I'm sure the term second pass has a PUA slang term, but I will break it down just in case there is not one.
The Second Pass is basically a technique you use to throw off the hungry or thirsty look in your eyes when you see a hot chick, in a place you know you can catch her again. You basically walk up or pass by and say "Good Morning", "Hey Hi ya doing!?" My name is xxxx," (wait for her salutation) "Alright, well I gotta run but, I will see you around." My roomate would borrow my bicycle to make it even more convincing that he was just merely friendly with a great smile that seemed to illicit interest. He would toss in an eye wink as he took off as well. Anyway, he would basically just keep it moving and since he had excellent memory, he memorized all these girls names.
Then he would on purpose the next day ride a different direction to the same buildings and repeat with the same thing. On a 3rd or later day, he would make sure to follow a similar path where those same prospects would be around at. He would take the bike sometimes or not. What he would do is when he saw them again, he would say, "Hey Ashley (made up name), what's going on? Headed to class?" Then Ashley would be more warm and receptive with no guard up. She would also remember him because he was riding a bike and not many dudes (at this campus at least) ride bikes. Then he would come direct and then walk in her direction and talk to her and build more conversation. Then he would make an offer. Want to get something to eat, want to kick it sometime, etc. or just keep walking and talking with her until he gets to her destination. Then he would either number close, make out, cop a feel, or dorm room close right there, if that was the destination.
Smooth as glass right?
I taught this to my brother who is a natural and he taught it to all his friends. We named the technique after my roomate "<his first name> Pass", but we all beasted and feasted off that strategy throughout college and beyond. Mind you these were all black women and we all know how game resistant they are. That's why it worked so well on them. The smarter and hotter they were the better it worked. It kept them in confusion because they almost always assumed you were trying to come hollah at them, like 99% of the guys they blow off, but instead you voluntarily excused your own damn self. As if you did not need their phone number or their company.
You can even make your second pass in the same exact day. The point was to not break your stride the second you saw a hot piece of ass and directly open her. The only downside to that was that it looked indecisive, so you need to have a strong confident frame to pull it off. Appearing to be busy that first time can help. My roomate always cautioned that the longer the lapse in time, the stronger it was. Even if they forgot your name, if you remembered theirs, they won't have any guard up whatsoever.
High quality black women's main weapon is that they can smell your thirst. Disarming that weapon is always key for a smooth transition. African women know you are thirsty, but it does not matter as much. They understand how the world works and allow you to spit game casually because they still understand they can say no at anytime. Black women want to break you down before they even decide on you.
I primarily used this on either African women or non-black women and got great results. I got a number from a black 10 once but got nothing past that. Sometimes for whatever weird reason on white girls, they bring that shit up later. Like they say, hey why you leave me like that yesterday, I thought we were gonna talk or something, but you just left. (A shit test right?) Easy to pass that one, but for whatever reason, they would sometimes bring that up...
Other advanced methods you can blend in include the use of props, like the bicycle mentioned above. You can also use humor. On the second pass, you can use negs or whatever and it won't feel like they are being hit on because you walked off before so easily.
One thing to note if you are no longer in college, it is still very useful if you can find a consistent daygame area that makes sense. For example if you work in a big city and there is a lunch area everyone is at, be suited up and make dry run approaches to gauge receptiveness, introduce yourself, and look for marriage rings. You will see them over there again, then go in for the close. You can mix indirect game in there with those to make them look less suspicious because college atmosphere is more meet friendly than adult world can be. Churches, nightclubs, special interests groups, car shows, theme parks, malls, bars, weddings, restaurants, basketball/football games at your alma mater, are just a sample of places I and others I know have been known to use this strategy at.
It has a hard downside, but when it is good it can be great. Over time I feel like it is not as effective as it used to be, like in the late 90s and early 2000, but you could probably say that for alot of game techniques.
NOTE: This is only for daygame mostly. Mixing this with social circle introductions and things of that nature, does not work that well. You have been warned.
