Quote: (12-08-2014 12:29 AM)General Stalin Wrote:
This is me bearing it all here fellas. I have an extremely recent story.
This has happened over the past couple weeks. I didn't mention it in my previous post because I wanted to see how this past weekend's date panned out before I spilled the beans.
There is this cute girl that works in finance at my company. I had eyes for her since she started so I struck up dialogue with her and asked her out to lunch one day. We hit it off, got her number, and made legit date plans the following week. I have now gone on 3 dates with her and I haven't even so much as kissed her - I have tried to but she has turned me down saying she "takes a while to warm up." You know those cringe-worthy moments when you go to make a move on a girl and she physically turns away and pulls back and tries to change the subject and shit gets awkward? Yeah... its been like that. Because she seems so meek, sweet, and innocent I have been involuntarily putting on the nice guy act and being a total chump with her walking her to her car, making dinner, and generally being a "gentleman." Despite this, she still wants to hang out and I still have a date lined up with her tomorrow, and her being almost 100% physically unavailable to me hasn't made me tell her to get lost yet.
Truth be told, she is incredibly conservative (read: not slutty), very feminine, nurturing, and submissive as fuck and will seemingly do whatever I want to do and go where ever I want to go (as long it has nothing to do with her and I being physical with one another?) and it makes me think she may be a good girl to keep around long term. What is wrong with me.
You say she's submissive as fuck....well you need to be a little more caveman with submissive girls. They are only submissive to a dominant man.
Just grab her by the hair and kiss her. She's probably desperate for you to do something like this.
If you don't you are on a one way trip to the friend zone.