We have extensive threads about POF and OKC experiences. What about Match? There seem to be a lot of mid-20s hotties on here. A lot of college-educated, SWPLS, ethnic types and asians, at least here in Chicago. I've been trolling the site for a few weeks, I've just had 2 dates (a 3rd one planned), no bangs. I started out with an inquisitive, albeit cut-and-paste message, but have been mixing it up with some more challenging/original intro messages to get these girls thinking.
My response rate thus far is maybe 10-20%, but at least half of those are really terse one line/one word responses. Kind of disappointing, I thought a paid site like Match would have more serious girls than POF/OKC. What have been your experiences? Can you pull these Match.com hotties for bangs within 3 dates or so? Is there a solid formula for what to write in your profile and how to message these girls?
My response rate thus far is maybe 10-20%, but at least half of those are really terse one line/one word responses. Kind of disappointing, I thought a paid site like Match would have more serious girls than POF/OKC. What have been your experiences? Can you pull these Match.com hotties for bangs within 3 dates or so? Is there a solid formula for what to write in your profile and how to message these girls?