Out at MacDinton's in Tampa. Great place for the US if any of you come out here. Just playing flip cup in my garbage kickball clothes, and this 7 seems to be hovering around. Leather pants, boring but cute and friendly. Barely remember opening her. Seems pretty easy, though. Game for a little bit, get the typical IOIs. There's this other guy with her, says they're not together, but that he's going through some things and she needs to help him out. Whatever, game on elsewhere.
So I'm pointing out to my friend that the girl to his left, the girl to his right, and this girl are the same identical 7, when she points to where she and this guy are going. Ok, freebie. Tough to balance a girl and a dude, but he's easier than some fat cockblocking chick, so it's not long until he's buying me a drink and I'm making out with her.
The three of us bounce to another bar, and she runs into an ex and totally focuses on this new guy. It's a good 15-20 minutes, and not ok. So here's the decision time. I can take this shit, let her get away with it, and easily bang her. Or I can run dread game, get the fuck out, be a man, and be respected. I choose the latter, and on cue she texts with her apologies, which I of course ignore, then calls. I finally answer, she tells me that she "really likes me" and she wants to get together tomorrow. I decide that's enough supplication and agree. So she hooks hard, respect in tact. But I'm typing on here tonight and not having sex.
The question is, better to endure the bullshit, take the lay, and pump/dump? Or play the dread game, get the respect you deserve, but have to wait to get laid?
tldr - Better to get laid or to get the upper hand/respect and wait to get the notch?
So I'm pointing out to my friend that the girl to his left, the girl to his right, and this girl are the same identical 7, when she points to where she and this guy are going. Ok, freebie. Tough to balance a girl and a dude, but he's easier than some fat cockblocking chick, so it's not long until he's buying me a drink and I'm making out with her.
The three of us bounce to another bar, and she runs into an ex and totally focuses on this new guy. It's a good 15-20 minutes, and not ok. So here's the decision time. I can take this shit, let her get away with it, and easily bang her. Or I can run dread game, get the fuck out, be a man, and be respected. I choose the latter, and on cue she texts with her apologies, which I of course ignore, then calls. I finally answer, she tells me that she "really likes me" and she wants to get together tomorrow. I decide that's enough supplication and agree. So she hooks hard, respect in tact. But I'm typing on here tonight and not having sex.
The question is, better to endure the bullshit, take the lay, and pump/dump? Or play the dread game, get the respect you deserve, but have to wait to get laid?
tldr - Better to get laid or to get the upper hand/respect and wait to get the notch?