The Second Pass is basically a technique you use to throw off the hungry or thirsty look in your eyes when you see a hot chick, in a place you know you can catch her again. You basically walk up or pass by and say "Good Morning", "Hey Hi ya doing!?" My name is xxxx," (wait for her salutation) "Alright, well I gotta run but, I will see you around." My roomate would borrow my bicycle to make it even more convincing that he was just merely friendly with a great smile that seemed to illicit interest. He would toss in an eye wink as he took off as well. Anyway, he would basically just keep it moving and since he had excellent memory, he memorized all these girls names.
Then he would on purpose the next day ride a different direction to the same buildings and repeat with the same thing. On a 3rd or later day, he would make sure to follow a similar path where those same prospects would be around at. He would take the bike sometimes or not. What he would do is when he saw them again, he would say, "Hey Ashley (made up name), what's going on? Headed to class?" Then Ashley would be more warm and receptive with no guard up. She would also remember him because he was riding a bike and not many dudes (at this campus at least) ride bikes. Then he would come direct and then walk in her direction and talk to her and build more conversation. Then he would make an offer. Want to get something to eat, want to kick it sometime, etc. or just keep walking and talking with her until he gets to her destination. Then he would either number close, make out, cop a feel, or dorm room close right there, if that was the destination.
Smooth as glass right?
I taught this to my brother who is a natural and he taught it to all his friends. We named the technique after my roomate "<his first name> Pass", but we all beasted and feasted off that strategy throughout college and beyond. Mind you these were all black women and we all know how game resistant they are. That's why it worked so well on them. The smarter and hotter they were the better it worked. It kept them in confusion because they almost always assumed you were trying to come hollah at them, like 99% of the guys they blow off, but instead you voluntarily excused your own damn self. As if you did not need their phone number or their company.
You can even make your second pass in the same exact day. The point was to not break your stride the second you saw a hot piece of ass and directly open her. The only downside to that was that it looked indecisive, so you need to have a strong confident frame to pull it off. Appearing to be busy that first time can help. My roomate always cautioned that the longer the lapse in time, the stronger it was. Even if they forgot your name, if you remembered theirs, they won't have any guard up whatsoever.
High quality black women's main weapon is that they can smell your thirst. Disarming that weapon is always key for a smooth transition. African women know you are thirsty, but it does not matter as much. They understand how the world works and allow you to spit game casually because they still understand they can say no at anytime. Black women want to break you down before they even decide on you.
I primarily used this on either African women or non-black women and got great results. I got a number from a black 10 once but got nothing past that. Sometimes for whatever weird reason on white girls, they bring that shit up later. Like they say, hey why you leave me like that yesterday, I thought we were gonna talk or something, but you just left. (A shit test right?) Easy to pass that one, but for whatever reason, they would sometimes bring that up...
Other advanced methods you can blend in include the use of props, like the bicycle mentioned above. You can also use humor. On the second pass, you can use negs or whatever and it won't feel like they are being hit on because you walked off before so easily.
One thing to note if you are no longer in college, it is still very useful if you can find a consistent daygame area that makes sense. For example if you work in a big city and there is a lunch area everyone is at, be suited up and make dry run approaches to gauge receptiveness, introduce yourself, and look for marriage rings. You will see them over there again, then go in for the close. You can mix indirect game in there with those to make them look less suspicious because college atmosphere is more meet friendly than adult world can be. Churches, nightclubs, special interests groups, car shows, theme parks, malls, bars, weddings, restaurants, basketball/football games at your alma mater, are just a sample of places I and others I know have been known to use this strategy at.
It has a hard downside, but when it is good it can be great. Over time I feel like it is not as effective as it used to be, like in the late 90s and early 2000, but you could probably say that for alot of game techniques.
NOTE: This is only for daygame mostly. Mixing this with social circle introductions and things of that nature, does not work that well. You have been warned.
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