Cuba's divorce rate, I think you can cross that country off the list.

[Bones707]

For Mexican women, I recommend heading off to the lower tier cities of Northern and Central Mexico. Less influence of feminism and traditionalism is alive and well (I say this from someone whose parents are from Jalisco). Guadalajara can be good but you must filter out a lot of girls and try to stick with the more religious ones (but ones who aren't too religious because those types tend to be similar in insanity to Born-Again Christian types). You will need advanced Spanish to find wives in those areas but it's worth it. I may not like Mexican women (I like best Germanic and Slavic girls) but I will say Mexican women can make great wives.

Even here in the US, you can find Mexican American girls who can make good wives as well. To find those type, you have to find them in college campuses (the middle class ones go to college) and if you are an Anglo white male, bonus points for you. Those types that I know who usually go to college are either very open to dating Anglo men or have a strong fetish for a Middle Class Anglo male. Now to filter out the ones who are marriage material:
-find ones who have strong and good fathers
-some religiousness
-their mothers encourage them to dress and act feminine
-siblings aren't fuck ups.

That's all I can say on that. Good luck in finding your future wife and I hope you find one who gives you a happy and beautiful family.

[MidWest]

(03-30-2015 05:17 PM)blacknwhitespade Wrote:  

Solid post, you've pin-pointed the pool of Latin women in the United States. I've encountered/dated girls from all 3 of those groups. I would agree that the ones from middle/upper class families are the best, however like you said they are somewhat rare, exclusive, and many possess the traits of the typical AW.

I hear that the white women in Mexico and other Latin countries are also quite exclusive and difficult to get with for a foreign/American man. Heard that Mestizas are more accessible, at least for sex, but what about serious relationship? Does your own stats/status have an impact on what to realistically expect? I am a white/european-descent American man, 33yo but look mid-20s, never married, no kids, attractive and in great shape, 5'9", have an interesting job in the engineering field, my Spanish is passable and I'm working to improve it.

I can tolerate some feminism, don't care if they aren't virgins, just as long as they are pure-ish (i.e. haven't fucked the whole town), are not single moms, and show promise (feminine, industrious, religious/traditional, want the man to lead, honest), and of course I don't want to get scammed. What are some pointers to look for to avoid being scammed?

Not necessarily. I lot of guys put a lot of stock into this but I found in my Mexico travels that girls, be it white, brown or Mestizas are equally accessible. The myth that white Mexicans are harder to get than the others has more to do with class and less to do about race. There are White Mexican girls in both the lower class and middle class as well who are equally accessible. I've seen brown Mexican dudes with white Mexican girls every time I go.

But if you're serious about a Mexicana wife who is traditional, feminine and white, go to any town and city in the states of Zacatecas, Aguascalientes, and Jalisco (specifically Los Altos). Forget about the Latinas in America, they are pretty much American girls who have been indoctrinated with feminism and if they haven't yet, they will later.

The states of Aguascalientes and Zacatecas are known locally as the catwoman states since a lot of the girls have eyes that resemble a cat or (ojos de gato) as some locals say. Of course there is going to be some ugly ones like in every country, but in Zacatecas and Aguascalientes out of 10 maybe 3 are good looking while the rest being about average or ugly. The girls with the cat eyes look like this more or less,





^^^^These were the finalists for queen of my dad's hometown of Valparaiso, Zacatecas which is a city of just under 60,000 people.


I know Germanico made a data sheet on the Feria de San Marcos in Aguascalientes so you should check that data sheet out. Here's a video of what the girls more or less look like down there.

(In Spanish)

If you're serious of finding a Mexican wife, you should consider these three spots. I go all the time down there almost every year so if you ever happen to want to take a trip down there let me know.

[blacknwhitespade]

(03-30-2015 06:30 PM)scotian Wrote:  

blacknwhitespade, are you planning on meeting a US based Latina or traveling south and meeting her in her own country? Also, are you planning on bringing her back to the US or leaving her in her home country? These are all important factors for the advice you're looking for.

I'm currently tied to my job/career, so probably would be wanting her to move up to the states with me. I may be flexible on this if my job/income prospects change, but I don't see that happening for the immediate foreseeable future. I'd be willing to take leave or leave my job temporarily to spend some time in her country to get to know her and her family.

[Travesty]

^ Damn love that video. How tough would those girls be to get with solid Spanish? That chick showing all that skin is top shelf anywhere in my book.

[lavidaloca]

(03-30-2015 07:33 PM)Merenguero Wrote:  

(03-30-2015 07:05 PM)Americas Wrote:  

Brazil and Mexico are IMO the two best. Due to population size and just the general feeling I get from these girls and their degree of loyalty, I think Brasileiras and Méxicanas are the best bets.

