[muchdaylight]

Hey guys, so I'm still a relative newbie when it comes to game, but would like some feedback from this forum's members regarding an approach I made. Here's the rundown:

I went to a social dance class and noticed her. I was acquaintances with her two friends, a guy and a girl. After the class I was sitting down in the middle of the room and saw her talking with the guy. Walked up to them and opened the set, addressing the guy first. Since I already knew the guy I only had to open with “hey what’s up.” We stood talking for a few minutes and the guy left, so I led the girl to practice the dance moves with me. After a bit of that I led her to sit down with me and continue chatting. She asked me what I did, which led to a bit of flirting. I ended up making her play a game of hangman, using my arm as the place to write the letters, to guess my profession. I also ran a routine I read on roissy’s blog called the love test. She clearly was digging it. She giggled a lot, sometimes put up a feigned indignant look when I teased her about her work—she claims she works in science. Anyway after about thirty minutes of this banter her friend came by and said she was leaving, so she was going as well. I suggested we should grab a drink at sometime and this is when she said “no I can’t.” Inwardly I was surprised but didn’t show it. Just smirked and said “ok, cool.”

If there's anything that I did glaringly wrong, please point it out here. Thanks!

[Ethan Hunt]

This may had been better off in the newbie forum. I'm near so just getting used to the rules.

Only thing I can think of is no mention of escalation. It seemed implied with your hangman game. Can you confirm whether you physically escalated (i'm not talking about kissing - more light physical touches)?

The game sounds fun and incorporated with playful light touches could easily be transitioned away from finding your profession to a more intimate subject.

Example you take her hand and put the index finger sticking out and slowly move it towards the lines drawn on your arm. Whilst doing that say something like "I think we use the same moisturiser, Nivea isn't it?" followed by an unbroken long (20+ second) eye gaze, slowly breaking to a small smile. This is to build intense sexual tension. Whilst still holding her hand in the same position. Then move it towards intimate topics about her then suggest the drink.

Alternatively try suggesting the drink before her friend arrives. If she says no I can't again, continue talking to her but escalate and ask again. It may be that she wanted the drink but her slut defence occurred when her friend arrived.

I'm only going on your lack of mention of escalation.

Keep going pal!

[muchdaylight]

Hey, thanks for responding. As a matter of fact I did escalate with forearm touching and later wrapping my arm around her. Maybe like you said it was ASD kicking in for whatever reason.

(03-22-2015 08:07 AM)JordanH Wrote:  

This may had been better off in the newbie forum. I'm near so just getting used to the rules.

Only thing I can think of is no mention of escalation. It seemed implied with your hangman game. Can you confirm whether you physically escalated (i'm not talking about kissing - more light physical touches)?

The game sounds fun and incorporated with playful light touches could easily be transitioned away from finding your profession to a more intimate subject.

Example you take her hand and put the index finger sticking out and slowly move it towards the lines drawn on your arm. Whilst doing that say something like "I think we use the same moisturiser, Nivea isn't it?" followed by an unbroken long (20+ second) eye gaze, slowly breaking to a small smile. This is to build intense sexual tension. Whilst still holding her hand in the same position. Then move it towards intimate topics about her then suggest the drink.

Alternatively try suggesting the drink before her friend arrives. If she says no I can't again, continue talking to her but escalate and ask again. It may be that she wanted the drink but her slut defence occurred when her friend arrived.

I'm only going on your lack of mention of escalation.

Keep going pal!