[J DOE]

Didn't this happen to Idris Elba and Ne-Yo as well? It seems being rich, handsome and famous is no shield for this type of behavior.

[Pride male]

There are players, and then there are payers.

[Kabal]

As a mostly East Asian/Southeast Asian guy, I suppose a positive externality of me preferring white and whitish latina chicks is that it is highly unlikely that a half-Asian-ish baby that pops out isn't mine.

[OnyxTiger]

Is the girl in the first picture the same girl as the one in the last pic? They look different somehow...

[Sourcecode]

These hoes ain't loyal

[bacon]

That hoe was probably like "Look Omarion he has your eyes"

[Kizman]

(10-19-2014 10:05 PM)Saladin Wrote:  

Rich and famous dudes are more likely to be played because gold diggers will actively target them.

Which is why game/red pill mindset is an essential skillset for a rich or famous man.

Is it me or is the whole hip hop/RNB industry moving towards a far more simping mindset?
.....

Yea I've noticed that a fair bit as well, problem is most of the fellas in the rap game are either hyper-masculine like 50, dmx, etc or super beta like drake and macklemore.

[TigerMandingo]

(10-22-2014 05:48 AM)Kizman Wrote:  

Yea I've noticed that a fair bit as well, problem is most of the fellas in the rap game are either hyper-masculine like 50, dmx, etc or super beta like drake and macklemore.

DMX is hyper-masculine, you say?

[Simeon_Strangelight]

(10-22-2014 07:37 AM)Cunnilinguist Wrote:  

DMX is hyper-masculine, you say?

DMX has enough crazy Dark Triad inside of him to qualify for that.

He might have some weakness for trashy ratchet girls, but also had this:



While we do not know how he is around women to make him truly Alpha, he probably qualifies to be a lesser Alpha at least. Besides - all that bluster does not matter, since his celebrity status alone gets him more pussy than most PUAs.

[jay_penetratem]

"So... I love my baby momma, I'll never let her go!"

[TravelerKai]

DMX is an enigma, wrapped inside of a mystery. He is very masculine but very beta at the same time. His dog bark sounds wimpy. He is very homophobic. Does crack and other serious dope. Very violent minded. He is even stupid or brave enough to fuck with federal agents and police. Maybe he is one of those omega types or one of those Alphas like War Machine? I don't know, he is very difficult to explain or fully understand for that matter.

[bojangles]

DMX is a fucked up individual whose best rapping came when he was high and fucked on crack. There's nothing more to it. I agree with Kai that he is very difficult to explain or understand.

[jariel]

[AneroidOcean]

Was just re-reading this series and here is his "son's" 1st b-day party:

Who the fuck does this kind of shit for a 1st birthday party? Actually, who even has 1st birthday parties?










Also saw an announcement of his woman getting pregnant with another kid. Hope this one is his!

[Pride male]

Where is Jariel?

[realologist]

It's almost sad how much denial this guy is in. You know all his friends and family said to him "Seriously, that's not your son. It's obvious that she cheated on you with her Mexican ex and got pregnant. Just look at him."

I'm sure he heard this plenty of times and denies it every time but it still has to be eating at him deep down. I wouldn't be surprised if he assaults his girl one day when she pisses him off for something relatively minor.

[TravelerKai]

(08-25-2016 07:31 AM)realologist Wrote:  

It's almost sad how much denial this guy is in. You know all his friends and family said to him "Seriously, that's not your son. It's obvious that she cheated on you with her Mexican ex and got pregnant. Just look at him."

I'm sure he heard this plenty of times and denies it every time but it still has to be eating at him deep down. I wouldn't be surprised if he assaults his girl one day when she pisses him off for something relatively minor.

Nope! Typical Black people are not that red pilled enough to talk like that. It's happened in my family. After the initial disgust lasts for about 5 mins, they typically accept it as a step-father thing and keep it moving. The way they see it, at least he is being a father.

At the end of the day what else can anyone do about it? Nothing. There are plenty of good men in the world that had good step fathers. Some even call those same men Dad and don't see it any different. Obviously it will fuck with his head some when he gets older and realizes he looks nothing like his dad. It might develop trust issues and trigger an identity crisis, if his parents refuse to defuse it quickly and cop to the truth and squash it.

When the race is the same it's possible to get away with lying to the kids like that. When it is mixed, you cannot do that. Lying to the kids will just make the shit worse. You basically have to cop to the truth to them to avoid them developing trust issues.

[realologist]

(08-25-2016 08:56 AM)TravelerKai Wrote:  

(08-25-2016 07:31 AM)realologist Wrote:  

It's almost sad how much denial this guy is in. You know all his friends and family said to him "Seriously, that's not your son. It's obvious that she cheated on you with her Mexican ex and got pregnant. Just look at him."

I'm sure he heard this plenty of times and denies it every time but it still has to be eating at him deep down. I wouldn't be surprised if he assaults his girl one day when she pisses him off for something relatively minor.

Nope! Typical Black people are not that red pilled enough to talk like that. It's happened in my family. After the initial disgust lasts for about 5 mins, they typically accept it as a step-father thing and keep it moving. The way they see it, at least he is being a father.

At the end of the day what else can anyone do about it? Nothing. There are plenty of good men in the world that had good step fathers. Some even call those same men Dad and don't see it any different. Obviously it will fuck with his head some when he gets older and realizes he looks nothing like his dad. It might develop trust issues and trigger an identity crisis, if his parents refuse to defuse it quickly and cop to the truth and squash it.

