Quote: (05-04-2011 06:08 PM)kickboxer Wrote:
I also have a hangup about talking ot chicks with my parents around. My mom always busts me out and seems to go well out of her way to try and embarrass me.
Get over this, homie. Parents--yours or hers--can be your biggest allies. Coach your moms on how to actually help you out: with introductions and by distracting the girl's parents for a solid 10 minutes while you work your magic. Trust me, on the inside, she wants you to get laid. You'd be surprised at how bold you can be with the "adults" around, provided you--obviously--don't go sexual right there and then. Do a mini isolation in the vicinity, get the digits, and follow up. This is amazingly effective.
If the girl's parents are there, game them. Talk to them about whatever, put on the charm, and ignore the babe for a while. My brother was a master at this, back in the day. He had, literally, moms (plural) physically bringing their daughters to him because they thought he was so charming and good-looking. He had a virtual line of moms waiting for him to be available. He nailed a string of "nice church girls" like this.
It makes my flesh angry just thinking about it, because I turned down a lot of quality talent back then because I had my head up my ass. That's a different conversation, though.