[Erasmus]

(12-30-2014 01:51 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

There's a bigger question here, imo.

But I wouldn't bang.

WIA

My ears are open, please explain

[WestIndianArchie]

(12-30-2014 03:28 PM)Erasmus Wrote:  

(12-30-2014 01:51 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

There's a bigger question here, imo.

But I wouldn't bang.

WIA

My ears are open, please explain

Not gonna get too deep, but this is essentially the Social Circle Game issue.

Aside from the idea of "shitting where you eat", maybe the idea is that dating/sleeping with a girl isn't shitting on her.

Even if you realize there isn't a long term future with her, you don't need to approach the bang like it's pump and dump situation. In all likelihood, this 18 year old is getting plenty of offers and rejecting them. She's not some fragile flower, even if she doesn't have a high notch count.

WIA

[MikeD]

So guys I have a question.
I think there's no need to make a thread about it but its still something that really bother me.

There's that girl I've been looking for years ago.
I was in a relashionship so I never really tried to get her.
Last year she invited me to the bar, had a nice night but she denied my kiss.
I didn't wanted to lose my time so I went away.

Now a year later she's coming back. She rent a car to see me. Had fun and went to the restaurant. When she left she was waiting for a kiss (I guess) standing there watching me and smiling. I just went away cuz I still had that kiss attempt in mind...

Now she talking to me everyday and want to see me again.
But I'm gaming other girls and don't want her to break my mental focus.

Would you let a girl who denied a kiss a year ago go back in your life and try to game her again?

What would you do?

I think I should date her. Say we are going to have a drink. Give two dates and try to conclude. If it doesn't work I go away and stop wasting my time.

[Dalaran1991]

What makes this girl so special other than the fact that she rejected you a long time ago? No need to dwell on past failures. You are a different person now.

There's no reason she should break your mental focus if you are gaming other girls, unless you have oneitis for her. Treat her like other girls. It looks like she's not a pain in the ass, so give her a chance.

Quote:

Give two dates and try to conclude. If it doesn't work I go away and stop wasting my time.

Two dates? Fuck this shit. THAT IS wasting your time. Go read the first date bang recipe on here and bang her ASAP. You've already seen her recently, no need for more dates. Don't let her string you along for attention whoring.

[MikeD]

By two dates I meant two days to choose from
You are right... Should give her a try and stay away from her game.

Thanks man

[Seth_Rose]

A girl I haven't seen or heard from in 6 months texted me out of the blue yesterday. She is a super cute and sexy Colombian girl and we went out several times last Spring.

She's a really sweet and feminine girl, but the flaking was unlike anything I'd ever experienced. Apparently Colombian girls are very flaky, but it wasn't something I felt like dealing with. In a span of 8 weeks we only got together four times. The last time we got together was the beginning of May, but we texted though early June which was when she went cold.

Why did she stop texting? Why did she text me 6 months later? No clue and don't really care, I just want to bang her.

I never did have sex with her and the farthest I got was a handjob so I doubt she's looking for some action right away. Nor did I buy her anything more than a couple drinks so she's not looking to me as sugar daddy.

Anyway I didn't dwell on this while texting her and just pushed for the meetup, which is tomorrow unless she flakes. My plan is to pretend like nothing ever happened and just keep gaming her to get some action. Any thoughts on what to do and not to do in a situation like this?

[rottenapple]

(01-03-2015 10:22 AM)Seth_Rose Wrote:  

A girl I haven't seen or heard from in 6 months texted me out of the blue yesterday. She is a super cute and sexy Colombian girl and we went out several times last Spring.

She's a really sweet and feminine girl, but the flaking was unlike anything I'd ever experienced. Apparently Colombian girls are very flaky, but it wasn't something I felt like dealing with. In a span of 8 weeks we only got together four times. The last time we got together was the beginning of May, but we texted though early June which was when she went cold.

Why did she stop texting? Why did she text me 6 months later? No clue and don't really care, I just want to bang her.

I never did have sex with her and the farthest I got was a handjob so I doubt she's looking for some action right away. Nor did I buy her anything more than a couple drinks so she's not looking to me as sugar daddy.

Anyway I didn't dwell on this while texting her and just pushed for the meetup, which is tomorrow unless she flakes. My plan is to pretend like nothing ever happened and just keep gaming her to get some action. Any thoughts on what to do and not to do in a situation like this?

With girls like that, I always think if it is a good idea to flake yourself. Don't make it seem like a 'fuck you bitch take that kind of flake', but more like, hey you know I dont really remember too much of you, its been a while and yeah sort of forgot about our date or something came up.

Anyway, if you do meet, be aggressive, no time to waste with girls like that. She either wants it or not, the time for petty talk is done. If you decide to go the flake route yourself, I give it a good chance, she'll come back wanting more and then the bang is a done deal. The higher value is acknowledged and she needs to validate her ego to atleast get a fuck from you.

[WestIndianArchie]

(01-02-2015 08:00 AM)MikeD Wrote:  

Would you let a girl who denied a kiss a year ago go back in your life and try to game her again?

What would you do?

I think I should date her. Say we are going to have a drink. Give two dates and try to conclude. If it doesn't work I go away and stop wasting my time.

