We're on the same page game wise. For me though, and I'm guessing most players the alternatives on any given night are
- fucking some chick you've already fucked
- staying at home and taking care of business
- going back out on the prowl
- another date with this chick you haven't fucked
New Pussy > Old Pussy
But then you got time and cost considerations...
All of these things rarely line up.
But the second part,
After she gave you "the run around"...(which is how must guys view it)
The first bang is probably decent, but it's the next few bangs that tend to be the real pay off. But then the high you get from fucking a new chick peters out as the novelties wear off and you start to deal with incompatibilities.
I think you need at least 3-4 more before all the accounts are settled.
If you get into a mini-LTR, in my experience, cost per notch climbs.
WIA
- fucking some chick you've already fucked
- staying at home and taking care of business
- going back out on the prowl
- another date with this chick you haven't fucked
New Pussy > Old Pussy
But then you got time and cost considerations...
All of these things rarely line up.
But the second part,
After she gave you "the run around"...(which is how must guys view it)
The first bang is probably decent, but it's the next few bangs that tend to be the real pay off. But then the high you get from fucking a new chick peters out as the novelties wear off and you start to deal with incompatibilities.
I think you need at least 3-4 more before all the accounts are settled.
If you get into a mini-LTR, in my experience, cost per notch climbs.
WIA
Quote: (10-18-2014 05:26 PM)Atlantic Wrote:
Not a booty call directly but just tell her to come chill at yours.
Cook up some food, have some wine and go for the bang.
You have already wined and dinned her, plus you got the BJ. No more bars or clubs. Time for one-on-one in a place that is very suitable for having sex. I think a fourth date outside of your apartment is not ideal and is probably heading towards provider vibe even if you get the bang. I am not doubting your game but you are setting up a bad precedent with so many drink dates pre-bang.
Quote: (10-18-2014 04:45 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
She's already gotten sexual, just no fucking.
So if CPN is on your mind, you'd go for broke and do a bootycall text?
At best, she's sipping/eating/smoking whatever you have on hand.
So 4 dates, but you only outlayed for 3?
Quote: (10-18-2014 04:26 PM)Atlantic Wrote:
Movie and a bottle of wine at yours. Late enough and with a good day selection (you working in the morning?) that she will be staying over. She comes straight to yours (no more drink dates), stick with your usual game and escalate straight off the bat. From writing this post it seems you know you may have already over invested.
At this stage she has been on several dates and either knows if she wants to fuck you or not. Don't pursue anymore. You have other girls in the rotation so withdraw a bit and try get her chasing if possible.
Bottom line I would invite her straight over and escalate hard. If she wants to fuck she will, if not you know you are being played. She has already decided which type of guy she sees you as you just have to find out for yourself. Hard escalation will let you know.