I think you could find perfectly fine candidates in places like Nicaragua, Bolivia, Cuba, Paraguay, Honduras, ect. but the talent isn't quite as good and you would have to dig a lot deeper (and hence, spend more time).

I think Chile, Uruguay, and Argentina are good choices. However, this would take an extraordinary amount of resources to network and establish a solid relationship in these Southern Cone countries.

Stay away from Colombia, Costa Rica, Ecuador, and perhaps Panama.

I don't know enough about the Caribbean countries besides Cuba, and Venezuela and Peru to say (I think there's some potential in these two latter countries).

After you take a look at Cuba's divorce rate, I think you can cross that country off the list.

I can't think of a single foreigner who successfully married their first Cuban wife in Cuba and had it last. Every single story ended in disaster. The common theme is he bought a house for them to live together in and she moved her whole family in as foreigners have 0 property rights. You'd have to be nuts to marry a Cuban chick. There is so much infidelity. I do know a few foreigners who seemingly have done alright there 2nd or 3rd go around with Cuban woman but these woman all stayed on the island.

I'd stick to places where you can date / marry people who have some earning power / opportunity. Cuba is not one of those places nor will it be even with American arrival.

Another reason you wouldn't want to marry a Cuban chick is due to materialism, it really is at an extreme level amongst Cubans. If you want to play Daddy Warbucks then sure it might be alright but that seems silly to me. I will continue dating Cuban woman forever but marriage is a losing game.

[coverdoc]

[quote] (03-30-2015 09:32 PM)MidWest Wrote:  

[quote='blacknwhitespade' pid='990453' dateline='1427753834']

(In Spanish)

If you're serious of finding a Mexican wife, you should consider these three spots. I go all the time down there almost every year so if you ever happen to want to take a trip down there let me know.[/quote]

Already you notice a difference of culture. Funny how most of those bonitas shy away from the camera. Try that with americunts and watch them go full apeshit attention whore mode instantaneously.

From a LTR perspective, I think Mexico is a safe bet. I've been flying back and forth for a while and it's definitely worth it. I'll say this how ever some, and I do mean some, are downright conniving, like in any culture/country. My last ex, solid 9, was one of those. I kept trying to put my finger on how she developed this U.S feminazi entitlement complex. A few times I had to down right tell her shut the fuck up. Once i finally cut her off, she went nazi to angel instantly (Too late!). One thing I noticed is that the girls most intrigued/obsessed with US culture or traveling(euro worshippers) tended to be the ones most likely to be (or in the future become) whiny entitled femicunts. (Thoughts?)

With that being said, you will meet some of the most beautiful, kind and loyal women in Mexico. I've been out on dates with chicks 7's+ who insisted on paying, splitting the bill or them covering the next few meals, movies etc. For every one that is stuck up cunt there is one ready to share her last meal with you. Oh and the booties in northern Mexico

-CD

[buja]

(03-30-2015 02:54 PM)TravelerKai Wrote:  

Let me stop you right there.

If you are going after Mexican women, you better stick to ones with intact families. Families that have their shit together. No borracho father in laws, brother in laws, etc. Check out that family like a livestock inspection. Pull back the eyelids, raise the legs, check the color of the gums, everythang.
...
You need a healthy and intact family to marry into. An orphan or girl from a broken home needs love too, but let someone else go through that drama and mold that woman.

I don't want any RVFer to have to go through what the rest of us divorced guys ever went through. You guys should start correctly and keep it that way.

Pure wisdom. Thanks so much for posting this Kai.

[chochemonger1]

(03-31-2015 11:25 PM)coverdoc Wrote:  

[quote] (03-30-2015 09:32 PM)MidWest Wrote:  

(In Spanish)

If you're serious of finding a Mexican wife, you should consider these three spots. I go all the time down there almost every year so if you ever happen to want to take a trip down there let me know.

Already you notice a difference of culture. Funny how most of those bonitas shy away from the camera. Try that with americunts and watch them go full apeshit attention whore mode instantaneously.

From a LTR perspective, I think Mexico is a safe bet. I've been flying back and forth for a while and it's definitely worth it. I'll say this how ever some, and I do mean some, are downright conniving, like in any culture/country. My last ex, solid 9, was one of those. I kept trying to put my finger on how she developed this U.S feminazi entitlement complex. A few times I had to down right tell her shut the fuck up. Once i finally cut her off, she went nazi to angel instantly (Too late!). One thing I noticed is that the girls most intrigued/obsessed with US culture or traveling(euro worshippers) tended to be the ones most likely to be (or in the future become) whiny entitled femicunts. (Thoughts?)