Give her one shot.

"I'm gonna be home on Friday night, come over, bring some wine, and cook for me. "

Treat her like the whore that she is. But other than that, spend no more mental energy. No dates, no meet ups, no text conversations, no liking stuff on her facebook page.

Give her some plausibile deniability to come fuck you, and that's it.

Otherwise, you got more hoes to slay.

WIA

[WestIndianArchie]

Constant flakes don't get forgotten per se, just demoted to mass text status. And you never meet the chick "someplace special". The same bullshit places you normally hang out and trawl for women is where you meet her.

NEVER NEGOTIATE WITH PUSSY TERRORISTS.

If she comes, you bounce.
If she doesn't, you continue to run game.

And when you get to bang, hate fuck. Hammer the shit out of the broad.

WIA

(01-03-2015 10:22 AM)Seth_Rose Wrote:  

A girl I haven't seen or heard from in 6 months texted me out of the blue yesterday. She is a super cute and sexy Colombian girl and we went out several times last Spring.

She's a really sweet and feminine girl, but the flaking was unlike anything I'd ever experienced. Apparently Colombian girls are very flaky, but it wasn't something I felt like dealing with. In a span of 8 weeks we only got together four times. The last time we got together was the beginning of May, but we texted though early June which was when she went cold.

Why did she stop texting? Why did she text me 6 months later? No clue and don't really care, I just want to bang her.

I never did have sex with her and the farthest I got was a handjob so I doubt she's looking for some action right away. Nor did I buy her anything more than a couple drinks so she's not looking to me as sugar daddy.

Anyway I didn't dwell on this while texting her and just pushed for the meetup, which is tomorrow unless she flakes. My plan is to pretend like nothing ever happened and just keep gaming her to get some action. Any thoughts on what to do and not to do in a situation like this?

[Dalaran1991]

Got a nice shirtless abs pic at the beach. Wondering if I should put it up as my facebook profile pic, see bitches' response. Or would it just make me look like a try hard?

[MikeD]

If its a pic from somewhere you went and had a nice time just upload it and say something about it.
Make it look like its the moment you share and not your abs.
If its a selfie it might be hard not to make it narcissistic though

[Coldfire]

instead of getting a girl's number should I give the girl my number that way I don't have to think about sending the right text to her then next day I'll know for sure that she's interested if she texts me

[Dalaran1991]

(01-05-2015 01:30 PM)Coldfire Wrote:  

instead of getting a girl's number should I give the girl my number that way I don't have to think about sending the right text to her then next day I'll know for sure that she's interested if she texts me

Don't rely on girls being proactive in initiating contact unless it's very clear that she likes you, in which case it's redundant who texts first anyway. Remember, girls like assertive guys.

Use it as text game training. Not initiating contact is simply a way to protect your ego.

[Coldfire]

(01-05-2015 01:35 PM)Dalaran1991 Wrote:  

(01-05-2015 01:30 PM)Coldfire Wrote:  

instead of getting a girl's number should I give the girl my number that way I don't have to think about sending the right text to her then next day I'll know for sure that she's interested if she texts me

Don't rely on girls being proactive in initiating contact unless it's very clear that she likes you, in which case it's redundant who texts first anyway. Remember, girls like assertive guys.

Use it as text game training. Not initiating contact is simply a way to protect your ego.

My text game isn't that great how should I improve it?

[Dalaran1991]

I'm nowhere an expert in text game but I can give you a few pointers.

Roosh has a free text game guide in which the principle is keeping text purely logistics, go grab it. Many RVFers me included also swear by this. If you are very very skilled then yes there's a lot you can do with text but for now keep texting at the bare minimum. Texting is 100% no fuck up game because so many things can go wrong in texting.

A few things I've learned:

-WHEN IN DOUBT, DO NOT TEXT. Yes I'm screaming at you because it will save you from screaming one day. I can't count how many times I or someone I know lost a girl by trying to be cute or to game her through text when the situation is not going well.

-Always keep your text shorter than her. If possible, text less than her even though she seems eager. I know this suck but if you wanna win the game you gotta play by the rules.

-Uncle roosh says takes longer than her to reply. I also agree but this sometimes becomes a war of attrition. Use your own judgement. If the girl can't wait to jump on your dick, act accordingly.

-Use MMS. A funny pic is worth a thousand words. General Mayhem might have a few pointers for you, check with him.

-Check the threads on emoticons while texting.

Good luck bro. Just remember, don't screw up. That's the name of text game

[bojangles]

(12-30-2014 10:33 AM)el mechanico Wrote:  

(12-30-2014 10:25 AM)bojangles Wrote:  

(12-30-2014 09:44 AM)el mechanico Wrote:  

I have a question that doesn't deserve a thread or does it?

What happened to Wiggers? I don't see them around much anymore? Why is this?

Shaming? They were shamed a lot and guys respond to shaming better than women I reckon

How do you know? You have wiggaz where you're at?

Unfortunately yeah.

[WestIndianArchie]

You've banged a girl out a few times, say 3.

Would you prefer her to be one of these 2 options

1) Clingy
2) Nonchalant

WIA

[Pride male]

^^If she is hot she can be clingy. If she is average she can be nonchalant.