When the race is the same it's possible to get away with lying to the kids like that. When it is mixed, you cannot do that. Lying to the kids will just make the shit worse. You basically have to cop to the truth to them to avoid them developing trust issues.

Do you think someone like Omarion that won't even admit it's not his kid, squash the race issues that come up?

I don't.

I would respect Omarion if he actually said. I forgive my girl, its not my son but I'll treat him like my own. He will know what the truth is when he gets older. In the mean time respect the privacy of my family.

[TravelerKai]

(08-25-2016 09:22 AM)realologist Wrote:  

(08-25-2016 08:56 AM)TravelerKai Wrote:  

(08-25-2016 07:31 AM)realologist Wrote:  

It's almost sad how much denial this guy is in. You know all his friends and family said to him "Seriously, that's not your son. It's obvious that she cheated on you with her Mexican ex and got pregnant. Just look at him."

I'm sure he heard this plenty of times and denies it every time but it still has to be eating at him deep down. I wouldn't be surprised if he assaults his girl one day when she pisses him off for something relatively minor.

Nope! Typical Black people are not that red pilled enough to talk like that. It's happened in my family. After the initial disgust lasts for about 5 mins, they typically accept it as a step-father thing and keep it moving. The way they see it, at least he is being a father.

At the end of the day what else can anyone do about it? Nothing. There are plenty of good men in the world that had good step fathers. Some even call those same men Dad and don't see it any different. Obviously it will fuck with his head some when he gets older and realizes he looks nothing like his dad. It might develop trust issues and trigger an identity crisis, if his parents refuse to defuse it quickly and cop to the truth and squash it.

When the race is the same it's possible to get away with lying to the kids like that. When it is mixed, you cannot do that. Lying to the kids will just make the shit worse. You basically have to cop to the truth to them to avoid them developing trust issues.

Do you think someone like Omarion that won't even admit it's not his kid, squash the race issues that come up?

I don't.

I would respect Omarion if he actually said. I forgive my girl, its not my son but I'll treat him like my own. He will know what the truth is when he gets older. In the mean time respect the privacy of my family.

I think he can.

In private there is almost no way to know if they admit it or not, to each other or to the kid. Publically he does not owe anyone of us an explanation or any admission of guilt. He can select to keep us all out of his business, knowing damn well it's not his.

It's like a selective cognitive dissonance or a way to save face.

[Kid Twist]

Megaa?

Nothing surprises me when I see that type of stupid shit

[eljeffster]

This guy is already screwed even if the paternity test proves he isn't the father. He is already on the hook for child support and the Gov doesn't let that go.

[Pride male]

Cmon, the kid is his. He would have taken a DNA test if he wasnt sure.

[Tim in real life]

Fucking sad to see Omarion go down a cuck.

As for DMX, I guarantee you all a lot of his problems have single mother household-related issues being the source of it all.

[Serious Sam]

^^^
Denial is an extremely powerful force. My brother had three children with his ex wife. About two months after the third was born, she revealed to him that she never loved him and had fucked a truckload of guys while he worked (he traveled every week). She then tried to tell him that the second child was not his, but the child of some drug dealer she had been banging on the side. She said the other two were his.

He told her she was full of shit, that the kids were his, etc. Now, his first two children were old enough at the time to have defined features, while the third was just a baby, so it was harder to tell. The first two look just like my brother. Compare their pictures to his childhood photos, and the resemblance is obvious. They are his kids. They both have very outgoing personalities, tan skin, and dark colored eyes.

As the third child has gotten older, I have become 100% convinced she is not my brother's child. She has pale skin, light colored eyes, blond hair, and eyesight issues, requiring her to wear glasses (the other two do not). She's also shy and introverted--a complete 180 from the other two. She also looks a lot like one of my brother's ex friends who just so happened to bang his ex wife. This guy has blond hair, pale skin, and wears glasses.

My brother just had his fourth child with his second wife about a year ago. This child has tan skin, dark eyes, and is showing signs of having a very active/outgoing personality. Plus she shares a lot of resemblance with my brother.

I have tried to bring this up with my family. I tried to softball the conversation, even with extended relatives. They shut me down very quickly, so I decided not to press the issue. Simply mentioning it invited vitriol that could have had long term repercussions had I decided to press further. The thing is, they're all in denial. It's so fucking obvious. When I took my girlfriend back home (and mind you, I had not mentioned this to her), she later asked me if the third child had been adopted. We had a discussion and both agreed that the third child was not his. Mutual friends of both my brother and myself have also said this to me in confidence.

It's an extremely delicate issue, especially when the guy has raised the kid as his own for several years. Family members won't bring it up because of the ensuing shit storm that will follow. If he's content raising another man's kid (which my brother has been for 9 years now), then so be it. I'm not going to ruin my relationship with him by trying to convince him the child isn't his.

Looking at Omarion's kid, it's obvious the child isn't is. The kid looks half black/Hispanic, has straight hair, and none of his features. Guys like him and my brother get so caught up in the idea of fatherhood that they lie to themselves to protect their egos. They are fragile men who trust others far more than they should--even cheating sluts who obviously do not love them.

Instead of bursting my brother's bubble, I try to pass on some wisdom to help him grow. He married his first wife young and against everyone's advice. The ensuing cheating/divorce were inevitable and foreseeable, but like I said, guys like him convince themselves that everything is going as it should. It's our job to help wake these men up, and that starts with the truth. However, going full bore isn't always the best option. Sometimes you have to throw it slow before speeding things up.

[BassPlayaYo]

That kid sure does look like him now.