YAY I MADE ROOSH LAUGH I AM COOL NOW -2 FTW LOLZ
Somebody asked me for advice! FOr a change, I am useful! Breathe deep...savor the moment..
Text on thursday is fine. Aspergers people actually prefer to communicate that way because you can just read the words without having to worry about such things as tone of voice, body language, or displaying the proper reaction to the other person. It's simpler. And don't worry too much about being "needy" - I'm guessing those guys simply interpreted her nonresponsiveness as disinterest and went WHYY DON"T YOU LIIKEE MEEEE
Speaking of simple: here are some "robot rules" so you can be super cool like thecrazyfool. (Well, I'm not cool, but you get the idea.)
1. Don't talk about Aspergers! Or any mental illness. Unless she brings it up. And don't make fun of people for being crazy, even if she does. It's sort of like racially charged humor: it's only "ok" when we do it.
2. A little beta goes a long way. Don't overdo the warmth and comfort - it's something we're not used to getting much of and we close off very quickly if you overdo it - but you will get absolutely no where with your custom suited solo doloing DHVing neg-dropping kiss-close takeawaying self. Be fun to be with and listen to her long and pointless rambling because most people will not.
3. Be careful with escalation - do it slowwwwly. If you grab her or god forbid, try to kiss her, she will flip out. Instead of a kiss, go for holding hands or a hug at first. This sounds like a bad idea but take it from someone who knows what it's like. The more she lets you touch her, the more she trusts you.
4. Don't try to tell complicated jokes or fancy body language. 9/10 times she won't get it.
5. At first the robot will view physical contact and extended social interaction as the price to be paid for going on a "date." Eventually, though, it will start to desire more of it, though it won't recognize it consciously as such for some time. Once it does, though, it won't want to leave you alone...
If it doesn't work out don't worry about it. It will not have been caused by something you did.
Somebody asked me for advice! FOr a change, I am useful! Breathe deep...savor the moment..
Text on thursday is fine. Aspergers people actually prefer to communicate that way because you can just read the words without having to worry about such things as tone of voice, body language, or displaying the proper reaction to the other person. It's simpler. And don't worry too much about being "needy" - I'm guessing those guys simply interpreted her nonresponsiveness as disinterest and went WHYY DON"T YOU LIIKEE MEEEE
Speaking of simple: here are some "robot rules" so you can be super cool like thecrazyfool. (Well, I'm not cool, but you get the idea.)
1. Don't talk about Aspergers! Or any mental illness. Unless she brings it up. And don't make fun of people for being crazy, even if she does. It's sort of like racially charged humor: it's only "ok" when we do it.
2. A little beta goes a long way. Don't overdo the warmth and comfort - it's something we're not used to getting much of and we close off very quickly if you overdo it - but you will get absolutely no where with your custom suited solo doloing DHVing neg-dropping kiss-close takeawaying self. Be fun to be with and listen to her long and pointless rambling because most people will not.
3. Be careful with escalation - do it slowwwwly. If you grab her or god forbid, try to kiss her, she will flip out. Instead of a kiss, go for holding hands or a hug at first. This sounds like a bad idea but take it from someone who knows what it's like. The more she lets you touch her, the more she trusts you.
4. Don't try to tell complicated jokes or fancy body language. 9/10 times she won't get it.
5. At first the robot will view physical contact and extended social interaction as the price to be paid for going on a "date." Eventually, though, it will start to desire more of it, though it won't recognize it consciously as such for some time. Once it does, though, it won't want to leave you alone...
If it doesn't work out don't worry about it. It will not have been caused by something you did.