Quote: (02-03-2015 02:53 AM)Globe-Trotter Wrote:
Quote: (02-03-2015 12:56 AM)Malo Wrote:
You go somewhere feeling it owes you something then you will never ever win.
You must be willing to put in the same effort whether it's in the Philippines or at a highest end hollywood club.
The difference is you'll get 100 times the result in the more accommodating environments.
But you can't go and try to "make no effort". Girls sniff you think they're cheap and owe you something. Nobody likes that, no matter what country age or gender.
Don't want to make the effort? Go the sponsorship or p4p route.
There's plenty of that for everybody. And it's fine, no shame in that. As opposed to 'going mgtow' by the way, lol.
I was perfectly willing to go the sponsorship route, but how on earth does one go about doing this, and where? No one propositioned me. And the regular girls (non-working) in the stores and malls are off-limits. Whoever said these women were approachable must have last been in the Philippines 30 years ago.
Huh, if you expect to be "propositioned," yes you're in the wrong place. It's called the world. Unless you want whores you pay cash to. You have to approach to get quality women. Some of that approaching can be done online. There is plenty of information here about dating websites, read it.
I might be older than you are, but there are plenty of nice women out there in the Philippines. As has been said, you might have to adjust your horizon to women in their 30s and 40s, maybe 50s if you're 70 years old or something. IKE has reached down from the late 50s to the early 20s.
Not sure what you mean by the "sponsorship route," do you mean marriage? You are getting way ahead of things and have the wrong mindset. The first thing to remember is you're trying to have fun and spread fun. Go out and smile, make jokes to those shop girls. Maybe they are too young, but you're having fun, making them feel good. Talk to people.
You haven't said anything about whether you're in reasonable shape, how old you are, etc.
There are guys who stumble into this forum and just don't know much. So I am not going to say you're a troll, but if you don't catch on by reading some things here and just keep complaining, then yes you are trolling.