[CactusCat589]

Something is up with this girl. Fun, very receptive, amazingly easy to talk to. She did the swing her hair to one side of her shoulder thing and arranged it in a ponytail for me to hold while she blew me. I haven't been with many girls, and those I did approach turn out to be pretty normal. So this is weird to me.

After mulling this over, I can only come to the conclusion that she's trying to send a message. Basically, she is either submissive... or a 'Sub'. For some reason, my intuition was screaming to me out of nowhere that she must've been from some kind of actual underground BDSM ring in the area. I have no exposure to that community, yet I'm dead certain of my conclusion.

On the surface level, it was normal. I instructed her to arrange herself this way or that when I wanted to switch positions, she complied. But there were 'subtle' things like her putting my fingers in her mouth and a plaintive (?) expression in her eyes at points. I kind of froze and 'played dumb' just because it's out of the realm of my experience.

What would you guys do if you ran into a girl who is really, really servile? Would you just smack her ass a bit more than usual? Talk more and start emptying the clip with verbal abuse? Is it about time to invest in a sex swing and frilly little girl outfits?

[philosophical_recovery]

Why aren't you pushing the dominance boundary in sexual relationships anyway? A girl's going to say no when she doesn't like something, and its the only way to really find out.

If you ask them, they're going to deny being interested most of the time until you pull them into position and fuck them how you want.

Did she actually hold out her pony tail for you or just make it? I've had plenty of girls just arrange a ponytail while blowing me because they got tired of the hair in their face. Sometimes, I don't want the ponytail because I want to feel their long hair on my chest. Other times, I want to see if they'll gag. And I'm not really into the mainstream BDSM bullshit. I just want to do what I want to do. Sometimes that involves holding them in the air and fucking them while standing. Other times it's smacking their ass hard. Other times it's pushing sexual boundaries that we haven't crossed before.

But, why not test the waters?

(03-22-2015 04:01 PM)CactusCat589 Wrote:  

Something is up with this girl. She did the swing her hair to one side of her shoulder thing and arranged it in a ponytail for me to hold while she blew me. I haven't been with many girls, and those I did approach turn out to be pretty normal. So this is weird to me.

After mulling this over, I can only come to the conclusion that she's trying to send a message. Basically, she is either submissive... or a 'Sub'. For some reason, my intuition was screaming to me out of nowhere that she must've been from some kind of actual underground BDSM ring in the area. I have no exposure to that community, yet I've dead certain of my conclusion.

What would you guys do if you ran into a girl like this? Would you just smack her ass a bit more than usual? Talk more and start emptying the clip with verbal abuse?

[CactusCat589]

She held it out like a dog giving you its leash.

I'm a Eagle Scout, and those days are only 4 years behind me. The other guys and I go up to Mount Hood from the base every year or so (I missed the last one). It was almost like culture shock, wasn't expecting that girl to be like that. I thought she wasn't a unicorn, a typical party girl university slut, but not that.

[philosophical_recovery]

I'd be wary, as who knows she got into in the past, but I'd also keep testing the waters. Use caution as appropriate.

(03-22-2015 04:24 PM)CactusCat589 Wrote:  

She held it out like a dog giving you its leash.

I'm a Eagle Scout, and those days are only 4 years behind me. The other guys and I go up to Mount Hood from the base every year or so (I missed the last one). It was almost like culture shock, wasn't expecting that girl to be like that. I thought she wasn't a unicorn, a typical party girl university slut, but not that.

[Lizard King]

BDSM & Tantra(mainly BDSM)

Found a Slave Girl

Submissiveness and BDSM

Game and BDSM are like half-brothers.

[WesternCancer]

Dude, a chick holding her hair off to the side is BJ 101. Telling a girl to switch positions shouldn't be anything new either.

I've been with a bunch of girls who were pretty submissive, but the true submissives get off on serving you and will do anything you ask. A lot of times they'll straight up tell you or will have a different personality during sex (acting/saying very innocent things etc)

I fucked a chick recently who was a true sub.

She bought all my drinks, bought me food on the way to her place, made every effort to ensure my comfort, grabbed me beers.

She told me how her husband was her "daddy" and controlled every aspect of her life (what she watched on TV, didnt allow her to drive, ordered her food etc) and she insisted I could do anything to her I wanted.

I kissed her and she said her husband never kisses her so she doesn't know how to make out. I showed her exactly how I liked it.

She started using too much hand during the BJ so I told her how I liked it. Then I made her grab me a drink.

I fucked her and spanked her. She asked if she was a good girl and listened to everything I said.

As I got more 'comfortable' being with someone this subservient I played games with her. I told her she couldn't orgasm unless I said so and if she did without me approving I slapped her.

After that I started fingering her ass. She seemed a bit hesitant, but I told her if she wanted to please me and be a good girl she'd enjoy it or keep quiet. I fucked her in the ass. After a minute she thanked me for fucking her in the ass so well and was glad I was the first one to do it. After I finished she cuddled up to me and thanked me for the 'privilege' of getting fucked by me.

This chick got off on pleasing me.

Other submissive girls get off on being completely powerless/tied up, others like pain (I had a girl beg for a black eye so she could use it to masturbate to the memory of fucking me), others might like fucking in public, but what they all like is getting fucked how you want to fuck them.

Point is, figure out what you want while also pushing a girl's limits. She's rarely going to explicitly tell you what specifically gets her off and a lot of girls don't know that they'd like it the way you give it to them. My longer term fuck buddy is way less submissive. She likes a light spanking, playful hair pulling, but cringes at the thought of doing anything too 'extreme.'