With that being said, you will meet some of the most beautiful, kind and loyal women in Mexico. I've been out on dates with chicks 7's+ who insisted on paying, splitting the bill or them covering the next few meals, movies etc. For every one that is stuck up cunt there is one ready to share her last meal with you. Oh and the booties in northern Mexico

-CD

Just finished watching the video, and I did like the mexican girls who were featured. But, I wasnt impressed, when I saw shots of the regular women walking around. Ive been to many a feria in Latin America, and I dont see how the average quality is better than las fiestas in Quito, Ecuador, for example....which is considered on the lower end of South America, talent wise.

[kazz]

I have not been to every country in South America (yet) but from what i have experienced so far from a solid year over there their good points outway their bad. The thing is I have been so used to dealing with women in my country for so long, with the other two places I have lived in, Canada and the USA being about the same or worse, when you go to a place like South America and spend a bit of time there, there is no going back to western women, ever, they can not compete. So relatively speaking despite their flaws, which they certainly have, Id say any place in Latin America is good. Also its pretty easy to pick the genuine ones from the not so genuine.

[Lizard King]

(03-30-2015 02:54 PM)TravelerKai Wrote:  

(03-30-2015 11:41 AM)blacknwhitespade Wrote:  

Aside from practicing my Spanish, what are some ways that I can become knowledgable in the ways of Latin women/culture, i.e. what I need to know/look out for when pursuing one?

Also, I've noticed that many hispanic women (at least the ones in the United States) can be very temperamental. I theorize that this is a sort of shit test/defense mechanism, since many of these women are single mothers living in poverty and are used to unreliable men. Are the women in Mexico this way? How do you navigate these nuances?

Let me stop you right there.

If you are going after Mexican women, you better stick to ones with intact families. Families that have their shit together. No borracho father in laws, brother in laws, etc. Check out that family like a livestock inspection. Pull back the eyelids, raise the legs, check the color of the gums, everythang.

Family is incredibly important for certain kinds of people. Mexicans, Chinese, Filipinos, etc.

For example: My wife is Chinese. I just sent her and the baby to China to visit the grandparents. My father in law scolded her to make sure she does all my laundry, the house is clean, and make sure all my things are prepared before she left.

My in laws make sure I get taken care of. They support me in ways, no one else or no amount of money can buy. You need fighters in your corner as the head of a household. A woman with no family cannot be held to task on your behalf by anyone. My mom cannot tell my wife anything like that. Her dad can however and he will do it without me asking too. When I met him from day one, he made certain that she demonstrates for me that she does not come from a trash family with bad values.

You need a healthy and intact family to marry into. An orphan or girl from a broken home needs love too, but let someone else go through that drama and mold that woman.

I don't want any RVFer to have to go through what the rest of us divorced guys ever went through. You guys should start correctly and keep it that way.

Solid advice(again) that could apply to women from any culture.

Always meet her parents before you even think of wifing-up a woman, particularly the mother. You'll get an idea how your woman will age, and any possible psychological/personality flaws.

@blackandwhitespade: I don't want to sound like a patronising old guy, but what experience of LTRs, Latin women, and such like do you have?

Even without the Latin women it's a territory full of pitfalls and learning that can come at a personal cost.

I hope you avoid them and tread carefully. Purposefully seeking an LTR or wife can work, but usually the guy has a lot of experience and wisdom.

Think carefully about what you really want; do you want to give up a massive amount of your time and energy for another person? If you do, then pick them very carefully and don't settle for the first woman to drain your balls and feed you.

[MidWest]

(04-01-2015 12:48 AM)chochemonger1 Wrote:  

Just finished watching the video, and I did like the mexican girls who were featured. But, I wasnt impressed, when I saw shots of the regular women walking around. Ive been to many a feria in Latin America, and I dont see how the average quality is better than las fiestas in Quito, Ecuador, for example....which is considered on the lower end of South America, talent wise.

Not this debate again.

Well see that's the thing though why on earth would you want to try to get you an average girl or low quality regular woman? Focus on the hot ones. Its as if you were trying to find the ugly girls to prove some kind of point. Girls like the ones being interviewed are very common in Aguascalientes, you'll find them on the streets anywhere. In every country there are going to be ugly girls and hot girls, no country is exempt from that.


I know you're a big Colombia guy, and I will be traveling to Bogota this August for the first time there, but you make it seem like there are no ugly girls there at all. I actually saw a video the other day to try to see what the average girl in Colombia looks like, and I was a little disappointed.

^^^Only one of the girls was hot, the rest were meh!

If this is the best quality that Bogota has, I'm going to be really disappointed. I really hope I'm not though for the sake of my trip.