[Screwston]

Someone I know told me about this but I'm not sure what to think of it. It looks like a bunch of swinger parties on crack with a mix of pale, vampire looking girls. Any of y'all messed around with it? I registered but I don't think my POF game is going to work here.

Http://Fetlife.com

[oldnemesis]

No idea about this one, but typically BDSM scene is a tough market. One of the things they hate the most are "vanilla" guys who're not into the scene, but pretend to be just in hope to get some pussy.

[Screwston]

For anyone that's interested...

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i dunno....i made an account a while back but never really used it....my friend that put me on the bdsm scene recommended it to me....do you have facebook? that's the closest thing i can compare it to....search around your city for people....if all you see in your area are old and flabby ppl you might have to expand your search to neighboring cities for better results...

start by adding stuff to your page so ppl that see it will take it seriously....check out how some of the other guys/girls have their pages done and copy stuff, lol...as far as the parties, you can't just pop up...hell, you won't find any cause they're usually invite only....so you gotta find someone to put you on....i don't think anal is a considered a fetish by the scene, but you can list it under your interests.....it might help to put that you're new and trying to learn more, on your page....

There is a way to search for events in your city because I found one scheduled tomorrow.

[oldnemesis]

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i don't think anal is a considered a fetish by the scene

Definitely not. Well, maybe male-male anal as part of dom-sub game, but this is a very small subset. The main point here that BDSM is about lifestile, not about sex.

[Screwston]

You have any experience with these females nemesis? I wouldn't mind banging some freaky, vampire broad

[puckerman]

I just quit Fetlife after three years. It was somewhat addictive, but I finally deleted my account and said good-bye. It just wasn't worth it. There are too many really big women on there.

Interestingly enough, I told all my at-one-point 70+ friends. I messaged them and deleted them all one at a time. Most of the men agree with me that Fetlife is a sewer.

People are extremely paranoid about it becoming a dating site. I once suggested that they add a profile option for smoker or non-smoker. That would be a way for me to screen out smokers. People came back screaming, "It's not a dating site."

I was once in a group called "Global Politics." It was a group for people who were actually very open in their Jew bashing.

Fetlife is/was the sewer of social networking. It was the rudest web site I've ever been on.

The European women were kind of cool. The American ones totally sucked.

The BDSM community pretty much sucks to begin with. You have lots of paranoid women, who are much less attractive than average.